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 Jun 5 2005, 05:41 PM
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 livin up to the name.  Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539  |
eh, okay.
Yeah so as many of you know, Im bi. But I was talking to my friend earlier.. and Told her how I was feeling and how I was thinking about her. And she said we could hook up. It would be cool and all, but I mean, It would be wierd since Ive known her so long. I want to, but it jus twould be akward, but still nice. ah, I dont know what to do. Advice, please? p.s. sorry if this doesnt make sense, just ask &ill explain better |
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Jun 5 2005, 06:06 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
hmm. i say do what you think is right.. but you know this kind of stuff wrecks friendships.. sooo.. yeah
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Jun 5 2005, 06:19 PM
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^i agree. these things can mess up friendships. just trust your instincts.
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Jun 5 2005, 06:21 PM
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Ive done that one time....we didnt date long but our friendship sucked too after that.
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Jun 5 2005, 06:22 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
Eh,
&since weve been friens for quite a while. Is it really, just not worth it? Oh, and Shes not really positive if shes bi or anything. So its kind of.. experimenting? for her. &It may help her in the future. &we wouldnt be dating.. just..hooking up every now &again |
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Jun 5 2005, 07:02 PM
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Since she's not really sure if she's bi, I say don't go for it, but if she really wants to, then..sure
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Jun 5 2005, 07:05 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
do what you think is best of you. dnt let anything like other people get in the way(=
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Jun 5 2005, 07:12 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
It was really her idea.
So I mean. I dont think thatI would be pushing her, right? |
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Jun 5 2005, 07:40 PM
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this sounds amusing. i dont know why. but if shes willing, sure, go for it.
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Jun 5 2005, 07:45 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
Ah :/
I feel like if we ever hooked up, then she would avoid me or something. But it WAS her idea. Ugh, this is hard. |
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Jun 5 2005, 09:49 PM
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well if she's not sure if she's bi or not then i don't know if this is a good idea. cause if she's your friend and she wants to just "experiment" i have got a feeling that later on this may ruin your relationship and feel akward. BUT since it was her idea, i guess you could talk about it a little more before you make a decision. just do what you feel is right.
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Jun 5 2005, 10:01 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Lots of people "experiment" with their friends, and if you have a close enough relationship, it shouldn't harm anything. .__.;;;
But then, either way, you'd be taking a risk. |
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Jun 5 2005, 10:03 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
So should I just be like
"hm so what do you think about blahblah.. and us hooking up"? |
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Jun 5 2005, 10:11 PM
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i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Just make sure she won't regret it later or ask if she thinks things will be awkward afterwards.
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Jun 5 2005, 10:21 PM
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Its not good to go out with a best friend, maybe you should just stick to hanging out like regular. Because if you guys decide to not see each other anymore, then your friendship would be wasted.
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Jun 6 2005, 08:17 AM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
^ We're not exactly gonna be "going out".
Just having.. "fun" from time to time. |
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Jun 6 2005, 10:02 AM
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sorta like a friends with benefits thing? well, that's what hurts most in the end..even if you try not to, you'll get emotionally attatched and if things don't work out in the end, or if she's not really bi, then you'll end up hurt.
i wouldn't advise on dating/hooking up with close friends. |
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Jun 6 2005, 07:03 PM
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do what feels right; and i agree with the the others. Such things liek these may wreck friendships. Do you want the friendship to be over? or do you want to give it a try regardless of the outcomes. Frieds or not in the end
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Jun 6 2005, 07:27 PM
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well it depends on how close you are with her really, and just how comfortable you guys are with it.
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Jun 6 2005, 08:45 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
^ I wouldnt say we're too close at all :/
Eh, I mean.. we hardly ever talk, so? I just dont want whatevr friendship we have to end. Maybe I should mention that to her? |
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Jun 8 2005, 11:59 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you like her alot, go for it. But make sure you tell her in case anything does happen, that you'll just go back to friendship....
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