Him, And Only Him Options

[xXYuRbAbIiGurLXx]

i`m really sorry if this has been posted in any kind of way. but heres the story. . .

There's a guy, and supposedly he likes me just as much as I like him. Which is alot, but he doesn't seem like it. He of course has to live like 1000 miles away from me, so we don't see eachother. And he decided that "whenever we could get together we would. No matter if we have some one or not." and so on, and he told me i love you and blah blah and im like well what if you really like your gf, and hes like i wont coz i want u. and he's had a date in his profile, he told me his "ex" girl friend wanted him to put in, and he told me they broke up, but hes never taken the date out, and all of a sudden two days after we have that convo, it now has 4eva written by the date.and im like wth.. i dunno im just so tired of him doin the same thing over and over, saying one thing and then...something makin me suspect, and then a week later say the same thing agen. sry if this makes no sense, but i dunno .

[topsyturvy]

Seems to me he's using you as a back up when he has arguments with his "ex" gf.

You shouldn't have believed him about "getting together whenever you can, no matter if you have someone or not". This statement basically means you both agree to cheat..?

Forget about this guy.. he's skipping between his ex and you. He's not worth your time.

[xFaith]

i think he likes the attention of you, but doesnt really have feelings.. he still has his gf, etc.
Just forget him, dont rely on 'getting together".
Especially cuz' he lives far from you..

[dahding]

ur just a backup. forget him. u deserve better.

case closed.

[GoodCharlotteRoc...]

well i think that he's an a-hole if he's using u as a back up.......dahding is right u should be treated alot better than that.

[_sarcastic_]

forget about him, like what others ^above said, he's just using you as a backup so just in case he breaks up with is 'ex' gf, then he'll have you. you deserve much much better than this

[enyceXaddiction]

a guy like that has alot of tricks up his sleeve, and dont fall for them!! FORGET HIM move on. dont waste your time on a guy like him.

[xlaydee_v]

liek what everyone else said, he's using you as a backup. you don't need someone like that.. forget about him.

[heyyfrankie]

now that is just ridiculous. y'all dont' even live within city limits to each other but make plans to drop everything (including relationships) and get together? that just seems stupid, IMO.
i think that he is going out someone...i think that is blatantly obivous >> the date in the profile. just forget him. long distance relationships hardly ever work out.

[babycarrot]

ey jus look at the big picture.. he's using the both of you for different purposes for his pleasure and none if it is for ur benefit if its making you more suspicous than happy. you dont need a guy like that, he doesnt deserve your attention nor ur time.. so let him know that and find someone who does k? =) plus he's miles away and he's already playing u like this? you dont need an overseas game. good luck =) let us know how it goes! =)

[azndreamer]

move on and forget aBT him. the same thing happened to my friend once and he ended up cheating on her when they did get together. but he's really not worth if he isnt making u happy.

[seremela_culnamo]

From my point of view, and like many others, I'm sorry to say that I think he's just using you. Don't let guys ever use you.

Once I told a guy I like him. He never said he liked me back, but whenever my friends ask him about me, he says I'm alright and other good stuff. So I asked my opinions from others, just like you're doing now [friends are usually wrong because they don't want you to face the horrible truth]. Finds out that most of the people agreed that he was just using me in case he can't get a date or something.

So yea. I suggest you to forget him. Long-distance relationships are hard to keep, too. Unless it might not if you're constantly in contact with him and see him all the time. But it doesn't seem like the situation here.

[LadyXTor]

ur just a backup. forget him. u deserve better.

case closed.

Exactly. Why would he listen to his ex? It's not that hard to take things out of your profile. Move on.

[Shattered_Hope]

If you're tired of him doing all these things.....then just forget about him....it's obvious that he has a girlfriend already and you're a backup.....and besides....if he's one thousand miles away from you....what makes you think he would take you seriously? And the fact that he seems to take the three words very lightly...Move on and stop wasting your time on a guy who will only use you.