Need some advice xD Options

[xFaith]

well, i like this boy, and we went out 2 times, nothing happened. Sometimes it seems that he likes me sometimes not.. like for instance, when we SMS, he is very flirty and last time he sorta asked me out.. but then at MSN, he doesnt say much, and i asked last time; "ok when are we going out then?" and he said; "well i dont know, im busy" I asked; " well ok dont you have any time left then?" He said he had to work. right

That kind of things..
I dont know if he wants me or not or if he still is worth the effort..
Advice?

[topsyturvy]

I think he's using you..

[xFaith]

Using me for what? :P i know him all my life and i know he doesnt wanna hurt me..

i guess

[topsyturvy]

I dunno.. it seems like he doesn't really appreciate your existence that much if his affection and care is "on-and-off".

Or.. is he just having mood swings??

[xFaith]

Or.. is he just having mood swings??

Rofl. that would be funny :P

Well, he was at this lake or something yesterday, and some of my friends were there, and they saw him, and my ex-best friend, a total snob, talked with him and stuff.. dunno what she said though, but maybe it was bad >_<

[dahding]

...is there a specific reason why u don't believe the guy? i have no time during the week, and i usually work on the weekends. and when u say that he sorta asked u out, could u be a little more specific?

so far, it doesn't sound like the two of u have a serious relationship, more of a: we're-better-than-friends-but-not-there-yet relationship. maybe u have to talk to him about it.

[xFaith]

Yes i do because his work isnt that busy, and he doesnt work in weekends..

He smsed (is that proper english? :P) me; "Hey, im finished with my exams on tuesday, so we can get together some time again. (you know, that he thought i would be okay with it that we went out without asking it, like he is doing me a favor or something o_O) " and i said; "okay if you want to" and he said; "well im kinda bored otherwise"

Yeah i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to look like a fool, because i dont know if he takes it serious xD

Damn its kinda complicated now i look at it this way o_O

[_sarcastic_]

you should just forget about him, if he can't make up his mind now, imagine what he'll be like when you're in a relationship with him
talk to him about it, work it out

[xFaith]

Yeah,, but my friends went to a lake to swim yesterday, and he was there too, and my ex-best friend talked to him.. and i asked to my other friends what she said, and they started laughing, and they "didnt know" .. very weird, they always tell me o___O' So maybe she said something that made him back off :S damn this is to complicated

Love you guys for your comments, its helpful :)

[aera]

i wonder why your friends wouldnt tell you. maybe they did know?
mmm... he seems to be interested, but not that interested. maybe ask him what your ex-best friend said.i think youd better stay friends. either that, or hes hiding his true feelings.

[sleepie_cat]

Go for someone new maybe. That is all I can really say, because he isn't really worth making any effort.

[enyceXaddiction]

Go for someone new maybe.  That is all I can really say, because he isn't really worth making any effort.

agreed^

[Jasminluvsu]

I dunno.. it seems like he doesn't really appreciate your existence that much if his affection and care is "on-and-off".

Or.. is he just having mood swings??

i agree

[xlaydee_v]

-_-;; that sucks. i hate it when guys are really on and off. you should ask him for the truth.. and tell him if he's lying to keep you from getting hurt; say lying makes you hurt even more.. the only way to find out is to ask him. but in a way i dont think he's worth your time.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Talk to him about it i guess, tell him you wanna spend time with him and you miss him.

[xFaith]

Im gonna hear it from my friend what she said today :P
If its bad, im gonna talk to him, if its not important, im not going to pay attention to him anymore.. i guess thnx for the great advice! :D

Edit:

Kay, this is what she asked:
-If we (me and him) are going on a date again
-If he likes me
-If he wanted to give my friends and me a grade

(i got a 7, my other friends too, and the girl who asked all those questions got an 8.. )

My friend said he didnt actually answered, but he found it funny what she asked
I hate my ex- best girl friend
maybe thats why he does so weird now..

[xFaith]

nvm,, he doesnt like me, he likes someone else o_O'

[heyyfrankie]

kick him to the curb. he sounds like he doesn't know what is going on. is he by any chance stupid?

[darksatins]

hmm...saw what you said on ur xanga.
it seems that he didn't realize that you liked him so much,
and at the same time he seems afraid of hurting your feelings, which seems to be inevitable.

True, he shoulda told you how he felt from the beginning, and should not have sent mixed messages, like flirting, etc. Either way, in the end, there will still be pain.

[xFaith]

oh well, im kinda suprised because it doesnt hurt that much (i actually dont feel bad at the moment) as i thought it would be, so im fine :)