i would really like some advice, about relationship Options

[bill7531]

I've known her for about 3 months. We are getting comfortable around each other, we tease each other and joke around and had some fun. We hanged out a couple of times and again, had some fun. We chat on msn. Everything seems fine i guess. I like this girl, but just from what we have done, I don't really think she likes me. How do I move out from this friendship to a higher level. should i drop some hints??

[iheartsimba]

Well..you can't force her to like you. But you don't know if she does or doesn't just yet. Get to know her, but maybe become...a bit more flirty. And find out her reaction...if she sort of backs off, or flirts back. Then you might get an idea.

[bill7531]

lol, i guess that's the only i can do although i am not so good at flirting

[macb]

everyone has to learn how to flirt

just be yourself. act natural, don't try too hard. be calm and let her know you enjoy her presence, give her your attention.

[strwbrysensatns]

Just be yourself, but try flirting. but not major. Do little sweet things for her that you dont do for other girls to make her feel special and to show that you care for her. Her reactions should be telling, but if not you might just have to go for it!

~Strwby

[sweetest-emotion]

DEFF. drop hints, or watch for hers. give her a hug when you leave, smile a whole lot when u see her, or just make her feel really special. i know the hints i gave my guy were that i practically jumped on him when we were watching the grudge (FYI: a scarey movie is the PERFECT way to get close to sum1, with a good reason!), and he said he got the hint. just make her a top priority, or, the #1 way: ask her if she likes you, or tell her how u feel! my bf told me flat out how he felt, and i was sooo releaved cuz i dunno if i would've said ne thing since i can get pretty shy around guys i like. so just suck it up and tell her.

[aera]

drop hints. flirt. try and hang out more.

[babycarrot]

drop hints. definetly! slowwwly tho.. jus to show her how ur reallly feelin bout her n from there ull see if she feels the same.. if not but potentially could then make her feel like the queen hahah if all fails.. sorry =( good luck!

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Tell her you like her, and if she doesn't like you back then wait and continue on with the friendship.

[xenosaga]

^ agreed, tell her how you feel and maybe she might get the same feeling as well

[bebeexbroken]

since i'm a girl, i'll tell you it from a girl's perspective. I liked a guy for over a year almost 2. I've been waiting for him to approach me with an "I love you" or something but he hasn't. One night before my 8th grade graduation, I felt I can't go through with graduating and going to high school unless i know how he feels about me first. i told him he rejected me, now i am afraid of approaching any guy like that or even really flirting. so some girls are afraid of rejection so they wait for the guy to make the first move. you should tell her in a really romantic way. If she rejects you its going to take some time to get over with but remember if you don't take a risk, you'll never know what could have been and you'll always be living in what ifs. That is an even more depressing lifestyle.