parent and boy trouble, oh my! Options

[breakfreeberebel]

OK. Soo i am having trouble in like every area of relationship of my life!

My dad: my parents are divorced and my dad comes by every few days to visit me and stuff, and then the only other communication is by phone. My phone's battery constantly dies, or I forget my phone at home when he calls me. So now he thinks I'm avoiding him (which I'm not). I already told him that I am not avoiding him and that he shouldnt think that, but he still goes on.And he constantly cries and says I hate him. It really annoys me because he acts like my 4-year-old brother!!!

Boy: Okay so theres this boy I like, let's say his name is Allen (which it isnt)... he knows I like him, and he's a real jerk about it. He is always making fun of me and imitating me and lying to other people about me, when all I ever did to him was love him (okay that sounded really cheesy but anyway..) It makes me really upset because I like him so much. He's one of those crushes you just can't get out of your head, you know?! So it just really makes me heartbroken. Everyone tells me I should forget him because I deserve better, and all that kind of shit. I just can't seem to not like him tho, and its ruining my life!

If you have any suggestions about what to do, tell me, because I am seriously like dying here...

[moralsdecayaway]

your dad.. nothing much you can do about that.. my dad acts childish too.. and "allen" he probly likes ou back.. and is just showing it in an immature way.. either yall or young.. or he needs to do some growing up.. but you shouldnt hold it against him if yall are young..

[xwifeyd]

tell ur dad to buy a new cell phone if he really wants to talk to you .. also why do u like the "jerk" give yourself 10 reasons why you like him and hopefully the #1 reason is because he`s cute but if you can really make 10 reasons why tell him .. if not you`ll move on because every girl deserves the best

[technicolour]

omg if a jerk like that makes fun of you for liking him..forget it honey! that isn't a good sign...

dad- new cell? new way of communication?

[breakfreeberebel]

thanks guys!

i just got done talking to the guy i like...he isnt too happy...

[h31d1]

forget that guy. there is bound to be someone else who DOESNT make fun of you for liking him.

[iixSOOJINx]

dad - try to get a cell phone so you could talk to him whenever you want.
boy - he probably likes you or is acting mean to you because he wants you to stop liking him. but once you stop, im pretty sure, that he'll feel sad.

[_sarcastic_]

for your dad, just reassure him that you don't hate him and that you always have phone problems. explain to him.
for Allen, he's probably just shy about the fact that you like him and he might like you back so he acts that way, making people think that he doesn't like you. ask him if he does or just look for signs/hints

[demolished]

gET A FAMILY PLAN CELL PHONES =] WOHOOOOOOO ! TALK ALL DAY LONG.

ALLEN SEEMS TO ENJOY BRAGGING, HE PROBABLY LIKES YOU.

[breakfreeberebel]

ooo well i solved the dad problem...i overheard him crying and talking to my mum about how hes having trouble at work but he'll get thru it. he always does. as for "Allen" ... welll i got in a big fight with him yesterday over the dumbest thing. i had a part of the song "Blood Red Summer" in my AIM profile, and he was like "take that out of ur profile!!!" so i was like NO. and he got all mad and said im gonna ruin them...which doesnt make sense, i mean, come on, if you think about it, i cant have any impact on CO & CA. so anyways...he got really mad at me and stuff and then suddenly he was like "u just put that in ur profile cuz i like that band!!!!" and that was when a nerve busted. I was like I DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE (even tho i still do) and he acted kind of shocked and wrote "lol ur kidding right?" so i said, "no." and then he didnt reply....could it be a sign?