obsession and ODing, what do you think? |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
 May 16 2005, 07:52 PM
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When it comes to boy liking girl or girl liking guy, when do you think it becomes "crush" to "obsession". In other words, how can you tell if your friend is not just crushing but obsessed with that person.? I think that you know when someone is obsessed and not just crushing on someone when you see their name in everyone of their notebooks, or even talking about them non stop i know i do it sometimes ^^;;
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May 16 2005, 07:57 PM
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 kristin  Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I've had a few obsessions myself >.<
I constantly talk about them..annoy my friends like crazy..write there names all over my notebooks =]...and can't get them off my mind. |
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May 16 2005, 07:58 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
crushing is just liking. maybe talk about them a little. crushes are also easier to keep a secret. obsession is like talking about them non-stop, writing their name on notebooks, following them everywhere, always staring at them, always thinking about them and always trying to be near them all the time.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 16 2005, 08:00 PM
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QUOTE I constantly talk about them..annoy my friends like crazy..write there names all over my notebooks =]...and can't get them off my mind. lols oh yes infact i know exactly how you feel, im going through the same thing. |
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May 16 2005, 08:01 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Obsession is:
-Talking about them ALL the time. -Finding out where they live. -Finding out pointless information about them. -Writing their name everywhere. -Making some sort of crazy shrine dedicated to them. That's obsession  .
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May 16 2005, 08:01 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
a crush is like blushing everytime you see them, smiling when sum1 mentioned thier name, giggling, and ya kno the flirt. its okay to like fantasize about that person, but it can get to the obsession part when they like make it thier everyday thing to like stalk them in school (memorizing thier schedule, acting like a spy to scope him out b/w periods, taking random candid pics of that person--w/o thier nowledge) or like just ya kno, having that person be like your whole life is taking it too far. u gotta give that person thier space! i'd say to just keep ur kool.
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May 16 2005, 08:03 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i think that you are obsessed with someone when you begin stalking them, and the first thing you say is "where is ____", and when you talk about them nonstop, and when you spend all your time writing their names, and when everything you have (xanga, aim profile etc) has to do something with them.
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May 16 2005, 08:05 PM
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QUOTE when everything you have (xanga, aim profile etc) has to do something with them hem hem, what kinda obsessed freak does that  *whistle* 
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May 17 2005, 11:08 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
when they talk about them constantly, and bring them back up when you change the subject... and when they start becoming possessive about that person i guess
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May 17 2005, 10:12 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
lols hey jane!
anyways. it becomes an obsession. when you start stalking him/her. that's just.. freaky lols. but anyways i'm partially obsessed about the guy i like/love(not too sure which one) i talk about him a LOT. and i think about him more than i talk about him. but i dont write on paper about him and stuff haha. i just think about it in my mind and daydream. ^ew i sound desperate but i really do<3 him :P |
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May 18 2005, 06:37 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
LOLS jane you know me im in your class what you think i am? obsessed..or just a crush? lols i find myself to obsessed sometimes but hey thats why we're the upsessers<3
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May 18 2005, 10:05 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i think my friend has a obsession..during math, when we solving a problem, she saw the variable M and she started saying his name..i think thats considered obsession...
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May 29 2005, 05:20 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
You know, raving about them all the time (both personality and physical), relating everything you do back to them, doodling their face in the margins, talking about them in every blog entry, having their picture as your desktop picture on your computer...
What? 
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