Girls are too girly, Girls nowadays are way too girly........ |
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 May 13 2005, 10:12 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,669  |
You know what? Girls are WAAAAAY too girly nowadays. Am I the only chick who's ever even noticed? My boyfriend loves me for me, not because I'm constantly trying to impress him with girly features. Post your opinions.
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May 13 2005, 10:13 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
it depends on how you define "girlie"
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May 13 2005, 10:20 PM
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 -Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
QUOTE You know what? Girls are WAAAAAY too girly nowadays. Am I the only chick who's ever even noticed? You're not alone. 
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May 13 2005, 10:32 PM
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i think of girlie as in ditzy and dumb for some reason idk y
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May 13 2005, 11:09 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
i think its the sterotypical thinking of everyone and it gets drilled in the brain.. then.. ppl start acting unlike themselves.. i no i dont at ditzy and dumb on purpose x)
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May 13 2005, 11:35 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
I act dumb on purpose. At times.
 Anywho, so what if they're girly. I mean, they are girls no? Is there not a reason why girls shouldn't be more girly? I get "girly" at times. =] |
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May 13 2005, 11:37 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Im a girly girl , BORN that way darling.
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May 14 2005, 12:09 AM
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 Um....Its meeee Group: Member Posts: 2,218 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,264 |
^ Totally agree. Am such a girlie girl but i dont need to be judge on how i want to be pretty every day.
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May 14 2005, 12:32 AM
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see I do karate and I like to wrestle and play
with the guys you know football etc I act like such a tom boy but then again you need to act girly or else you'll be like some guys who are all dirty and look like shit and eww. u have to be girly to a certain extent. I like makeup I like the whole lotion smelling good and stuff |
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May 14 2005, 12:32 AM
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Who cares? Let them be.
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May 14 2005, 12:38 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
that's really stereotypical. not everyone's like that. i play sports and i don't act "girly". but who cares, if they want to be girly, let them be.
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May 14 2005, 01:04 AM
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Stereotypical is what that is, beacause not all girls are like that. I play sports. I've been on every sports team my school has had, but I don't act "girly," whatever you define girly. Yes I do like to buy clothes and such for myself, and I can't say I don't care what's in and what's out, but I don't wear make up, I never have, and I'm not planning to anytime soon.
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May 14 2005, 01:12 AM
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QUOTE(xoxvietbabyy @ May 13 2005, 11:04 PM) Stereotypical is what that is, beacause not all girls are like that. I play sports. I've been on every sports team my school has had, but I don't act "girly," whatever you define girly. Yes I do like to buy clothes and such for myself, and I can't say I don't care what's in and what's out, but I don't wear make up, I never have, and I'm not planning to anytime soon.  note I said I LIKE not EVERY GIRL |
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May 14 2005, 01:22 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
some ppl are... lots of ppl are in my classes. like in english, we were talking about the democratic and republican sides of Washington, in this hypothetical situation, and one girl is like "i dont like democratics because it has rat in it."
dumb as a doornail? yes. lots of girls are like that..... it's so stupid!! i mean, are they doing that on purpose? why?? to annoy me to the point of insanity?? gah....
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May 14 2005, 02:21 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
Yeah dude I act more like a guy and I wear baggy clothes and junk but yeah I'm more athletic than any other girl I know or go to school with. I was voted most athletic girl in my 8th grade class. It's cool cause the guy I like likes me more cause we can play sports together and then i can be all sensitive and slightly girly when he just wants some down time to spend cuddling.
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May 14 2005, 02:41 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
Kinda stereotypical...i act girly rarely...im more like a tom-boy..i rather be out playing sports rather than go shopping...so ya..lol..
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May 14 2005, 08:44 AM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
it doesnt matter, it just means u take care of urself. whats wrong with that
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May 14 2005, 09:10 AM
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girls are girly these days because of all the new clothes/trends coming out. i used to wear jeans & tees everyday.. and now i dress much more girly.
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May 14 2005, 12:54 PM
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How is a girl "too" girly?
 Your statement was more of a generalization...I'm not girly. I hate dresses/skirts...And I don't wear shorts. There's really nothing wrong w/ girls being girly or guy-ish. It doesn't change them being themselves. My mom, she's really feminine, but she's independent and can take care of our finances and her family WITHOUT my dad...My problem is that my boyfriend's too feminine. I hate him right now, so don't even listen to what I say about him.As long as they're happy and they get by just fine...That's all that matters. Both guys and girls try to impress each other...I'm not saying everyone, but some do...It's usually a sign of the start of adolescence. |
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May 14 2005, 02:21 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
i wanna know what is wrong with being girly. we are girls. i am all girl. really girly. well except when it comes to guy i like the dirty and big ones
. and i like to fight...and tackle....like football and hockey . o and i love makeup.
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May 14 2005, 02:26 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
well, girls are girls. they can like makeup, or sports or both. I dont like, however, the girls that act stupid on purpose.
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May 14 2005, 02:32 PM
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well i think it's fine for girls to be girly.
i can be girly but i can be tomboyish too and totally neutral , it depends how im feeling. i mean im not gonna dress girly if im going hiking or playing football with the guys right? but i'll dress girly if im going to the mall with a bunch of girlfriends and for school it really depends if i feel like dressing up or down it's our nature to always feel like dressing to impress. |
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May 14 2005, 02:33 PM
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QUOTE i wanna know what is wrong with being girly. we are girls. i am all girl. really girly... and i like to fight... Cat fight
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May 14 2005, 02:48 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Why is it that guys are encouraged to be 'manly' but girls are discouraged to become 'girly'?
Do you think there is a reason the word 'girl' is in 'girly'? 
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May 14 2005, 02:52 PM
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Yea like those girls that wear short demin skirts and pink tops with flipflops, louise vuitton purses, huge gucci sunglasses, says omg every 5 seconds, fake high voice, watches laguna beach and worships paris hilton and hav fake boobs, duz that hi pitched scream wenever there's a lil bug, and wear an inch thick layer of make up on their face.... they annoy me after a while
like i'm not sayin i'm prejudiced agenst ppl lyk that, but i jus don like 2 hang around them that much cuz they get annoying cuz of their fakeness n stuff. |
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May 14 2005, 03:01 PM
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hey, just as long as they're not doing it for attention and guys, it really doesn't matter, right?
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May 14 2005, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(PreludeTears @ May 13 2005, 10:12 PM) note I said I LIKE not EVERY GIRL What I don't get it. I didn't say anything about you. |
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May 14 2005, 03:48 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
hmm, I ahvn't noticed that...Iv'e never even really known a girly girl
or maybe I jstu mistake girly girls for jsut..girls? I mean we're all girls, how can a girl be a girly girl and that be bad? that's like saying a guy can't be a guye guy, he has to be a girly guy, which basically mean he's gay. I donno what I am...I'm jsut a girl. a girly girl? I donno. maybe I'm more of a tomboy. I have no idea.I don't like labels  P.S. I don't wear makeuo, but I LOVE going shopping...what does that make me? |
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May 14 2005, 04:08 PM
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not ALL girls r girly.. actually, most of the girls in my school aren't girly at all, they just act themselves, they don't try to be like others which I appreciate very much
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May 14 2005, 05:59 PM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
Look at it this way, it'd be a sad, sad world if all girls were . . . "man-ish". And not to mention an extremely odour filled world.
Everyone's different. Each mind is it's own world. Leave 'em alone, if girls wanna be girly then let them be girly. |
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May 14 2005, 07:57 PM
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I'm not girly at all...I wear black button up t-shirts with ties...that's not girly...
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May 14 2005, 08:56 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
We all have a girly aspect to us...some girls just have more girly aspects....leave 'em be.
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May 15 2005, 02:16 AM
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I don't really care if a girl wears minis and doesn't have an interest for sports...
But yeah, it does get annoying when this one girl goes: "Like, all the money my mom paid to the school could of gone to my shopping money" (seriously  )
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May 15 2005, 05:13 PM
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what do u define as "girly" !??? o_O ....well ..not ALL girls are like that tho.
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May 15 2005, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 14 2005, 2:52 PM) Yea like those girls that wear short demin skirts and pink tops with flipflops, louise vuitton purses, huge gucci sunglasses, says omg every 5 seconds, fake high voice, watches laguna beach and worships paris hilton and hav fake boobs, duz that hi pitched scream wenever there's a lil bug, and wear an inch thick layer of make up on their face.... they annoy me after a while like i'm not sayin i'm prejudiced agenst ppl lyk that, but i jus don like 2 hang around them that much cuz they get annoying cuz of their fakeness n stuff. that is SOOO stereo typical. i'm a girly girl but.. i dont say OMG every 5 seconds, i dont have a fake high voice, i dont have fake boobs, i dont do a high pitched scream when i see abug or wear an inch thick layer of makeup.. 
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May 15 2005, 06:45 PM
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 between your smiles and regrets Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217 |
hey, i can be girly at times and sporty. i wrestle my male friends and i still dress girly most of the time. i play sports like volleyball and sometimes basketball // flag football // softball // soccer.
.. these days, so many people stereotyping so many things.. |
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May 15 2005, 07:41 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
i don't really see anything wrong with girly girls. if everyone seems to hate girly girls why I don't see as much butch/tomboy girls?
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May 15 2005, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(airam @ May 13 2005, 10:13 PM) it depends on how you define "girlie" Theres nothing wrong though.. i agree. some girls are girly as in.. fake nails, purse, tons of make up, dresses.. the whole thing! lol other girls... like myself included.. are not very much into make up and fashion and stuff! lol I'm me!
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May 15 2005, 10:29 PM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
QUOTE(lil_gymnast6 @ May 13 2005, 10:20 PM) You're not alone. some of them had gotten more prositute-ish... |
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May 16 2005, 12:43 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
This is SO OOBER un-true....
Whats wrong with being intact with the feminine side of yourself?! Not everybody is turning "girlie"!! Ok.. I'm a girl. I like to play videogames (which I rock at by the way), but I love to go shopping and gossip. I hate make-up. I hate getting sweaty. I don't play too many sports. I can totally relate to guys but I can totally relate to girls too. My boyfriend loves me because I'm me and I'm oober awsome. I dress the way I want too... Whether its "girlie" or "guyie". Whatever rocks my boat. |
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May 16 2005, 12:50 AM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
There's nothing wrong with being girly. I think it's quite healthy to be so, not always trying to be all down-with-the-guys. I mean, sometimes it's nice to treat yourself like a girl with make-up and facials and all that good stuff.
And someone spoke of girly girls being stereotypical. Isn't a tomboy also a stereotype? |
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May 16 2005, 02:43 PM
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 Hi, I'm Jo. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,563 |
im one of those girls who shops at Hollister and AE and stuff and wears those cute skirts. I wear makeup and I worship MAC. I wear my huge Chanel sunglasses and my cute flip flops with my pedicure and manicure. My clothing does not affect my intelligence, attitude, or speaking habits. I love being a girly-girl and not being a ditz. There's a difference.
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May 16 2005, 02:46 PM
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Hi, I'm Jo. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,563 |
alse, i'm a hugeeee sports fan. Ask me anything about the Boston Red Sox. I'll tell you. I'm a ticket holder and I worship them. But yet, I'm a girly girl. And I love it.
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May 16 2005, 02:57 PM
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what do you mean by girLY
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May 16 2005, 03:14 PM
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I AGREE WITH SLUSHH.
thank you <33. |
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May 16 2005, 03:15 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
wow very good topic. yes girls are TOO girly. i mean its fine to be a girl and do girly things. but sometimes you are too girly. they are afraid of such little thigns. !!
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May 16 2005, 03:35 PM
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0mG lyK l0l lyk oMg!!1!one
Yes, they are annoying
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May 16 2005, 03:41 PM
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Well, if you know someone is too girly for you and you have a problem with it, then don't hang out with them. Girls will always be girly; what do you expect? It's just that some are more girly than others. What's the problem with that? You want to be a tomboy and your boyfriend appreciates that, good for you. Don't generalize it.
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May 16 2005, 08:37 PM
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Why is everyone defining 'girly' as being 'ditzy'? They are different definitions! There are butchy girls out there who are plain dumbo in the brain! I would say I'm a girly girl, because I fix my hair and choose clothes that make my body look nice and I tend to be a sweet girlfriend by fixing the boytoy dinner. Buy I definetly don't go overboard on the expensive stuff. I'm a frreeakin cheapskate! By the way, don't worship Paris Hilton, she's just a ditzy whore who still looks ugly after all that makeup. I hate her nose! Girly=Cute, Ditzy=Hilton Bitch
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May 16 2005, 09:13 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
in my school, girls arent girly. they're 'gangsta'
if you're girly, they pound on you. |
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May 16 2005, 11:27 PM
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being girly is fine if it's YOU. however, often it's forced. i know when i felt like no one cared i sort of said dumb girly things for attention and i know a girl that is always saying things that make her look like an absolute idiot. it just depends on the person; you can definately tell if she's fake or not.
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May 17 2005, 09:04 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Bleh, I can be girly once in a while.
But i totally hate those people purposely trying to be girly to get a guy's attention. |
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May 17 2005, 02:59 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
Doesn't really matter to me. Sometimes I act tomboy-ish and then there are my "girly" times. o.O Most girls are born that way so I don't really see anything wrong w/ that..
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