HE DOESNT OWN ME !, WTF , WHY DOES HE CARE. |
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 May 13 2005, 08:34 PM
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 insanitys contagious.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707  |
My ex boyfriend found out I smoke and hes mad.
I call him and he goes , when you stop smoking..call me. Im like WTF , why does he care. smoking ciggarettes. Im 15. one word. stress. |
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May 13 2005, 08:50 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
Smoking as in weed or cigs? & how old are you? But anyways...maybe he still cares for you and doesn't want you to get hurt.
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May 13 2005, 09:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
thats kind of young but okay.. well thats true, he doesnt own you but he does care for you... no offence but i would have acted the same if one of my close friends smoked or smoke
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May 13 2005, 09:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 36,093 |
Obviously he doesn't want to date a smoker. Just becuase he said "Call me when you stop smoking" doesn't mean he's bossing you around.
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May 13 2005, 09:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i would do that to my bf if he started smoking. but you're right, he shouldn't be acting like this
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May 13 2005, 09:53 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(AnonymousGirl589 @ May 13 2005, 10:34 PM) Obviously he doesn't want to date a smoker. Just becuase he said "Call me when you stop smoking" doesn't mean he's bossing you around.  Hes my EX. and well yes , because anything he says I usually do if you get the point. |
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| *suddenly she* |
May 14 2005, 02:32 PM
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just because he's your ex doesn't mean he doesn't care.
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May 14 2005, 02:32 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
not that he doesnt care.
he shouldnt. |
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| *suddenly she* |
May 14 2005, 02:36 PM
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you want him to not care?
i mean.. i don't even know you and i still care. i don't know what i'm really trying to say either. *shrug* |
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May 14 2005, 02:52 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
"You don't own me....
I'm not just one of your many toys... You don't own me... Don't say I can't go with Other boys... And don't tell me what to say, and don't tell me what to do... And when I go out with you... Don't put me on display...!" -First Wive's Club Haha. Go download that song or something and leave it on his answering machine. 
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May 14 2005, 02:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
he is trying to stop you before you get cancer or other stuff...
he just cares...just talk it through with him |
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May 14 2005, 02:57 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
exactly ur freakin 15 and u smoke! im 16 and I never smoked, not even once. If I was him, I would say the same thing too.
idk, I dont like kids who smoke..its not *cool* U know if u smoke, 7 years of ur life is going away...yah i know to much. |
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May 14 2005, 02:59 PM
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 when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
chaa smokin is bad.. and im not preachin and everythin but i kno cause i got kicked out of skewl for smokin, marijuana but still u can still get in trouble wiht ciggs. did u know quitin cigs is harder than cocciane..maybe thats why he is worried.
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May 14 2005, 03:23 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
why cant he care just because he's your ex?
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May 14 2005, 03:29 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
He cares about your health, sweety. He still has feelings for you.
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May 14 2005, 03:59 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Perhaps your ex boyfriend still cares about you. Did HE or YOU break off the relationship?
What you've got to understand is that people around you do care.. that they want you to stop. I, too, am NOT preaching for you to quit (it's your own decision), but he probably still cares about you. Stress? You should take into consideration what he's telling you. |
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May 14 2005, 04:21 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
he cares about you, thats why hes asking you to stop. by telling you to call him when you stop doesnt mean he owns you, it means that hes hoping you care enough about him to stop this hurtful habit.
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May 14 2005, 05:07 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
i don't understand why you're so upset that someone cares about you. whether it be your ex or not. you have people on here that don't know you that care. smoking is bad for you! why would you want to shorten your life like that? in such an unhealthy way. he's just concerned thats all.
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May 14 2005, 07:07 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ May 14 2005, 4:59 PM) Perhaps your ex boyfriend still cares about you. Did HE or YOU break off the relationship? What you've got to understand is that people around you do care.. that they want you to stop. I, too, am NOT preaching for you to quit (it's your own decision), but he probably still cares about you. Stress? You should take into consideration what he's telling you. He broke off the relationship , and its been like 5 months since we broke up. He refuses to talk to me or anything. Hes a senior by the way. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 14 2005, 07:27 PM
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Well it's not his fault I mean you're young and you smoke, maybe he's worried about your safety.
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May 14 2005, 07:31 PM
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 POPcorny dude. Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,648 |
maybe hes worried about kissing cigarrete breathe or hes really worried (he wants you to stay with him forever and cares about you too much and doesnt want you to get heart)
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May 14 2005, 09:11 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Maybe he still cares about you.
But then again, he's your EX and if you don't want to listen to him, it's fine. He's just worried for your safety, that's all. =) |
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May 15 2005, 12:09 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
He cares about u..thats y hes telling u that...he might not talk to u when things r going fine, but that doesnt mean he doesnt care...its pretty obvious he cares about u...
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May 15 2005, 01:24 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
Smoking is a bad way to relieve stress.. you should work out or soemthing..
He cares about you, and so do we at CB. So..please stop smoking. |
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May 15 2005, 02:21 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well you know its nice that ur ex cares about u, my ex pretends I don't exist.
And stop smoking, there are other ways to deal with stress. |
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May 15 2005, 02:30 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
He just cares about you thats all . and i think its nice that he cares especially if he cares and he broke it off with you . you smoking over stress isnt a good reason to smoke at all . but its your life and thats true . but when you live your life some of the decisions that you make cant just be about you and what your going through ang how you feel . you have to include others and what others feel about what your doing.
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May 15 2005, 08:50 AM
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 between your smiles and regrets Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217 |
smoking?!
well your ex just cares about you, and you should be grateful that he does. [not to sound all mean or anything] |
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May 15 2005, 09:29 AM
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 leh sigh Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,901 |
be creative and come up with a positive way of coping with stress (god, i'm scaring myself, i think i'm sounding like a counselor *shiver*) 15 is very young to be smoking. i think that you should think twice before killing your lungs (i'ma musician so it bothers me when people smoke...but it's only a personal preference) but as you might have noticed from other posts, smoking is definitely not 'cool' like it was way back when. ask yourself who you are, don't let other people judge you/ tel you what to do. but don't forget that people care. (this reply sounds really cheesy, sorry 'bout that)
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May 15 2005, 09:44 AM
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when the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,079 |
its gonna be hard for u to quit....so i would stop now. by the time ir 30 u will shake for nicotine..(not lyin)
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May 15 2005, 12:12 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
isnt that kinda good. like he still cares about you.
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May 15 2005, 08:14 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
you're right that he doesn't own you but he still cares about you..
he practically just wants what is best for you.. its better to have somebody that actually cares for you then lets you do whatever you want not caring about the consequences you'll get.. |
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May 15 2005, 08:27 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
He doesn't own you...but he probably does care about you and don't want you to have cancer and die...I would've done the same if someone close that I knew smoked.
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May 15 2005, 09:44 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
its obvious that he still cares, but i mena when he says "call me when you stop smoking", then it sounds more like a command, and you shouldn't change yourself for someone else.
why do YOU care what he thinks????? ...and smoking at 15?? because of stress??? omg...gimmie a break. yes i'm a teen (17 to be exact) and yes i'va had my deal of stress (trust me, i used to be suicidal), but smoking???? grrr...i don't understand. there's better ways of handling stress then smoking, you're just screwing yourself for your years to come. i'm not saying u have to stop, i'm just saying that its a terrible desision, and there's better ways of handling your stress then this. |
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May 15 2005, 09:53 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,533 |
i am a guy so personally if i see my ex smoking i will bitch the shit outta her. We break up in a friendly way so i still hope she do good and stuff.
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May 15 2005, 09:55 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
QUOTE(SHAWTY_TOYA @ May 15 2005, 1:30 AM) He just cares about you thats all . and i think its nice that he cares especially if he cares and he broke it off with you . you smoking over stress isnt a good reason to smoke at all . but its your life and thats true . but when you live your life some of the decisions that you make cant just be about you and what your going through ang how you feel . you have to include others and what others feel about what your doing. i agreeeeee |
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May 16 2005, 08:07 PM
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 ART is everything. Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
eh, you remind me of those gr 9 girls I saw today after school smoking cigarettes.
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May 20 2005, 10:01 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
don't be stupid, its because he cares about you. and if you cared about him, you'd stop. if you cared about yourself, you'd stop. my friend's mom just died from lung cancer induced by smoking. stop now while you can.
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May 20 2005, 10:02 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
he just cares about you. i would have done the same thing if my boyfriend did that
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May 20 2005, 10:04 PM
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 goal: become friggen off. member again. argh. Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 141,544 |
wow, well either: --you should dump ur bf since u have stress now, and bfs should help reduce stress or --your bf really cares for you --wants to get you annoyed --messing with you --or i dont know
15 and already kill yourself. you have your whole life to live. and this is coming from a 16/17 year old. cheer up. |
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