High School relationship... |
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High School relationship... |
May 13 2005, 03:31 PM
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![]() Hey Teacher, Leave those Kids Alone! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,324 |
I was just wondering if it's weird if you never had a bf/gf during high shool. So i was just wondering, and hoping that I'm not the only one, probably am, but eh, dont really care. So yeah, hope this hasnt posted nor have anyone post it.
-FaR |
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May 13 2005, 04:18 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
hmmm its ok theres always the rest of your life lol
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May 13 2005, 08:00 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
It's ok...I'm sure you're not the only one. There's a lot more people than you think that haven't had a boyfriend/girlfriend in high school.
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May 13 2005, 08:17 PM
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![]() rwar (; ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
im not in highschool yet, but im sure when i get through it, im not going to have one.
because my parents told me that i have to concentrate on my studies and crap. i can have one when im in my second year of college. whooopee. |
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May 13 2005, 09:48 PM
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![]() POPcorny dude. ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,648 |
this is just MY OPINION..i personally think that high school or jr. high school relationships dont last long. it just ends up hurting one or more people (person) its kind of weird. in my opinion you date when you are ready for marriage or some kind of never ending commitment. do you think anyone can do that when they are in hell (high school)....just saying
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May 13 2005, 10:05 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
im not in high school yet but i am next year -- i would have a bf in high school, but since its so hard like with the SAT's and all of that bullsh*t to study and write up, i wouldnt have time [probably]
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May 13 2005, 10:08 PM
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it doesn't matter if you have one now or when your in college. as long as you find the right person, that's what's important. don't get bfs just so you can have one and have your heart broken over and over, it's not worth it.
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May 15 2005, 07:35 PM
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I don't think it's weird...don't worry...your time will come and you'll meet the right person...hopefully anyway...
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May 15 2005, 09:29 PM
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
i'm a junior in hs and i have a really amazing bf. i do believe in love at any age, and this could be it. it doesn't matter if its hs, grade school, or college. love is love no matter what age. you just gotta make sure that u give your heart to the right person. don't just get a bf just to have one. its stupid and pointless, and now i'm soo glad that i waited to find an amazing guy. and about "not having time for a bf ^^^", don't worry bout that, there's PLENTY of time to have a relationship. i kno ppl at my school who have had bfs for like 2-3 years. thats true love.
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May 16 2005, 08:04 PM
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![]() ART is everything. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
High School relationship...
always fail |
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May 17 2005, 09:01 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
Not ALWAYS... but VERY high chances... because... there's just so much more for you to do and worry about in high school that forces us to not focus on the relationship as much as we should.
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May 17 2005, 09:21 PM
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![]() Being happy...is all that matters ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I didn't plan on having a bf in high school at all...but I had one and that was unexpected.
Don't worry if you haven't had one...sometimes I wish that I have never been in one. There's so much more fun in being single ^^ |
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| *stephinika* |
May 17 2005, 10:04 PM
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don't worry about it, there's no need to rush into one if you're not ready. the time will come to have a boyfriend.
and not ALL high school relationships fail...most are short-term, but not all. just thought i'd mention my input on that. |
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May 18 2005, 06:40 PM
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![]() memories live FOREVER<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
its not weird. your just not ready.
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May 18 2005, 08:17 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
a few of my friends never had a bf at all. They are in HS sooo dont stress bout it, having a bf/gf aint the only important thing in the world
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May 18 2005, 08:46 PM
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![]() lick me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
yeahh; most high school relationships i see are one-nighters {haha} or short - termed ones.. not always serious.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 18 2005, 08:51 PM
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It doesn't matter when you have a boyfriend, as long as you find right one for you<333
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May 18 2005, 09:35 PM
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![]() Grrrrrrr ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
its not weird at least i dont think
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May 19 2005, 10:37 AM
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STOP THE WAR ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,182 |
i dont think its weired.. dont ruch it cuz love will come..
but high school relationships are pretty awesome.. ive been with my girfriend for 3 years.. freshmen, sophmore, and junior year. just when u get that special person.. just make sure everything is compatible.. and you both love and cherish one another |
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May 28 2005, 08:57 PM
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,231 |
[COLOR=green] High School relationship never lasted, and I am in third year of high school already and I don't think it weird. Just think of it this way, a lot of others get dumped while they're in high school and they start weeping over it.
xanga |
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May 29 2005, 03:38 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,924 |
highschool relationships arent werid but the never do last as long you want them to , i told myself i would never get a bf because i wanna concentrate on school , but i end up having one .. now im goin out with a junior and im a freshman also summer is almost here.. it`s gonna be harder to keep the relationship steady.
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May 30 2005, 05:21 PM
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![]() jiyOunnn~ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
personally, i dont think it matters at all.. because you haven't found the right one just for you. it's ok.. because useless relationships can hurt people. i'm not in high school yet, i'm in 7th grade and i had a lot a bullshit relationships that were useless.. so there was like no point of them lols. but good luck finding the right one :D
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May 30 2005, 05:27 PM
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i'm pretty sure it's normal. there are plenty of people who are far past high school who have never even had a girlfriend.
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May 30 2005, 07:01 PM
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I'm a hs-ers. well I don't have a bf either... well think it this way, u have to wait for u're bf b4 n' after class and met him b4 and after school.. and in the wiken.. how boring is that..?? lol.. that was just my opinion... u can't really have all the freedom.
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May 30 2005, 09:07 PM
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![]() Umm its that thing you should call me...... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
OK yeah I'm not in highschool yet but yeah I will be next year. Anyways I already have a bf and I lub him so much *hugs Jeff* anyways I don't thinks it's that weird that you don't have a boyfriend but you know it may happen soon enough.
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May 30 2005, 09:59 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,692 |
It's normal, don't worry =] But i have never been in a relationship before because there are only two results: rejection or rejecting someone.
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May 31 2005, 08:04 PM
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![]() im popCORNY ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
i wouldnt know
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May 31 2005, 09:15 PM
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![]() Call me Lauren d=] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Na. It's normal. You'll find someone eventually. Still got plenty of time.
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Jun 1 2005, 02:40 PM
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Jessica ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
Lol, its okay, as someone else said before, you have the rest of your life. But of course there'll be peer pressure, b/c a lot of people MIGHT have bf/gfs already.
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Jun 2 2005, 11:38 AM
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![]() My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
Like someone already said dun rush it. I'm a junior in H.S. and I didn't start dating H.S. til January of this year. Never thought I had the time to deal with it ya know? Now I've been in a relationship for somethign over two months. Dun worry you'll find yours soon. He/she is out there somewhere.
And good luck. Most of all if you find the right one.....dun push him away. ~*~*~DeCePT10N -ess~*~*~ |
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Jun 2 2005, 11:42 AM
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![]() No Day But Today. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,405 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,184 |
It's normal. I've never had a BF (unless my "bf" in 1st grade counts..:P) and I'm going into 10th grade. I don't really care though...there are things more important to me at the moment
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Jun 3 2005, 11:13 AM
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![]() `non;chalance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
its not a bad thing at all. most of the time- ppl find their soul mates in college and sometimes even AFTER college. don't sweat it- your other half is out there somewhere, just waiting for the right time to meet you (:
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