girls cursing, good...bad..? Options

[rockemsockemrobo...]

ha....just wondering cause i dont really want a girl that cusses more than i do..

[AngryBaby]

Depends on how and when they're doin it
if its directed at me like " you f*ckin pu**y" then no.
but if its like " i want to f*ck u" then yes did that make sense?
and if its like " f*ck i stubbed my F*ckin toe!" then who cares

[tooeffingcrazy]

I personally think its a turn off when girls cuss. Maybe that's just me though. Lol.

[starlette]

I cuss, but not like most people. I do it conversationally. Like, it doesnt even come off as offensive. Most people dont notice it. Cuz I'm not like, hey you stupid F*CKER!!! What the F*CK were you not thinking you SH*THEAD!?!??! I'm like, dude, thats f*ckin cute I'm gonna tell my mom. Its like..did she just cuss? Yeah. I use em just like any other word. People are too scared of profanity. As long as you don't make yourself sound stupid, I think its okay no matter if you are male or female.

[AngryBaby]

"dude thats f*ckin' cute im gonna tell my mom"


Ya why is it that we can cuss a lot but its like girls arent aloud to

[Azn_Pryde06]

I cuss a lot, I do it many times. But not in an appropriate way though. Hahaha. I believe that it's a part of everybody, it's not like you mean it, it just comes out right off your mouth. No one can help it. If you make a mistake, you just accidentally cuss. Also, it's not like it's against the law, you're not being deprived of your free will to do things you do. It's legitimate to say things, as long as you don't hurt anyone emotionally in the process. Hahahaha.


I don't know if guys think it's a turn off for them, but be realistic when you think about. The fact is, everyone does it, if not infront of your parents, then surely behind them. I have a high respect for both of my parents, that is also why I never cussed right in front of them.


- [Lalainester] -

[iliang86]

my friend was in my room and saw this. haha, she started rambling on about how unfair this all is. apparantly this signifies that guys are allowed to cuss and girls arent or something. oh well. i still say its a turn off when girls do ti excessively.

[pinyoboy]

tha hekkk...why would anybody find cursing as a turn on? maybe rill derrty talk...but jus plain ol bad talk...that jus shows a lack of better words.

[vampireduster]

i have bad mouth. when im in school i cuss alot but not at around my house. I respect my mom and family alot. I know better

[heyyfrankie]

it isn't really a turn off or on. it just ... is.
i personally think it is funny!

[cocoalightning27]

I personally don't like it when they swear....but I can live with it..

[aera]

i dont know... sometimes i say sh*t, and cr*p, is that considered cussing? i dont, but some do... but i dont say any of the otehr words. only once in a while... a long while...

[rOckThISshYt]

I don't mind it. But I hate it when it's like every other damn word. It's like "I hate that mother f*cker son of a bitch. She such a stupid whore and that mother f*cked should be f*cked up her f*cking ass." You know.. It just gets annoying. My friend (aka my sister since we've been friends for forever) has a friend like that. It's soooo annoying. And get this... HER NAME IS ANGEL! Right.... She's pretty ugly, too. Not to be mean.

[*suddenly she*]

it's annoying when people use it casually, or just as a common exclamation.

[pinyoboy]

it really is a turn-off for me i guess. i like clean innocent girls cos they're so cute. ^-^ like i said before, it just shows that they lack knowledge of better words, or they aren't refined enough. = \ if they're actually talking about the f-verb synonymous to "romp" or organic waste, i don't mind the language; but such expletives are totally unnecessary.

[Eryi]

I think its funny how they talk about other peoples mamas. I never heard a girl say taht stuff before.

[AngryBaby]

it really is a turn-off for me i guess. i like clean innocent girls cos they're so cute. ^-^

Ya they are cute, if i had a choice between a girl that curses alot and a girl that doesnt id pick a girl that doesn't. what do girls think about guys who curse alot?

[SnowSlasher]

i dont swear, personally i dont mind if the female swears as long they dont overuse it, or use it in front of my family. (bad impression with the parents)

[hardbodyactiv]

If you're with a friend relating a story that includes say, an unfortunate incident and you say, 'That's fukked!' ...nothing wrong at all with that because the use of profanity in that manner is just a normal response. Yes, you could just as easily say, 'That's awful!' but its been a normal response to use profanity in certain situations for a very, very long time, regardless of your gender.

Please remember that it was the tite-ass WASP rulers that set the agenda for women, laying down ridiculous social values that they females were supposed to adhere to and which many in the Conservative Christian Right (US Government) would like to return to; but of course the 'rules' were different for men. The emasculation of women, especially from the 1960's onwards changed all of that.

People that deliberately swear in an aggressive manner in public are just pathetic attention whores. By coincidence it tends to be chav scum teens and will just as likely be girls as it will be guys, because they are uneducated trash that can only justify their existences via excessive displays of really boorish behaviour: bad language, provocation and fighting, public drunkenness, lewd and disgusting behaviour, etc.


If its in a private establishment such as a bar or club...who cares? But in public in front of parents with kids. Just foul.

Girls using words with sexual connotations in a sexually provocative manner to elicit a response from their partner, male or female, is an incredible turn on and is completely appropriate. That I luv!!


Peace Out

[misoshiru]

i swear quite a bit, but not like "you sh*thead, get the f*ck back here, i'm gonna kick the f*cking sh*t out of you, you b*tch!"

[aNg3LBaBi3]

im a girl and cuss quite a bit only when im pissed other than that no. haha. but when guys cuss excessively its a turn off. everyone cusses nowadays. i think its ok if you cuss as long as it isnt too much.

[maia_dc]

Well, I don't really swear a lot... I'm so innocent like that. <33

[sharerol]

Mehh. I don't care. I don't cuss that much.

[fameONE]

The most profanity I use is when I'm typing. I was raised to be a gentlemen so I try to hold my tongue to prevent any obscenities around girls. If a girl does it, its not so mucha turnoff, its just unladylike. If she doesn't, great. If she does from to time to time, even better; it lets me know she's human.

[MizKhmerShai]

Well, is natural, people can't help themselves when things come out of their mouth. If she's doing it frequently and is hurting someone, that is a TURN OFF..., and other than that how she is, you can't change a person...

[HoodieObsessed]

EDIT//

I make my posts waaay too long the bottom line was:

"I don't like ppl who cuss, i don't cuss, and I don't care what gender you are it's a complete turn off. And if you cuss infront of my mom and dad I will kill you."

This post has been edited by HoodieObsessed: Jul 13 2005, 08:04 PM

[shortiiex]

well it depends how she is...like some people only curse to look "cool"

[dreamerOi]

well i dont cuss at least not anymore i quit around middle school cause i didnt want it to become a bad habit or anything.

[soulless727]

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[Angel_Cece]

who cares... i mean everyone curses now and again, but if someone curses in every sentence or every other word all the time.. its a bit wierd.

[*not_your_average*]

I cuss sometimes. But only when i'm really mad/excited, though.
I don't get it though! At my school if a girl cusses, people are all like, "OOOH!! Watch your language!" But when a guy does it, no one cares. It's stupid.

[mouse_3k]

i curse alot...alot alot. Its a bad habit but some guys think its alright

[x LUV x ALWAYS x]

"dude thats f*ckin' cute im gonna tell my mom"
 

Ya why is it that we can cuss a lot but its like girls arent aloud to

...girls aren't allowed to? uhoh.

i curse a lot...or at least i used to. i still curse more than most girls i THINK.
i hang out with a bunch of guys a lot because most of my girl friends dont have my frees or lunch period. i used to curse a LOT, until a bunch of them really came up to me and told me that they'd appreciate it if i didn't do it as much. i think it bothered them, or just annoyed them, i dunno which. but i figured i'd stop anyway, because it's not exactly like its a great thing to always do. i cursed in front of my teachers wayyy too many times.

[angelshortipnai]

i really don't care at all >.< i mean, prolly 95% of the people in my school cusses..u can't help it..i tried to stop cussing, but I just can't help saying bad words..it just comes right out of my mouth witout me even noticing it.. I don't cuss A LOT A LOT, i cuss sometimes when i'm pissed or i hurt myself haha or sometimes, i'm playing around wit my friends like:

Friend:"can u do something for me pls?"
Me: "yesh, sure!"
"Friend:wait, wat site is it again?"
Me:"*gives the link*"
Friend:"oh okay, i'll do it"
Me:"no, i'll do it, b*tch!"
Friend:"no sh*t, i'll do it u b**tch!"

haha we both kno we're playing around tho.. i only do ^that to my close frends

[*Weird addiction*]

It depends, i wouldn't want my bf saying, "you f**king hoe" "or f**k you [insert racial insult here]". But then a bf that doesn't say "f**k" is a wierd bf.

[EmmalieV]

I curse every f**king second.





Oops


:.giggles::

[TheloniousMonk]

Don't really want my girl sounding like Patches O'Houlihan. I'm afraid she'll then throw a wrench at me.

[belg]

i don't like for a girl cursing more than I do. It's improper for a girl to curse. That's just my opinion. Peace out!

[*stephinika*]

hm interesting question...like some have said, if one swears to be "cool" or something stupid like that then obviously not...otherwise whatever...if it gets EXTREMELY excessive, then thats a bit much, but meh. i tend to curse a lot too...depends on my mood.

[AngryBaby]

It's improper for a girl to curse. That's just my opinion. Peace out!

See what i mean.^
why is it improper who made that rule?

[fameONE]

Our foul language is only foul through the evolution of linguistics.

Example: Damn. (the damned, eternal damnation, damn! [as a playful exclamation {1700s}])

As a kid, I would get pinched, popped, scolded, etc for saying it. But little by little, the word isn't being looked at as such a horrible thing.

f**k was once a word that meant you did something with force. (Oh its done with force alright ). Now, the word is just as foul as Chewbaccas bathroom.

Personally, foul language of any kind is 'improper,' but, enter the logistics. So, who's to say whats improper or whats not?

[hardbodyactiv]

Brandon, that's a very well iterated argument for the purity of language from an objective point of view and I applaud you for it.

But from an everyday subjective point of view, unless ones family and friends are all chav scum that use "fuckk, cuntt, motherf**ker" etc. as often as they do the words "the, it, and" etc. in public, society will not find it acceptable. It shows a lack of self respect as well as respect for others.

Use of expletives is common place and this is as you stated due to the evolution of language, but that does not excuse people to use any language they want to use in any given situation; if you're out with your family and you walk past a group loudly swearing, obviously for the sake of it, for attention, don't you just feel disgusted? I do.

Here in the UK they are finally introducing legislation which means that groups congregating in Malls will be ejected for acting in this manner in addition to not being allowed to wear baseball caps with hoodies pulled up to deliberately hide their faces from CCTV while they wreak havoc.

About time too!

Sexually suggestive language is very, very erotic in the bedroom tho!!


Peace Out

[MR2_Ricky]

Hmm I don't really care if girls cuss once in a while but if they do it all the time and say the word N*G*A all the time thats just wrong.

[ch3ch3]

who cares =)

[fameONE]

Brandon, that's a very well iterated argument for the purity of language from an objective point of view and I applaud you for it.

But from an everyday subjective point of view, unless ones family and friends are all chav scum that use "fuckk, cuntt, motherf**ker" etc. as often as they do the words "the, it, and" etc. in public, society will not find it acceptable. It shows a lack of self respect as well as respect for others.

Use of expletives is common place and this is as you stated due to the evolution of language, but that does not excuse people to use any language they want to use in any given situation; if you're out with your family and you walk past a group loudly swearing, obviously for the sake of it, for attention, don't you just feel disgusted? I do.

Here in the UK they are finally introducing legislation which means that groups congregating in Malls will be ejected for acting in this manner in addition to not being allowed to wear baseball caps with hoodies pulled up to deliberately hide their faces from CCTV while they wreak havoc.

About time too!

Sexually suggestive language is very, very erotic in the bedroom tho!!


Peace Out

I agree with you completely, and I wish that same legislation was introduced here in the US. My response was merely for the sake of debate. But, nevertheless, I get where you're coming from and I agree 100%

[O x LiseE x O]

I love cussing honestly? "I swear if you f*cking gleak on me I will kick you in the f*cking balls?" That's something I might say ... or "Back the f*ck off me you dumb hoe" Lol... AL0T of the times I'm cussing they know I am joking, because that's just me.

[Le_Jay]

A girl screaming f**k me f**k ME, is so overrated. Sadists.

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

i don't really cuss. especially not in front of my parents. i just say hell, crap, damn, shit...only those words really. but this is when im really really really mad. i dont even say that in front of my parents. hehe im so innocent

[sk8ter4life750]

Who designated ''cuss'' words so bad, honestly what is so bad about them?

[miss barnes]

i curse all the f**king time....too bad if i boy doesnt like it because i refuse to change for anybody but myself and God

[sheepy]

just not a lot please. its a turn off if anyone curses a lot.

[blogdeleted]

i agree.
...
though it's a strange thing that ppl see it differently btween a boy and a girl, even if they say the same swearword in the same situation...it's kinda weird...
though cussing is ok in some situations, i personally think that racial (n-word), sexual, or words relating to mothers/fathers and the like are not really good, regardless of gender...

[s1mpl3_f3m]

i cuss alot. lol especially if im around my peoples cuz they cuss like MAD. i need to stop tho cuz sumtimes the shxt jus comes out lol even when im at work lol oopz

[fameONE]

i cuss alot. lol especially if im around my peoples cuz they cuss like MAD. i need to stop tho cuz sumtimes the shxt jus comes out lol even when im at work lol oopz

Unattractive.

[weirdness]

I'm a girl, and I don't curse that much. I think it's only a turn off if they curse like their vocabulary is just curses, for both genders.

[xxtaintedlips]

hmmm...cursing is not good no matter what.
but if guys can curse so can girls...no need to be sexist here

[Mileep]

I definitely don't like girls who cuss. It's a turn off for me. I just think they got an addition. It's fine if a girl cuss a little bit. Nothing wrong with it, in my own opinions. But, do you want a girl to cuss in your face when time are wrong?... Good topic though. Later.

[i_love_billie_jo...]

i find that if im talkin to sumone thats swearin alot, ill swear to. but if im talkin to sumone thats not swearin then i wont. i do swear tho, its in my nature, but depending on much is determind by who im with, how i feel, or if im drunk or not. i dont care if guys swear as long as every second word isnt f**k or woteva

[Mini]

I don't really care as long as it's not directed towards me in a negative way. ^__^

[*RockizLife*]

It's a turn off for me. I don't cuss, unless theres reason behind it. For example if i'm really, really angry. I don't do it every other word in a normal conversation. I think thats pointless and people do it just to get attention.

[littlewhite]

I am a girl and I don't cuss in front of people. I cuss to myself only so nobody would hear me, besides, I don't cuss like every other word.

Profanity is okay, as soon as not every other word, and there must be a reason behind it, like being mad or excited. If it is just a normal conversation and you pop up a cuss word, that is surely a turn-off and a bad habit.

[mocassinsx29]

I curse when I get mad.
But not like, "How f*cking are you?"

[whomps]

I cuss when I'm really pissed, haha.

[MrDolphin]

I rarely cuss myself. But like, if she cusses, thats fine, just not like every other second.

[Paradox of Life]

^ Mmhm. They're just words, but if they're using them at unecessary times they're probably trying to be cool or something. Nobody naturally talks to the extreme in cussing (no examples :P). I can understand if someone's mad they'll start cussing.

Like today at the DDR pad when this idiot child kept shadowing me and showing off to his friends. I told him to stop several times before, even when my brother was playing. So I took a small break (and failed the song) and gave him a good verbal whooping.

[*x____duckii*]

I cuss, but I usually don't notice. It's not like I cuss on purpose. But it's not as if I say something like "Hey you fxcking bitch, I wanna fxcking go to the fxcking theaters tonight."

[iheartjohn]

Girls cursing - Turnoff. It's not ladylike.

Guys cursing around girls - Turnoff. It's not being a gentleman.


What ever happened to mannerisms?

[Animeloverhk93]

hahahah its cool but its not cool when they cause at you hahaha

[butterflikisSez1...]

I've never cursed or sworn. For me its a turn off when someone curses.

[biglamchops]

Depends..if they swear way too much..then i have to say turn off.. but sometiems its cute.

[cookieskater2]

I don't like it when they cuss as a part of there everyday vocabulary, unless its like, "Oh I got pissed off" or something, the minor words like "damn" and "ass" don't really bother me. It's not really a turn on though.

[The-Mach-Hare]

i dont see how it could a turn off. most girls do it to stand up for themselves. it doesnt really bother me...

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

Just don't over do it like
Hey what the f**k is up? I'm f**king great. How the f**k are you? That's f**king amazing. So what are you planning to do this f**king fabulous weekend? Well I'm about to f**king go skiing...

[louish]

how come its bad for girls to cuss...its like sayin how come guys cuss..lol

[*anubis*]

Depends on how and when they're doin it
if its directed at me like " you f*ckin pu**y" then no.
but if its like " i want to f*ck u" then yes  did that make sense?
and if its like " f*ck i stubbed my F*ckin toe!" then who cares

amen to what he said.

[demolished]

Its turn on when its not aiming at me.

[lilJdawg]

Who fckn' cares? I curse all the time.

[Day_By_Day]

depends if it is the right occasion. if she were to be at a BOsox game and they were winning, yes.

[ldy_kari]

One of my phrases i love to say or two of them:
"oh my f**king god thats is so f**king cute!!!!!!!!!!"
"Go to hell you f**king shithead!"

i dunno i use it when i want to and know when to not use it unlike some people
well my bf thinks its okae if i cuss, cuhs its a free world!

[HoodieObsessed]

yuckky......bad words=turn off

yup yup the only time I cuss is when I hurt myself, like stub my two and then I'll be like "oh sh!t arrrggh". But I swear I've never said the F-word in my life. I'm such a goody goody

i don't really cuss. especially not in front of my parents. i just say hell, crap, damn, shit...only those words really. but this is when im really really really mad. i dont even say that in front of my parents. hehe im so innocent 

same. I don't say sh!t veyr often tho..like really not often AT ALL. mostly jsut when I'm alone and ya hurt myself as I said above.

I use heck, stupid, moron, idiot, and dummy. almost always as jokes or sarcastic comments etc.

I use crap, hell, damn, and douchebag much less often, and once again almost always as a joke of some sort.

I use jerk when I mean it. I donno why but that's just kinda my special word, when I use it I really really really think they are being jerks.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well I'm a girl & I cuss around my friends but I usually don't cuss around guys unless I'm tellin a realli good story cause it doesn't seem right...it jusst doesn't seem lady-like I don't kno...& it seems like it turns off guys & one of my guys said it's a turn off for them..& I jusst don't cuss around guys..but I think it's cute when guys cuss when they madd..I jusst wanna kiss'em!!..

[DullStringedGuit...]

if they cuss in evry sentence then no...
if its juss wen there pissed or somthing then i dont mind

[i can break]

I let a few slip out now and then when I'm angry, but I don't care.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

i think when girls curse its ok i guess .......she doesn`t have to act all innocent now , does she ?

[*salcha*]

I hardly do, only when I'm frustrated will you hear me curse.

[slipper]

i mostly curse to myself. if i hit my toe on something, i'd say "f**k shit, mother f**ker." the cussing makes the pain go away.

[Paradox of Life]

i mostly curse to myself. if i hit my toe on something, i'd say "f**k shit, mother f**ker." the cussing makes the pain go away.

LMFAO.

Yeah, I cuss all the time. Cussing shouldn't be a turnoff.. I mean.. everyone has to cuss sometimes..

[FlipsieDoodles]

it gets kinda wierd sumtimes i mean im not used to it. well i hand out with a bunch of very nice easy goin realxed crowd of girls, but when i do hear em cus its ackward but 4 a lot of the other girls i hang wit its pretty normal

[slipper]

LMFAO.

no lie. it transfers all the energy onto those curse words. then say it out loud. then, boom! no pain.



^ i wish i could make my face like that.

[Rayj]

I think its hott sometimes cus i curse alot.

[Vozedale]

Well, if it is used in a funny way or to express anger or annoyance, like "I stubbed my f***ing toe". Those are the only ways I use them. When they are completely uncalled for and especially repetitive, it gets on my nerves. My girlfriend does that, and it is almost like she is using them just to sound cool. I find it very unattractive. She isnt even good at name calling with them, I own her all the time, call her a cum-bubble-blowing arse monkey or something like that.

[latinprep12]

Its a big turnoff...girls are suppose 2 be seductive nd attractive 2 men...cussing in front of a guy is gonna have him in a suprise so idk..may-b its me but its a turn off

[yellowgurl]

i dont like to cuss, but it jsut seems that when girls cuss near guys it seems more comfortable/ friendly to be aroudn guys who cuss or something? not sure. but anyways.. im surprised ppl dont care.

[kpx_danny]

i usually dont care but if i had to choose i would say a turn off i mean cursing isnever a good thing rite

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

i am a girl and i cuss when i fell when its right .. who cares?

[ParanoidAndroid]

I curse a lot..i hope not a lot of boys find that a turn off

[crazedbaby]

I don't curse out of nowhere. I curse when I'm either ticked off or surprised or something. Like one time in homeroom, I realized I forgot my project in the cafeteria. I like literally jumped up and screamed the F word. I didn't get in trouble cause my hr/science teacher loves me.

[*tweeak*]

Meh. I curse a lot, and yet people don't realize it. i can have cursed 7 times in the past couple of minutes, and yet I'll say f**k as an exclamation and they'll be amazed that I cursed. It makes very little sense.

[BarreL]

ass , damn , shit , and douche

those are really the only curses i say out loud with friends
[[ ie - " that dress-code is pretty damn stupid . " ]]

on AIM im kinda bad about it though

i mean , one of my friends nicknames is " Douche Drew "

i dunno .... i dont cuss alot , but i should do better abotu it i guess
i never really thought it was a turn on or turn off
oh well

[CrazykidXD]

i don't care if my friends curse or if girls that i like do haha