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[whatiismae]

okay, here's the problem. so basically, i have this friend brittany who gave my sn to this guy she knows from her old school. and he and i talked online for a like 30 min before he asked for my number. so, i gave it to him. and he called me that night at around 11, and we ended up talking until 2 in the morning. i mean, he seems cool and fun, i guess. the thing is, i talked to brittany and all the people who went to his old school, and they all say he's kind of creepy. brittany gave him my sn but she didnt think it would lead to this. she just thought we'd talk for a little bit and then she and i could laugh about it later. i've never met him, and he's asked me to go to the movies with him. everybody thinks he's weird. they said they found some old notebooks of his that are full of drawings on how to take over the world. he said he's completely changed since then (which was around 6th grade and i'm a freshman now), but i'm still a little iffy. he told me he's a complete wigger and wears ecko and all of that. it's just a little strange.. because he'll be my first boyfriend IF it even gets that far. and when we were on the phone, he said stuff like, oh wow i need a girlfriend. and he just kept dropping hints like that, and it was just really messed up. i dont know what to do!! i dont want to like hurt him or anything because he's already told me how he was really hurt when he got rejected massively by one of his good girl friends in like 6th grade. he seems nice, but now i hear all this stuff about how messed up he was before. so if i do go to the movies with him sometime, i'd bring my friends and tell him to bring his, so its not weird. but i dont know if i even want to go to the movies with him, because it'd be awkward since i know all this stuff about him that he doesnt know that i know. and, i'm just stumped on if i should give this a try or not. all my friends who know him are teasing me about him because they know how weird he is!! HELP!
btw, he's not hot.. at all. from what i hear. i mean, obviously that shouldn't have anything to do with it, but.. it would just tip in his favor if he was.
anyway PLEASE HELP ME!!

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

don't listen to what others say about him i mean it coukd be different for you maybe he's not weird maybe he's nice and sweet you'll never know, i say just go with him to the movies aks him to bring his friends and you can bring yours so it's less scary ^^;;

[MeanBastard]

Wigger? White Nigger? Slap him silly. Do it for me. Do it for the world.

[angelrevelation]

well going with your friends is a good idea... so he doesnt try to do anything
he can't be that bad... and if he is, you dont have to hang out with him anymore right? he sounds desperate, because he kept on dropping hints about you being his gf when he hardly knew you. just get to know him better, see how it goes.

[aera]

give him a try. he might be the nice and fun person he seemed on the phone. if he turns out to be what everyone else says and you dont like him, then just dont got to the movies with him anymore. but this is about you think, and not about what everybody else thinks of him.

[Chii]

just go out with him, it's just one date or something. that doesn't mean you have to commit right away.

give him a try, just because he had those drawings doesn't mean anything, maybe he was making a comic book, plus just because those people knew him from school doesn't mean that they know him so you can't really take their word for it.

[Shattered_Hope]

You don't base your decision on what others say...since he called you and you two talked till 2 a.m. I'll assume you two have a lot in common or just enjoy talking to each other. Besides, the things that they tell you about him are things from 3 years back...in middle school....and if he says he's changed....I think you should believe him....and just take a chance...meet up with him and just decide when you do meet him...if this is the guy you want to be in a relationship with...

[FoOd]

How bout, don't listen to your friends this one time. For all you know, he could have changed for the better. Its just one date and besides, he won't do anything to you.

Just go out with him. And it doesn't matter about looks, unless you really are a superficial peson.

Also, you might never know, he could be a boyfriend, or he could be a very good friend

[laur3nw]

If you think he's a cool person, go ahead and meet him. Don't let your friends stop you.

[*suddenly she*]

he sounds like a whack. he sounds like someone who's just trying to impress you. and get a girlfriend of course.

go with him if you want, but keep friends around and don't let him know.
if i were you i'd ignore him. because i'm mean.

[pinayprincess]

i wouldnt take my chances on this one...

[KELLYYY]

Listen to yourself. It doesn't matter what other people say.

[megan_x3]

i doubt it wouldn't hurt that you can go out with him .. just give it a simple little try and see if you guys were meant to be with each other .. dont panic .. just 1 date ! <3

[whatiismae]

ack. okay thanks for the help guys, but i dont think its going to happen..
i gave him my cell number and he didn't call for like 2 days. and then he calls my HOUSE which i didnt give him the number to, and says he lost my cell number. so obviously i ask him how he got my home number and he said he called this girl who goes to my school now, but his school before, at like 10 at night to get it. i dont know, i think its kind of creepy that he has my home number. but anyway if he calls again, i'm thinking of just telling him that i have a bf or something. what do you guys think?

[brand0n]

do it do it!

[yukichan]

dont base ur judgement on what others think..
give him a chance..
and i dont think u should tell him that u have a bf when u dont..thats just plain cruel..
if u dont like him, just say that..dont make something up that isnt true..

[*suddenly she*]

don't tell him that you have a boyfriend. what are you thinking? from the hopefully innocent guy's point of view:

i call her and talk to her for three hours until two in the morning and now she says she has a boyfriend? she's either playing with my head or crazy. maybe i'll go and ask her friends who this boyfriend is.

that's a recipe for disaster. if he can find your home number, he can find out who this imaginary boyfriend is, right?

next time he calls you or whatnot, ask him why he contacted you in the first place. because you're "just wondering." then apply common sense.

[literemix24]

Wigger, wow this guy sounds like a wanna-be. -_-" But if you'd like to, give him a chance, he might be different. But then again he might not, don't get your hopes up.