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 May 8 2005, 07:54 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯)  Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583  |
So I decided i really like this guy the other day and i wanted some of your advice on the situation, so here goes nothing:
I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend of like 5 or six months. No one really likes her...but i dont know, shes kinda bitchy. Hes a senior and hes leaving for college in the fall. So I met him a week ago and then two days ago i saw him at this school event and he was like all over me like looking at my chest and feeling my back and stuff and we were flirting. now everytime i see him, i just like get this tingly feeling like i want him soo bad but i cant have him and it makes me mad that my competition is her .. so i dont know what to do because i know if i was dating someone i would be pissed if someone broke me and my bf up, but at the same time, i like dont care what she has to say.. i think i could get him with enough flirting because he seemed to be into me, but ive heard he does that a lot s o i dont know. i just want a summer fling because its been a year since my last bf and im like in withdrawl right now. Im like 16 and haven made ot or anything either. ive waited long enough.... thanks for any advice you can give me. =] Do yall read? QUOTE yea i know i wouldnt either and
IM SORRY I CRITICIZED HIS GIRLFRIEND...for the last time...i know i shouldnt have im just jealous and ill admit that...i just dont know how to get over him. ive been crying all night and i couldnt talk to many people at school today because i cant stop thinking about him...im just so upset. i shouldnt have persued any of this... gosh...im so upset right now. any advice? |
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May 8 2005, 08:22 PM
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Eh, I know how you feel I'm kinda going through the same thing except i never met his gf o_O but yeah anyway well it's not fair for her then i mean you can't just snatch him away from her. I mean it's like you and your bf of 8 months or something and he just breaks up with you just cause some girl likes him. I know i would feel devastated. Find a different person to like, you can't wait for him forever. I guess we have to find a way to get over our "him"
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May 8 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Well.. I think you should just wait till he breaks up with her.. You shouldn't interfere with another person's relationship.
If he flirts with girls behind his girlfriends back, he's not "boyfriend material". I think you should just find another guy. I haven't kissed a guy yet either... but I'm only 13. 
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May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
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Oh my, you seem very shallow my dear.
 Just because the girl is ugly doesn't mean automatically make her "not girlfriend material". And if this guy flirts shamelessly with you, I really don't think he is committed in a relationship. Its an infatuation, get over it, or you'll have your heart-broken. |
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May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
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just because she's supposedly ugly so you don't care what she says or feels? i'm sorry but that's just shallow.
think about it like you said, she doesn't have much friends (she feels lonely doesn't she) and if you snatch him away from her, how do you think she'll feel. to make things worst he flirts with you?! that's just wrong. he doesn't seem like a very faithful guy to me he's with her. get over it. |
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May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
uhh, tell him to stop looking at you if he has a girl. and its not any of your buisness if she's ugly or not. i think he should respect the fact that he's with her. you should too. he's not worth it so just leave him with his "girlfriend". move on.
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May 8 2005, 08:38 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i think you should tell him you like him and tell him that you want to know whats going on between you guys..because its not fair that hes flirting with you, but has a girl..so you wanna know whats up..is there ever gonna be something more between you guys or what?? talk to him..communication is always better than waiting around..i mean yeah..theres a chance he'll say he doesnt like you like that..but its better to find out and get over him rather than hanging onto the feeling and watching him with his girl or watching him play the both of you..
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May 8 2005, 08:39 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
wow guys chill. im not saying i dont care about her feelings man and its not because shes ugly. i dont like her because shes really mean and i really dont like her. sorry it came out wrong. ive just never felt this way about someone and i do understand what it would feel like because its happened to me and i just..i dont know. im so sad i cant have him
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May 8 2005, 08:49 PM
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if he flirts all the time and all that other stuff, what makes you think that he wont do the same to you? you shouldnt add that shes ugly because that just gives you a bad name.
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May 8 2005, 09:43 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
i know that it does. im sorry guys i shouldnt have said that.
i just want a guy so bad. im so sad and i feel incompetant because i can never get a boyfriend. i try to be a nice person and i try to flirt and im not bad looking but i just cant understand whats wrong with me that i cant get a guy. ill shut up now i know no one here cares. nevermind ill just forget about him. this whole thing is wrong |
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May 8 2005, 11:10 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
are you shallow or something? maybe he doesn't like this girl for her looks....and maybe he does flirt with everyone.
just saying. maybe you should just wait for him to break up with her, or move on to another guy. hey, when i used to like this guy, i tried to set him up with this other girl. i dont know why.... i wouldnt make someone break up with his girlfriend to go out with me though. |
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May 10 2005, 09:15 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
yea i know i wouldnt either and
IM SORRY I CRITICIZED HIS GIRLFRIEND...for the last time...i know i shouldnt have im just jealous and ill admit that...i just dont know how to get over him. ive been crying all night and i couldnt talk to many people at school today because i cant stop thinking about him...im just so upset. i shouldnt have persued any of this... gosh...im so upset right now. any advice? |
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May 12 2005, 06:44 PM
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Umm......there really is nothing that you should do.....he has a girlfriend and just because she's "ugly" to you, doesn't mean the guy thinks that too. Besides, who are you to say that alot of people hate her...I have a feeling that you're jealous of this girl. You should get over it....it's not like you really really like him because of his personality, you like him because of his looks and it's not like you want a relationship....a real one anyway...you just want a "summer fling..." I hope you have common sense and forget about this guy.....it's not right to steal someone's boyfriend much less someone who's been with the guy for 5-6 months.
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May 12 2005, 06:47 PM
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 Luvd 4 hoo I aM Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,082 |
i agree wit angel cece...hes not worth it...if its jus a summer fling...go ahead...
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May 12 2005, 08:02 PM
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the way i see it is you are only 16 and trust me there will be plenty of guys out there. 16 is an awkward age, u may feel that you are unlikable or stupid or whatever but that comes with the age....
i wouldnt go after someone with a g/f, bc if you do break them up then youll be named a slut, or whore, or whatever it is that people are saying now. if he likes you then he would break up with her anyway and if not you should let them be happy together, whether you like her or not for whatever reason. it isnt your decision to decide who he is with, thats just who he wants. maybe later that will change. if all you want is a fling then you could find plenty of willing guys, especially at 16 thats all they want too ,is a fling. |
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May 12 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Ok here, BACK OFF!! He's obviously a player and what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you? You don't just waltz in and decide to take another girl's man just because she a b*tch!!
I'm sorry but you're horrible... |
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May 13 2005, 10:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ May 12 2005, 9:38 PM) Ok here, BACK OFF!! He's obviously a player and what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you? You don't just waltz in and decide to take another girl's man just because she a b*tch!! I'm sorry but you're horrible...  lol yeah thats true... |
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May 14 2005, 11:16 PM
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(¯`·._.·[fly away]·._.·´¯) Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,583 |
QUOTE(krismiss678 @ May 10 2005, 9:15 PM) yea i know i wouldnt either and IM SORRY I CRITICIZED HIS GIRLFRIEND...for the last time...i know i shouldnt have im just jealous and ill admit that...i just dont know how to get over him. ive been crying all night and i couldnt talk to many people at school today because i cant stop thinking about him...im just so upset. i shouldnt have persued any of this... gosh...im so upset right now. any advice? okay did yall even read this??? please dont call me horrible guys i was caught up in the moment and i didnt mean those things. im giving up, okay? im not a bitch. i understand i cant do that now and sheesh... yall are so mean. i didnt even mean those things. way to make a person feel horrible... 
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May 15 2005, 04:08 PM
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I would get over him. I mean he has a girlfriend, right?
so just find another guy that you might like. |
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May 22 2005, 03:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
sigh*
if ppl were easier to deal with. first of all, i READ EVERY post.. i'm not going to criticize you. |
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May 22 2005, 04:14 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
ehhh just get over him. cause would you like it if a girl just came along and snatched away your boyfriend?
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