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 May 8 2005, 10:39 AM
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 The Best Thing Since Instant Soup  Group: Member Posts: 815 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,928  |
Is it weird for a guy to be good friends with a girl? Like... they burp together, laugh at each other, like the same types of music, etc.? I mean.. but not like the girl.. as having some type of crush, just as friends? Because This girl is my friend and we do alot of things together.. but people think we are going out because we are always together, and once in a while we kiss.. not make out... Is that weird? I need a girl's point of view..
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May 8 2005, 10:52 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
no i don't think it's weird. i have a guy best friend and i have a bf, my guy bestfriend and i do stuff together most of the time cept for the kissing bit. my bf is kinda fine with it i think.
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May 8 2005, 10:54 AM
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i was gonna say it's normal because i no a lot of ppl like that, just a friendship between a boy and a girl... but wen u sed u kissed.... that seems weird. it sounds like friends with benefits 2 me.
r u sure u 2 hav absolutely no feelings 4 each other? cz that wuld definitly b frends with benefits, like u just mess around but stay friends. |
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May 8 2005, 11:00 AM
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The Best Thing Since Instant Soup Group: Member Posts: 815 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,928 |
Well... not us two.. I don't.. I don't know about her.. I mean, last time I told her I was going to the movies with some other girl, she had a mad look on her face so I don't know.. all my friends tell me I should definitely go out with her but I seriously don't think of her like that I don't know why..
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May 8 2005, 11:39 AM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
^Maybe she's just looking out for you????
Anyway, I don't find it weird that guys have best friends that are girls. This one girl I know has a guy friend and whenever they leave school, they'll yell "I love you" to each other from across the hallway. It just cracks them up. And she's kind of possesive, like if he meets a girl, she'll want to know everything about her..... or heck-maybe she does like you. |
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May 8 2005, 11:40 AM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
ok so the kiss thing is werid...but for the other part no...its not werid...im like that with all my guy friends...to be honest they tell me things i dont even ask about....and one time they forgot that i was a girl and everything so i would say no it not werid....just the kiss thing
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May 8 2005, 02:06 PM
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I don't think it's weird, but where do you kiss her? on the lips or just the cheek?
And when you mentioned up there how she had a mad look on her face when you said you were going to the movies w/ another girl, maybe she kinda does like you. Maybe she feels like you're leading her on because of the kissing. I dunno.. |
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May 8 2005, 02:25 PM
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The Best Thing Since Instant Soup Group: Member Posts: 815 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,928 |
QUOTE(laur3nw @ May 8 2005, 2:06 PM) I don't think it's weird, but where do you kiss her? on the lips or just the cheek?  Lips but no tongue or anything lol Like playing around we do it... It's hard to explain lol |
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May 8 2005, 02:42 PM
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QUOTE(..:loveee.NuTTii @ May 8 2005, 12:39 PM) This one girl I know has a guy friend and whenever they leave school, they'll yell "I love you" to each other from across the hallway. It just cracks them up. And she's kind of possesive, like if he meets a girl, she'll want to know everything about her..... that was like me and my "half-ex (it's a long story)" last year.  now that i think of it, i really miss him.  the kissing part is the only weird part. and if she likes it.. well then yeah, she probably likes you. |
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May 8 2005, 03:55 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
no thers nothing wrong with it!
my best friend is also a grl..but the kissing thing..? -_- |
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May 8 2005, 04:20 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
you guys are gonna end up togetherrrrr. do ittttt. :]
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May 8 2005, 04:23 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
QUOTE(d0nchikit0 @ May 8 2005, 11:00 AM) Well... not us two.. I don't.. I don't know about her.. I mean, last time I told her I was going to the movies with some other girl, she had a mad look on her face so I don't know.. all my friends tell me I should definitely go out with her but I seriously don't think of her like that I don't know why.. *coughcough* She's jealous. You should go out with her, I mean, yall kiss. GO OUT WITH HER. |
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May 8 2005, 04:38 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
of course is not weird. i have friends like that
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May 8 2005, 06:54 PM
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it is not werid...it is just innocent friend fun
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May 8 2005, 07:25 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
not really.. before i had a really tight guy friend that i always talk to on the phone and always hand around during break time in school.. but i never do that again because im not great friend with him... had a fight and is ok with him right now .... but its not bad or anything if you have a best girl friend.. thats normal .. wats wrong with it ?!?!
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May 8 2005, 09:33 PM
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I think it's okay. but I'm not sure if friends kiss or not.
but I guess some do. you two sound so cute together.. heh.I'm guessing it's normal. dont mind what people think. they just probably haevn't seen a girl and a boy being friends. I think it's a gift to have a friend as the opposite gender. I dont know why. i'm just weird like that. 
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May 8 2005, 09:45 PM
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QUOTE(winterzflamez88 @ May 8 2005, 7:54 AM) i was gonna say it's normal because i no a lot of ppl like that, just a friendship between a boy and a girl... but wen u sed u kissed.... that seems weird. it sounds like friends with benefits 2 me. r u sure u 2 hav absolutely no feelings 4 each other? cz that wuld definitly b frends with benefits, like u just mess around but stay friends. yaya, I Agree, kissing is a little beyond freinds in my opinion...I mean for a boy and a girl, for a girl and girl to jsut kiss each other on the cheek is fine as freinds, but if you are like kissing lips? that's a little different... 
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May 9 2005, 04:54 AM
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i think its normal, my best friend used to be a guy, and when I was younger i used to hang out with guys a lot more because i went to a british school where all the girls were like really girly...the guys were more fun...
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May 9 2005, 10:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You two sound like close friends...up until the part where you two occasionally kiss....
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May 9 2005, 11:11 PM
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 I'M THE NASTY YELLOW TOOTH[that.looks.like.corn] Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,030 |
I have a female friend who is in the same situation, cept they don't kiss. I think it's perfectly fine. Other people, however.. tend to start rumours and so on.
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May 9 2005, 11:18 PM
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like every1 else said, its fine, but i have no idea about the kissing part
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May 10 2005, 12:11 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
all that stuff is normal except for the kissing thing
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May 10 2005, 02:40 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I don't think your friendship is weird but I think the kiss part is O_o. Um one question, how come you kiss her when you don't have feelings for her in that way? If it's a kiss on the cheek then yeah ok but the lips? then thats a little strange.
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May 10 2005, 03:42 AM
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no thats cool, i really want a guy friend like that. i dont have any guy friends only chick friends
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May 10 2005, 04:49 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
it's not weird of guys be friend with girls. but............... kiss.. huh.. what kinds of kiss? just cheeks or??? french kiss?? if yes... yea, that's weird.
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May 10 2005, 09:47 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
you guys sound sweet. but.. the kissing?
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May 11 2005, 12:38 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
I think she became attatched to you, and already developed feelings for you so when you're kissing her, it just leads her on even more...
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May 13 2005, 10:07 PM
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The Best Thing Since Instant Soup Group: Member Posts: 815 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,928 |
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May 14 2005, 01:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,730 |
I think it's perfectly normal and better that way because sometimes girls need to let loose, but can't tell another girl how they hate something, because the other girl with probably bash at her thoughts. Where as with a guy he won't. I think..
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