relationships, why the rush? |
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 May 4 2005, 01:55 PM
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i've noticed that a lot of people like to rush into things.........i have this one friend.....i swear she is so determined to get married as soon as possible that everytime she is dating a new guy within the first month she tells me that they have talked about getting married! i've seen other people rush to move in with someone.........or even get married and it never works out.......so really.....i open up the question of why do people do that? Why rush into things?
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May 4 2005, 02:03 PM
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they just don't want go slow...they just prbably wanna make-out on their first date rather than wait...
or it's love at first sight |
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May 4 2005, 02:34 PM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
maybe she just rlly wants to get married and hasn't found the right guy yet and thinks everyone is it. have you tried pointing it out to her?
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May 4 2005, 03:58 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE("") Why rush into things? I concur. Doesn't it seem to you that the teenagers today want everything NOW? I believe that this trend of having things now reflects the way technology and the way things are going overall in this world. Everything is revolved around making things faster... ...Drivers run red lights to get where they want to go..and teenagers rush into sex because they want to escape reality. I don't know why people rush into things...that doesn't make any sense to me either. Good question. But yeah your friend is naive and unskilled in the matters of a serious relationship it seems like. 1 month and talks about getting married? haha...sounds like a bad version of The Bachelor. -Kevyn |
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May 4 2005, 04:15 PM
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No duplicate posts!!
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May 4 2005, 04:21 PM
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Maybe she's just scared of being alone....or...she likes the idea of getting married....or it could even be that they think that the person is the one...
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May 4 2005, 04:59 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i honestly don't know why people do that but it kinda makes me mad. everytime some girl and guy start going out at my school, a week later they are like..."OH, I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH!! WE ARE GOING TO BE TOGETHER FOREVER!!" and then a week later, all i hear is..."I HATE THAT BASTARD! I CAN'T BELIEVE I WENT OUT WITH HIM!!" it kinda gets annoying.
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May 4 2005, 04:59 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Usually people just get really horny and want more out of a relationship really quick. Like thye want what they want right away. Like if you talk about getting married that might keep the bond of a relationship longer. Maybe, I'm not really that sure though.
People are just too impatient to wait for love. |
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May 4 2005, 05:12 PM
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Love is about patience, and its probably their hormones going haywire if they see a hot person.
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May 4 2005, 05:42 PM
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wow, married? eh they probably like each other alot, and think that they are ready for marriage
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May 4 2005, 05:43 PM
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well they feel the love! lol, my bf does that -- its cute because its like a sign or something that he really looks foward to spending time with you.. yet we are so young! =P
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May 4 2005, 06:06 PM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ May 4 2005, 5:42 PM) wow, married? eh they probably like each other alot, and think that they are ready for marriage  Within the first month? Isn't that moving a bit TOO fast? -Kevyn |
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May 4 2005, 06:15 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i think that they're either confused about their feelings, or that they're just really scared of being alone
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May 4 2005, 08:03 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
whoa married moving in within the first month!?! wow i honestly dont know cause i never heard of such things....
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May 4 2005, 08:04 PM
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Alot of people do that when their in a relationship i guess it shows their affection towards their lover < don't know if that's the right word.
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May 4 2005, 08:07 PM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ May 4 2005, 8:04 PM) Alot of people do that when their in a relationship i guess it shows their affection towards their lover. So what you're saying is...perhaps they use it as a "slang?" to show that they like where they are in their relationship? -Kevyn |
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May 4 2005, 09:01 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
its wierdd too; lyke my first boyfriend was when i was like 12. and we talked about marrying and stuff like that within the first few weeks.. probably because everything is like done and over and it seems boring so you have nothing to look forward to; so u rush it. rushrushrush.
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May 5 2005, 01:38 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
cause they wanna get to the good stuff!
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