Friends fighting..., now one wants to end her life...~! Options

[Desrosiers13]

ok i have a friend and she gets mad over the dumbest things and makes my other friend who she blames everything on ...even when she didnt do anything wrong....and now the friend she blames it on wants to kill herself and not be alive cuz she thinks there is nothing to live for in life because she thinks all her friends hate her....which isnt true! i love her and her other friends love her too and she has so much to live for!!

ok like today...we had to pick groups and i went with 3 people ....and that made my other friend who wasnt in my group mad and she was suppossed to be mad at me...but then all of a sudden someone else comes up to me and tells me that she is not mad at me that she is mad at Judy(the one she always blames it on) and i was like omd she didnt even do anything!!! you should be mad at me!!!
but no she is mad at jud and now she is making her feel really bad and making her think that all her friends are against her and hate her and she wants to end her life!!

what should i do?? i have been friends with both of them since like pre K! and i love them both...i just wish they would get along!! they have been getting in all these fights for the longest time .... but they always seem to work it out..but i dont think they can this time....help me!

Sarah.xoxo

[kyuubi319]

God damn. I hate when crap like that happens. Sit her ass down and tell her, we love you to itty bitty bits.
Then tell your other friend who blames everything on the suicidal friend of yours to STFU.

[Lightner]

bring them both over (telling the other that the other wont be there) and force them to sit down and talk out their problems. She needs to stop blaming her friend for other peoples faults! that could put alot of stress and pressure on the one being acused all the time. Either she solves the life long conficlt.... or the reason she could be doing that is because she is jealous!! she is jealous of your other friend who is being blamed because she wants you to be her best friend. Talk to them both at once so they hear your say your mind and then they can say theirs!

Kinda lost my self in that paragraph lol... hope you understand it. (use fake names next time itll help ^_^)

[--x who0ps]

tell her this:

friends arent everything.
they come & they go.
they change constantly.
friends like the one thats treating her bad is not worth her life.
dump her cause she's not worth your time, not mentioning your life.


but dont you think judy is being jst a tad dramatic?
gawsh

[Shattered_Hope]

This is where you stand up for your suicidal friend. This is where you speak up for her and comfort her.

[aera]

invite both of them over to your house and have a discussion about this. the friend that keeps on blaming everyone else needs to stop.

[loljuliana]

i think that both you and judy should talk to her about it. maybe stand up for judy and tell your other friend that she shouldnt be mad at judy. if you dont think that judy is wrong; just back her up.

[Azn_Angel13]

that always happens with me and mai friends too. don't wry they'll get over the fight sooner or later. but if ya think they won't stop being mad at each other go and talk to both of them.

[DORKalicious]

first of all you need to let your friend know you care about her, and that there are people in her life who love her very much. and i think you should talk to the girl who is mad at her and tell her that this fight is silly, and not worth their friendship.it sounds like she overreacted. hope everything works out =)

[aNg3LBaBi3]

it seems your other friend has something against Judy, you should talk to her about it, and see whats up. you should also talk to Judy and tell her how you feel about her and tell her that all her friends are not against her nor do they hate her. i think in this case you should definitely back Judy up like everyone else said.