my best friend..., wants me to tell off this guy, but... |
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 Apr 30 2005, 05:22 PM
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Okay my best friend wants me to tell off a guy who has been calling her about 20 times in one day. He constantly comes up to my group of friends looking for her, but talks trash about her when she is not around. She can't really answer her cellphone anymore beacause she is afraid it is him calling. he is really getting on my nerves too, but I feel like she should deal with the problem because he is really in effect stalking her. He doesn't seem to like me and I could not care less about him.
He claims he is her friend, but he doesn't treat her with respect at all. He almost asked her out, too. My friend has been dropping hints, but he is not getting the clue. She refuses to confront him. And I am afraid that if he says one more thing about her while she's not there that my other friend maggy and I will blow up on him. What should I do, tell him off or convince my friend that she should do it herself? |
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Apr 30 2005, 06:25 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Why don't you both go and tell off the guy?
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Apr 30 2005, 07:13 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
^ my thoughts exactly
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Apr 30 2005, 07:18 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 30 2005, 6:25 PM) Why don't you both go and tell off the guy?  agreed. it'll be much easier |
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Apr 30 2005, 08:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 30 2005, 7:25 PM) Why don't you both go and tell off the guy? yeah you should do this... tell her that she should stand up for herself and tell him off. you can go with her for moral support and to help her if she can't get the right words out. |
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Apr 30 2005, 09:06 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
tell her to go and say it..or if she doesnt want to go alone, tell her u will go and support her..or if she just refuses, tell him urself..
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Apr 30 2005, 09:20 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Normally, in this situation, you should just tell the guy off without your friend having to tell you....if it's one of your friend's problem, then you should normally see it as yours too, unless it was a relationship type problem....or....you could just convince her that sooner or later she'll need to take a stand for herself and deal with her own problems. Just tell her that you're willing to help her out by confronting him with her but she would need to do the talking.
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Apr 30 2005, 09:56 PM
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i thik it be better if you tell your friend to do so since you couldnt care less. But then she is your friend so maybe you and your friend maggy can go with her to confront him
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Apr 30 2005, 10:24 PM
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QUOTE Why don't you both go and tell off the guy? * my thought exactly. |
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May 1 2005, 09:21 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Your friend should tell him off herself. She is the one who is being bother so she should do something about it.
Or.. Send him a virus 
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May 1 2005, 09:24 PM
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Your friend needs to learn to fight her own battles, she cant depend on someone to always be there to do it for her. She needs to develop a backbone and give that guy a piece of her mind.
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May 1 2005, 09:39 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 30 2005, 7:25 PM) Why don't you both go and tell off the guy? yeah exactly what i was thinking. |
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May 2 2005, 05:07 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
friends dont do that til other friends. just tell him offf
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May 2 2005, 06:37 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ May 1 2005, 9:21 PM) Your friend should tell him off herself. She is the one who is being bother so she should do something about it. Or.. Send him a virus Is that your advice for everything  You and your friend should just both go yell at him.. or send him a virus 
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May 2 2005, 07:19 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
why do you have to tell him off for her? she should stick up for herself and tell him off.
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