i hate my life, school... Options

[Who am i]

I realy hate my life last nite i had the chance to dance wit the 2 hottest girls in my school. But instead i pushed them away (literalty). I just realy suck at dancing, was that a good excuse for pushing them away. 8 of the kids in my class tried to push me onto the dance floor but i push them away, thats how much i didnt want to dance b/c i suck at dancing. And the thing that sucks is that the 1 girl i realy wanted to dance wit asked me to dance like 4 times, and all my freinds to her i wanted to dance wit her. Anyone have dancing problems like me?

[dahding]

u hate ur life cause u can't dance for shit. how sad.

just...dance. iono. nothing to it really..

[jennyjenny]

Are you talking about slow-dancing, or no?

slowdancing is quite easy. you don't really need instructions. and who cares if you can't dance, they asked you anyways.

[AngelTears]

lol, everyone can dance..

Some people just have better rhythem than others.

Dancing is walking to a beat.. if you think about the song your dancing to, and the back beat it has.. like.. take.. Drop It Like Its Hot for example..

That song has a nice backbeat.. kinda slower but you can still really hear it.. its just constantly moving your body to a beat..

Nothing more.

You shouldn't expect yourself to be able to dance like Michale Jackson..

Dancing is for fun anyways, even if you were the worst dancer on the planet, as long as your having fun, what does it matter?

And I have no dancing problems.. I'm part of a Musical Theater group and I have to dance a lot..

[Who am i]

I wasn't talking slow dancing i was talking fast dancing- clubbing if you want to call it that

[eli5e]

u hate ur life cause u can't dance for shit. how sad.

i second that lol ....theres more things in life u know.

[FoOd]

All you need to do is watch Hitch. That'll help you get a girl and know how to dance.

But that is so sad to say that you hate your life because of some incident that included 2 hot girls and a dance.
I third that.

Also, all you need to do is just move your body and shake it. Not really hard.

[heyyfrankie]

go eat 2 twinkies with a glass of milk, cry your little eyeballs out and then maybe...just maybe...you will overcome this horrible traGedy in your life. [/sarcastic bastard]

[racoons > you]

you'll be fine. just go for it, everyone has to dance for the first time in front of people at some point. if you're that worried get lessons

frankie, it's traGedy, not traJedy [/spelling bastard]

[*Weird addiction*]

Aww...that doesn't shouldn't make you hate your life...you are scared. Just tell them you can't dance...or take dancing lessons...you'll be fine.

[zznazi]

yes i can NOT dance for sh**......... but u r the stupidist mf ever......... 2 hots girls ....... if i ever find u i will hurt u..........ha ha ha not jokeing....... do ur best...... even if u look stupid

[to-devastate]

Just tell them you can't dance. I'm sure that it'll be more fun if they teach you. ;]]

[heyyfrankie]

you'll be fine. just go for it, everyone has to dance for the first time in front of people at some point. if you're that worried get lessons

frankie, it's traGedy, not traJedy [/spelling bastard]

whoops!

[loljuliana]

its easy. .just dance with friends so that you dont look like the only idiot

[T3nz1ng]

i dont know how to dance lol ... i never did ... O_O

[Who am i]

Where can i learn how to dance?
Not slow dancing like clubbing (idont even know what its called)

[*nightmare4taki*]

Damn Im glad I dont have this problem. I can do it all: Bboy, Breakdance, Poplocking, Crip Walk, Heel~toe, and much more.

I go clubbin alot so naturally I know how to dance. Like the other people said there r other things you can relate to her about other than dancing. You should have just went for. You had nothing to lose.

[*mzkandi*]

So let me get this straight, you hate your life because you cant dance, that a silly reason to hate life, dont ya think. If not being able to dance really bothers you then presue dancing leasons. Also, dance isnt that hard. You just go with the flow. And whatever you do, dont push anymore girls anyways, all you have to say is your not the best dancer in town and I'm sure they'll understand

[Who am i]

yea i said that nd i had like 10 try to get me on the dance floor.

[rOckThISshYt]

Hun, just gotta be a little honest with you.

I hate it when people say that their life sucks because they do something stupid for one night. I'm not saying my life sucks cuz I do have a good life for the most part. But I also see bad things that would affect different people to think they have a bad life. Just because you didn't dance with some hott chicks doesn't mean your life sucks.

[iheartsimba]

I don't really think people "can't dance" Because you CAN you're just shy about it. That sucks though =[ But she did WANT to dance with you! Doesn't that help at all?

[sharerol]

You shouldn't put yourself down just because you don't think you can dance. You should really just go for it. I don't think they'd mind your dancing, as long as they're dancing with you. =\

[DanielleMaria05]

Ack. Not being able to dance is not a reason to hate your life. DUH!

I can't dance, but I still try. I may look like an idiot, but ya know what, I dont' care.

[inthemudhole]

I'm sorry?
It's your own fault for pushing them away.
Slow-dancing is very easy. All you do is just 'go with the flow.' It varies from person to person and from song to song.

EDIT//

Cough. I just went through the thread.

Maybe you just shouldn't have been shy about it... Anyone can dance if they're willing to.

[blogpants]

oh that's silly
how old are you?
It's only dancing- just do it or don't.
Then go sex-up this girl up.

[xj_liana_tx]

it's just a dance, you have plenty of opportunities to make it up.
i have the same problem too. i am too scared to get onto the dance floor because i'll probably make a fool of myself.

[Who am i]

But i dont know how should i move my legs and arms

[Eryi]

What do you want us to do, help you jump off a building?

[*paul murphy*]

I suck at dancing too. *spooky noises* You are not alone

[parallel]

Isn't there already a topic like this? With kinda the same title? Except. Oh nvm. x]

Oh crap dude. Was someone being shy? Just go out next time or whatever and bust a move and prove everyone wrong. =] Besides. Once you realize you can dance, you won't stop. *Does a jig*

[Who am i]

How should i move my hands and feet?

[Who am i]

What motion?

[parallel]

Don't double post please. You can always just edit it. kthx.

Just move your body to the beat. =]
Or wait. What type of dancing are we talking about here?

[Who am i]

Clubbing.
But how should i move my arms nd legs?
Like a wave motion?

[aznxdreamer]

dancing is just walking strangely and to at beat...thats how i look at it.

[*jooleeah*]

If you tell them you can't dance, I'm sure they'll teach you. Besides, it doesn't really matter. You don't need to dance well at some party.

Haha, tell me you were kidding about hating your life just because you can't dance. Please xD

[angel-roh]

Dance freely, but don't goof off on dancing because people will stare at you and make yourself embarrassed.

If you want to get dance lessons for slow dances...ask your mom or your nice/helpful friends.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

LMAO i know how you feel i hate danicng when boys ask me to dance, i would just go like "sorry i don`t dance" or you can dance with your friends.

[Who am i]

I reali do hate my life b/c i cnt dance-----but the thing is if i go for dancing lessons and what if i see a person i kno whos there like one of my class mates what if they tell my class? " walk to the beat" i kno what you mean but how should i move?

[misoshiru]

you hate your life just because you can't dance?!

dancing comes through experience. go with the flow, feel the beat, and it comes naturally.

[FoOd]

First it comes naturally, like tapping your foot. Then your hands begin to sway from side to side. Eventually your body will rock to the music.

Let it flow freely. Don't think about it too much.

[sunissed14127]

Anyone can dance...I used to be really shy about dancing at dances...but one day I just came out of my shell, & come to find out I'm pretty good.

[Who am i]

But like how do i and how should i move?

[jue]

maybe take dance classes; they're always held at my school or you coulkd always practiceee (=

[Just_Dream]

Agreed, slow-dancing is easy. Why didn't you just wait for a slow-dance song to come up, then ask the girl to dance with her? IDK.. slowdancing just comes naturally, I guess.

As for me, I can't actually dance. I'm not good with rhythm, especially since I have terrible reflexes. haha. Anyway, you should ask your friends for some pointers. I don't see guys dancing that much though. Actually, they're more into break-dancing or something like that.

[Who am i]

Any other advice?

[toodlepops.]

So, you hate your life because you can't dance and you had the opputunity to dance with 2 hot girls but you pushed them away. That sucks.

Get over it. Theres nothing much to dancing just let loose. I'm sure you'll be okay. Good Luck. =]

[Who am i]

But how do i move how should i move specificly

[Soleil]

Wow..sorry i dont want to be mean but thats pathetic its only a dance!!!!! You can always learn!!!!! You can ask your friends!! You can ask the girl you like to teach you so its more one on one time with her!!!! There are soo many ways to learn. And if thats why you hate your life now im scared about whats going to happen to you later in life.Ohh dear man.

[kyuubi319]

So... You hate your life because you can't dance? Reminds me of that song.. you know..

do you love me,
now that i can dance~

You know you love that song.

Basically, learn how to dance. It's not that hard.

[Who am i]

For me it is

[miszSERENiTY]

Ahh that reminds me of my friend. He is deathly afraid of dancing...I just laugh it him..I don`t know really what to tell you...learn ?

[Looow]

I can't dance if my life depended on it. But I still dance =] Just like my friend Lauren, she can't sing, btu she sings anyway. Actually, she can't even talk.

[rOckThISshYt]

Like I said before, not being able to dance is a damn bad excuse for hating life. But I also have more to say.

Everyone can dance. Live your own party. Don't let someone tell you that you can't dance. Just fling your arms around, jump up and down, and throw your head around. That's dancing to me.

[rememberme]

hahah.

Lol~

Funny

[alliegrl_x]

The thing is, nothing is gonna make you look worse than pushing two hot chicks away and being an idiot. Not even dancing like a retard.

I have a friend who absolutely cannot dance. she looks like a human tornado on drugs on the dance floor, but shes happy just making people laugh.

You my friend, are too self concious.

I mean if they asked you, it means they want to dance with you and it shouldnt really matter how much of a pro you are.

And please, we dont need everyone going suicidal due to their inability to dance.

[x LUV x ALWAYS x]

whether your life sucks or not shouldn't depend on whether you can dance or not.

heck, just dance!

i can't dance for my life either. i used to be too embarassed to dance, but hey i realized that no one really cares whether you can dance amazingly or not...as long as you go up and do it.

[ChIpS'n'DiP]

o well its nothing big. just dance!

This is my first post ever i hope im doing it right.

[automatikprinces...]

ohh gosh,seriously cmon look at all the people who have it worse then you,ugh!

[RaphieRyouga]

hey zznazi i kno were he iz and i probably help u

[Luster Soldier]

I know what you're saying bro. It's just a part of regret, you'll get over it soon.

Dancing? I'd rather not...but I'll do it if given the occasion.

[demolished]

Take every chances in life seriously, there is not turning back. =] good luck. Just dance .. you'll suprise people.

No, it never happen to me because i dont go to dance place or anything.

[vampireduster]

u hate ur life cause u can't dance for shit. how sad.

just...dance. iono. nothing to it really..

haha yeah i agree. i suck at dancing but if some really hot guy came up to me and asked me to dance then i would go up there and dance

[JlIaTMK]

No.... I don't.

I can dance pretty well....

but anyways,

I am honestly shocked that no one has moved this to RELATIONSHIPS.

>.>

[*basick*]

hahahah go kill yourself

[Rachel]

I am honestly shocked that no one has moved this to RELATIONSHIPS.

And I am shocked it hasn't been CLOSED.








anyways,
uhm, instead of hating life,
I hate you

[*Azarel*]

NO DANCING PROBLEMS HERE, FOLKS.

So many of these posts are off-topic, if you read his original question.

.. Uhm.

And dude, your life does not suck. Get over it.

[*kryogenix*]

Still hate your life?

Put things into perspective.

[Rachel]

Anna, too many grammar/spelling/lack of punctuation errors for me to bother getting to the point of the paragraph. Besides that, I don't care...=]

ps, ILU

[mouse_3k]

ur quite...err...immature. get over it.

[BeyondElite]

I can dance. But i'm shy. Yes, it's one of my problems.

[Saeglopur]

When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

[neko]

^I love that quote.^
lol anyways,

I.. cannot dance to save my life.
but still.. too hate your life over it, its just one dance. there are many others to come.