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 Apr 28 2005, 11:48 AM
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 cherish the past.embrace the future.live for today  Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,330  |
This is really long and confusing, and you guys will probably think I really am crazy for this guy (I really was) when you read this, but really need help.
Last spring in sixth grade, I had a really bit crush on a guy in my class. I didn't really know him that well, but I had a huge crush on his looks and how good he was on the soccer field. He found out, and a guy in my class claimed that he really hated me and the guy refused to sign my yearbook when I asked him to. I started asking myself what the hell was wrong with me, and was pretty confused all last summer. This year in 7th, I saw him a lot over the summer, and he turned out to be in all my classes this year. He changed a lot, and I learned a lot more about him- like how he's really polite, is a straight- A jock, and is actually pretty friendly. I hung out with him a lot, and he was really nice to me, and treated me like everyone else- or so it seemed. I remember joking with him once, saying one of the cheerleaders were looking in his direction and he said "Oh her? I don't date girls like her." That really got me, I thought he really was a better person. I got a camera for yearbook club and was taking pictures of everyone in class. By the end of the day, he says loudly, "she's been taking pictures of me all day. It's so annoying". Damn, that really hurt. I really didn't talk to him, look at him and just didn't want anything to do with him. So now, I see him in the halls, flirting with another cheerleader that I sit next to in class. Every day I walk into that period, I always see them flirting. More than a few times, he's bumped into me and not even bother to say sorry, and ask for the cheerleader to wait. He's friends with one of my old guy friends, but every time I ask him for help, he always laughs at me. Damnit I'm confused, someone help me! |
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Apr 28 2005, 12:12 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
=T this guy is an a-hole, and not worth your time..but the best thing to do is just go up to him and ask if he likes you or not or w/e. if he doesn't then just try to be friends.. if he does. then YAY :D good luck
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Apr 28 2005, 12:24 PM
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cherish the past.embrace the future.live for today Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,330 |
I"ll try that... thx
but I only think he was nice to me to begin with, because he felt bad for me. I hate being pitied. And guys always go for the cheerleaders and preps first in my school. They don't give a second glance at average girls like me. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Apr 28 2005, 03:56 PM
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what she said he`s not worth your time, ther`s other boys out there waiting for you xD like they say there are other fish in the sea<3 he`s not good enough for you =)
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Apr 28 2005, 03:58 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
wow. .he seems..to change really fast. i dont think you should really waste your time on him. ignore him for awhile, dont bother talking / looking at him. make new friends. soon enough; he'll realize what an a-hole he is. it's his lost. dont worry about it<3
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Apr 28 2005, 07:02 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
he's a jerk... and a player. and everything else like that
 and even if he did like you, even as a friend, he's probably too worried about his reputation, or status or w.e. to actually admit it. you should forget about him. he's not really worth your time.
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Apr 28 2005, 07:10 PM
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stand up to him and show him you're not a 'tard like him. while he's flirting with the cheerleader, just go up and say "you said you didn't like/date girls like HER."
prove that you're better. |
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Apr 28 2005, 07:28 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Apr 28 2005, 4:56 PM) he`s not good enough for you =)  yeah, he's definately not good enough for you, you deserve so much better than this complete ass. you should just get over him, he's a jerk. he uses you to get laughs, "oh she's been taking pictures of me all day, blah blah i'm so funny" ugh. plus he's rude, he bumped into you but didn't say sorry, if he isn't polite to you then who is he polite to? let him be immature and step on people to get to the top. you'll find someone who'll treat you with respect someday...just keep waiting  |
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Apr 28 2005, 07:32 PM
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he's a jerk, don't bother wasting your time over him. forget about him, like chii said, you deserve much better.
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Apr 28 2005, 07:42 PM
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He is not worth your time. Move on, I know it's hard but you have to.
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Apr 28 2005, 07:46 PM
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Obviously he's a stupid jerk. Don't waste your time on him. If he doesn't notice how much better you are than those girls flirting with him all the time, then he's not worth it.
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Apr 28 2005, 08:17 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
were you even taking pictures of him? he seems like a vain and arrogant person.
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Apr 28 2005, 09:06 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
This guy is such a jerk! Forget him please you're better than him. Obviously he is too full of himself. I hate him already and I haven't met him.
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Apr 28 2005, 09:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
move onn... he thinks the whole world revolves around him --- there is more fishes in the sea [meaning there are more boys in the world to like, hes not the only one]
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Apr 29 2005, 07:57 AM
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cherish the past.embrace the future.live for today Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,330 |
QUOTE(akinachan @ Apr 28 2005, 9:17 PM) were you even taking pictures of him? he seems like a vain and arrogant person. nah, just his general direction... i didnt mean to. thx all of you, i feel so much better about the whole thing. i cant wait to shove his head into his sax in band next monday... 
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