Can you stay with someone who's rarely physically |
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 Apr 25 2005, 05:46 PM
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You guys are dumb.  Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094  |
I saw these people on Oprah that have sex like once in a year and even a lady that does it like once every 3 year just to procreate.
If you're dating/married to a hottie but he/she adamantly says she only do that sort of thing once a year, would you stay with her? You can hold hands and a light kiss on the cheek at the most. |
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Apr 25 2005, 05:50 PM
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.... that's a tough question. I'm leaning toward no, but I can't say for sure. I like cuddling too much. :D
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Apr 25 2005, 05:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,652 |
I believe you can cause what most important is that you have someone who cares about you and they have their well being... It's not about being physical all the time... Sometimes the simple things in life is worth living.
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Apr 25 2005, 07:19 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
errr. .am i dating him just because he's hot?
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Apr 25 2005, 07:19 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ Apr 25 2005, 7:19 PM) errr. .am i dating him just because he's hot?  Answer the damn question :) |
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Apr 25 2005, 08:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
for dating, sure
marriage, no. |
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Apr 25 2005, 08:23 PM
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i don't think i can....if i am married
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Apr 25 2005, 10:51 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Dang that's a hard question to answer. I guess I can but that's going to be really really hard.
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Apr 25 2005, 11:49 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
wow, nice question
but i would choose no. maybe for dating but no for marriage ;] eh, i feel like a whore or osmething saying that -__-;; |
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Apr 25 2005, 11:52 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
yes it would be hard but i think that if u really love the person then u can do anything. i mean...that person will always be on ur mind for the rest of your life n if u leave that person for that selfish reason you will always regret it.
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Apr 26 2005, 12:04 PM
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dating.. yer... try to get her hot HAHHA.. marriage... no... knowing that fact that she's gonna be like that forever...
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Apr 26 2005, 12:08 PM
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only if we could bump it up to 2x a year or 3x a year.
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Apr 26 2005, 12:11 PM
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knowing myself [[lol]] i cant do that --- i would need some action in my life... lmao
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Apr 26 2005, 12:12 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
umm..sex isnt everything. For a while I was having an extreme moral battle about sex, and so I stopped doing it. I didnt do it for like..6 months (thats a long ass time for me) and my boyfriend respected that. He still came over and still cuddled with me, we just didnt do it. If you love and support someone, the sex shouldnt matter. I mean, what if your husband gets in a car accident and is paralyzed from the legs down, are you gonna divorce him?
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Apr 26 2005, 12:15 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,762 |
 I can deff. be with someone whos hardly ever physical! i mean its alot better then somone who only wants to be physical. now if that guy never ever is well duh i mean you've got needs but no its not such a bad thing! ive been with my boyfriend almost a year and a half and were not very physical but weve got the best relationship ever! but what works for me may not for you..
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Apr 26 2005, 01:06 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
no i cant... i cant even go through my period without craving for sex
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Apr 26 2005, 01:28 PM
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 Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
if you love the person, you respect their wishes.
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Apr 26 2005, 01:33 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
dating: sure. I'd rather not get pregnant anyway.
marriage: no no no no no. sorry. too horny. If I really really really loved them though.. well maybe, i guess |
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Apr 26 2005, 05:07 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Well I think something has to be wrong in the relationship for your mate to only want to have sex with you once a year!
I am going with no. Sex makes you happy, happy makes you nice, nice makes you happy, happy makes you have sex. (That made no sense) |
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Apr 26 2005, 05:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 26 2005, 5:07 PM) Well I think something has to be wrong in the relationship for your mate to only want to have sex with you once a year! Yup yup.. Dating, of course it's fine. Marriage.. isn't something wrong with the relationship? I mean, if he's paralyzed or whatever, it's understandable. But, don't wanting.. in a MARRIAGE.. that's uh.? and LIGHT KISS and HOLDING hands at MOST.. No no.. at least hugs!! I love hugs! I love it when someone you really love comes up to you and just hugs you. |
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Apr 26 2005, 06:12 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
no...i like sex
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Apr 26 2005, 07:01 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Nope, no banging up ever.
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Apr 26 2005, 07:33 PM
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u should stay with them if u really love them and u don't care if u guys cuddle or not. so yeah.
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Apr 26 2005, 07:43 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
being physical is only half of the relationship...it definitely does not make all...when you get old and being physical is out of the question...what will keep your relationship stable? True love and trust for each other.
Dont get me wrong though...being physical is important...however I stress on the fact that it doesn't make all. Besides when I put on black lipstick and eyeliner/shadow and look pretty...having my girlfriend lick and kiss me all the time me is the last thing I'd need ^_^. So yes...relationships do last with a lack of physical. Kisses are sweet and hugs are nice... ...and just being by each other's side without saying a word.....isn't that enough? ...a little peck on the cheek can make the biggest impact. Same goes for a nice hug. And you'll probably find that your soulmate might not be the best looking guy on the block. My girlfriend is very pretty but not the prettiest girl. She wouldn't be considered "hott" to most guys..(except me ^_^.) But she gives me all I need and more... -Kevyn |
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Apr 26 2005, 08:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
hmmm kissing on the checks only????! damn but oh wells its love that really matters if you love the person then you can and wil respect them and if they dont want to have sex then it should be fine
.:tony:. |
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Apr 26 2005, 11:13 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
well, I'm gonna say yes because if you really really love a perosn ofcourse you'll stay with them, but I'd never flall in love with osmeone who was weird enoguh to have that rule anyway so I ahve no idea
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Apr 27 2005, 09:43 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I am going to need a little more than that though. Kissing on the cheek is just stupid. But if we do it once a year its going to last a week.
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Apr 27 2005, 10:37 AM
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to be honest....no i don't think i'd be able to handle it.
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Apr 27 2005, 06:37 PM
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 JazzyMonk Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,350 |
In my opinion, being physical in a relationship is just as important as other aspects that would keep he relationship going. Trust, communication, sex, among others, are equally important. If one can't trust their partner, they'll find someone else they can trust. If one can't communicate with the other, they may find someone else to talk to. If one doesn't have sexual satisfaction (or being "physical") with their significant other, they may find someone else to do it with.
Everything is important in a relationship. If you don't want to be physical, then there's always online dating, where you can type sweet nothings in your partner's AIM box. Whee fun! |
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