Backstabber Options

[Nicole0402]

Ok theres this guy..Nathan. And I am so in love with him. Even though he broke up with me 6 months ago. I still love him. Well now my "best friend" is dating him. She has no respect for me at all!!! What am I going to do? I'm a wreck. I can't stop crying. How could she do this to me?

[Nicolatofu]

Have you tried talking to her about this? From what you've told me, she doesn't have any right to treat you so badly. However, it's clear that your ex has moved on, so it's best if you do the same. But first, if your friend can't gain respect for you, I'd say you drop her. Maybe then she'll realize what she was doing.

Oh, wait. Are you trying to say that she has no respect because she's going out with him? I'm not sure what you mean now. Well, if it's that case, then I still go with what I said above as far as getting over him. It's been quiet a while now. It's hard to hear, but I think it's best if you let him live his life, and you live on yours.

[SpedMonkee]

maybe she doesnt know exactly how you feel about this. either way she probably feels that its been 6 months (long enough) and that you should start to be over him by now.

[Nicole0402]

Alright. I'm going to try and be clear She knows that I'm still hurting over him. I've cried to her many many times. She has no respect for me because she's been my friend for years, and now she is going to treat me like this. She also lied about to whole thing until I actually knew and got proof. Then she fessed up. So that really hurt. Maybe he did move on....but I havent and she knew that.

[mouse_3k]

I say beat her up, beat him up, and make their lives terrible. they deserve it

[Eryi]

Well it has been 6 months already, he moved on and you did too before knowing this right? Did your friend ever mention that she liked/loved him? However, she shouldn't be treating you badly, if she's a friend then she should hear you out, but since your crying and all i don't think she really cares. I agree she's a backstabber, a boyfriend stealer. But move on. Find better boys out their instead of him. Theres billions of them.

[Nicole0402]

lol beat her up. I've thought about it. But no need for violence I never got over him. She used to hate him....until recently. She jut started talking to him. and here we are now. I've tried to move on. only to come back to the starting point

[dahding]

it's been 6 months, and apparently, he got over it. i think u should move on too, or else it's just gonna get worse. definitely talk to her about it. if she's still gonna be a closeminded person, drop her, cause that's not a friend.

[me1issaaaa]

This girl is not your friend. Hate to say it, but most girls are bitches. They always go for what they shouldn't. Dump both of them. If he dumped you, you can find someone better. And this girl....... is someone who gives girls a bad name. She is not worthy of your time/tears/energy. Neither of them are. You can do SO MUCH BETTER. I promise you. No matter how great you think this guy is, there's someone better waiting for you.

[Nicole0402]

thanks she's [used to be] the only girl friend i have[had] For that reason right there

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

it happens. u have to careful who u choose to trust. it's pretty bad that she is going out with a guy that was ur ex only for six months. she's a backstabber n not ur friend. dont consider her a friend. it's happened to a couple people i know n yea...they dont consider that girl a friend. u dont need her.

it's been 6 months, and apparently, he got over it. i think u should move on too, or else it's just gonna get worse.

her getting over her boyfriend is not the point. the point is that her friend KNEW she still loved her ex n she still went out with him. i had this happen to a couple of my friends n if she was her friend she shouldnt have done that to her in the first place.

just dump her as a friend cuz she's not one since she already did that to u.

[Nicole0402]

I pretty much have. I'm actually kindof hoping that she will cheat on him[ like all the others] and maybe he would come back to me or maybe i just need to quit dreaming! I guess if it's really meant to be...then it will happen.

[pinayprincess]

*bitch slap her ... i havent experienced 'such a thing' b/c my friends know better lol.. if any girl did that to me, even if they werent like my best friend, i would of bitch slapped her, knowing that everybody knows that i have lotta of love for my bf-- they shouldnt be doing that in the first place....

[jordanriane]

This guy is obviously over you, that should be a hint to move on.
You should also realize that he's dating your ex/best friend.

Drop the friend, and forget the guy.
Yes, it's that simple.
Yes, it hurts.
Yes, it'll take awhile for your feelings to subside.

To bide time until then, find a hobby to do and just immerse yourself into it.

[vampireduster]

you sound like my friend chris. he was a wreck over my best friend. It took him 8 months to get over her. Well he said he was but we could tell he wasnt. Just talk to your friend and see what they could do. So yeah just take your time. talk to people and yeahhhhh

[Shattered_Hope]

She was wrong for dating him even if it has been six months because she knew you still had feelings for him...you don't need a best friend like her...and....there are better guys out there than him....
The best thing for you to do is confront her about it....and tell her off. And then...you can move on and forget about both of them.

[__PASS10NAT3]

If you ask me I wouldn't consider that girl who is dating your ex a "best friend". I mean, a best friend is supposed to understand your feelings and care about you. Obviously she doesnt care much about you if she's now dating him. You should maybe try talking to ur "best friend". Try explaing to her you don't like it. Maybe it might be time to call it quits with her.

[shewasradiant]

i actually had this happen to me. the girl and i arent friends anymore, but thats only because she lied about their relationship to me for a month and a half. and unless youre in the same postion i was in, you shouldnt be so upset. i mean, it was 6 months ago. and if you want to stop loving this guy completely, you should just stop talking to him. the more you talk to him, the more you become attatched to him. you kinda get what im saying?

[Nicole0402]

Ok I talked to her.....she was like. "Well I didn't want to hurt you" Hahaha! too late for that hun. Thanks for helping me out!!!!

[shortiiex]

two can play that game........date her crush or a hottie to make her so jealous

[loljuliana]

forget about them. what kind of friend is that? just make new friends, and start over. they're not worth your time

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

pshh what kinda friend is she? start over she isn`t worth your tears, talking to her about it won`t do a thing if she was never your friend in the first place.

[*mzkandi*]

You friends doesnt sound like very good friend and neither does your ex. I know some people cant help who they like, but for them to see each other behind you back is so wrong. I say you dont him or her.

[onemanshow]

it only takes about 2 months to get over exs if the relationship's not long enuff.. i mean.. 6 months.. i just feel that something has actually happened wifin ur frend and ur ex b4 6 months time.. so... i duno.. just a little advice.