3 guys...just poor ole me..left in confusion, 1 girl, 3 guys. intense. |
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 Apr 22 2005, 08:46 AM
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Okay. I was going out with a guy from Tennessee (Geoffrey) and im from Minnesota. Thats a good 1,000 miles. Things worked for about 9 months...now im left with nothing. I got REALLY attached. He even flew up to see me for spring and christmas break. Hes 18 and im only 15 so my mom hates him. But we told eachother we would pull through..but we havent. While me and him were together my best friend Shaun who is from around here was falling in love with me. And now Matt, another friend has feelings for me. The thing is i dont think i have the same feelings for Shaun as he does for me...but im not entirely sure that i dont. But i do like Matt ALOT. I would rather go out with Matt...but he wants to wait. And all my friends hate Matt and think hes a raging a-hole. But they dont see the side that i do.
IM SO CONFUSED! Someone give me a little advice that might help...
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Apr 22 2005, 01:00 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
so you're not together with geoffrey anymore?
-_-; do whatever you want. go out with matt. he likes you, and you like him. but if you're still with geoffrey, then be loyal to your boyfriend, for God's sakes. |
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Apr 22 2005, 01:25 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
u like matt n wanna b with him? then go for it. ur friends will just have to get use to it. if they're REALLY ur friends then they'll b happy for u n actually start getting to know him
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Apr 22 2005, 04:01 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If it's over between you and Geoffrey...then I say you should go for it....Matt likes you and you like him...I think this is easy enough.....But you should tell Shaun about the situation and that you only see him as a friend...
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Apr 22 2005, 04:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,886 |
i know its easier said then done but follow ur heart! son't do whats best for the guy(cuz you know they all like you) or don't do whats best for ur friends but do whats best for YOU!! but also be fair to the guys involved!
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Apr 22 2005, 04:44 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
none of them.
and then see which one you miss the most. |
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Apr 22 2005, 06:04 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's up to you, who do you like better. if its matt then break up with geoffrey and go with matt.
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Apr 22 2005, 09:04 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
just go with what your heart says. if you like Matt enough then go for it. don't force yourself to do something you will regret later on.
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