your friend's crush has a crush on you? |
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 Apr 21 2005, 09:55 PM
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 peggy's here.  Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,603  |
would you go for it or reject that person?
since that never happened to me before, so... |
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Apr 21 2005, 10:09 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
lol dont reject it. accept it lol .
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| *XLilAznGrl592X* |
Apr 22 2005, 12:16 AM
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ummm... well u like him i dunno u dont like him reject
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Apr 22 2005, 12:17 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Probably a 1-2 month relationship, or losing your friend?
I rather chose the friend. Seriously, you don't go around doing those evil things to your friend.. |
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Apr 22 2005, 06:47 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i wouldn't go for it, that could mean losing a friend.
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Apr 22 2005, 08:04 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
it depends if you like him back...
but if it was me, then i'd reject him. no good in losing a friend over a crush. |
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Apr 22 2005, 11:54 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Well if i was single and liked that person loads then maybe but i wouldnt lose a friend over it.
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| *Azarel* |
Apr 22 2005, 11:56 AM
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I suppose it depends. I'd rather stay friends though.
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 22 2005, 12:19 PM
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If it would hurt my friend, then no. I have had my friend's crushes crush over me a few times and i never go for it because i avoid drama whenever possible.
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Apr 22 2005, 01:31 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
never happened to me bfore but i know a friend (sarah) who has a friend who had a crush on a guy but this guy likes sarah n not her friend but she swore never to like him but now she is starting to like him but she couldnt help it n now they're going to prom together. (sarah n the guy her friend likes are going together) but she didnt intentionally start to like him but even so if she was really sarah's friend then she would be happy for her even if she was jealous.
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Apr 22 2005, 03:20 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
go for it.
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Apr 22 2005, 03:43 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you have a crush on this guy too..then go for it..but if you don't....I don't think you should..
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Apr 22 2005, 03:43 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Put yourself in your friends shoes. How would you feel if your crush asked your friend out and she yes when she knew you liked him? Angry? Hateful against her?
 I would think so too. Heh
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Apr 22 2005, 04:37 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
chicks before dicks.
bro's before ho's. |
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Apr 25 2005, 10:09 AM
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 I CaN'T LiVE WiTHoUT YoU!! Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,143 |
i am not sure too...this happens on me as well...
my friend's crush has a crush on me... and i have a bf as well....and it seems to me that i like him a bit as well... Ooo my GoDDDddd.... |
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Apr 25 2005, 10:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
either way the friend willl be mad at you but you go for it she will be mad longer
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Apr 25 2005, 11:32 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
omigosha...thas like the...exact thing that happened to me...what a quinkie dink that the topic would pop up...lols....i rejected though....because....that's like...my friend's crush...thas so forking wrong to do such a thing to your friend...who does that...
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Apr 25 2005, 11:37 AM
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Whether I liked him back would be a factor in the decision...but I would most likely reject him if a good friend liked him. The friendship would be more important to me. (But if it was just a "say hi in the hall" friend, I'd accept.)
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Apr 25 2005, 01:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
I'd reject, why go with her when I have a great friend.
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Apr 26 2005, 12:34 PM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
hem... this is a really difficult question.. it depends what kinda friendship u are with ur friend.. maybe u shud talk to your friend about it.. and if u have feelings for him then yeh talk it thru with your friend.. but if u don't ahve feelings.. maybe u shud just tell him straight in his face.. and say look it's not gonna work out..
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Apr 26 2005, 12:52 PM
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but careful when u talk over thigns wif ur frend... cos... it might be end up wif backstabbing..
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Apr 28 2005, 10:01 PM
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it`s not worth a good friendship<3
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Apr 29 2005, 01:39 PM
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i guess it just depends on the way you feel for him.
if yu think you two are just better off being friends then do so(= do what yur heart thinks is best. |
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Apr 29 2005, 02:46 PM
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 most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
Well your friend would probably be CRUSHED if she found out that you were goin' with the guy that she liked. But basically, talk to your friend and ask her if she would be okay with it, after that it's basically up to your conscience
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Apr 29 2005, 04:37 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
This happened to me before, but unfortunately her crush disgusts me (or in other words, I just don't like him), so I wouldn't "go for it" o_o
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Apr 29 2005, 09:26 PM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
if you...
like him: take it dont like him: reject him not sure: discuss it with your friend |
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Apr 29 2005, 09:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Reject, but stay friends with him. I don't like doing that kinda stuff to my friends.
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Apr 29 2005, 11:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
it really depends on if he was someone really special that i know i won't ever meet again and how good of a friend my friend is.
of course, i'll take in consideration the feelings of my friend, as in how much she likes him. if she likes him more than i do, then i'd forget about him. i don't know what i'm saying. these things you just have to act with your heart. |
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Apr 30 2005, 12:00 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
if i liked him, and if my friend was a true friend, then i would accept.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 9 2005, 06:33 PM
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i would just tell them what a great friend your friend who likes him ahaha maybe they'll start liking them.
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May 9 2005, 08:20 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Couples only last 2-3 months.
And if you do say yes then when you get your heartbroken whos gonna catch your fall? Reject |
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May 9 2005, 09:12 PM
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if my friend liked them first, i would def. reject them.
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