Smart Guys Don't Get The Girls, 10 Reasons Why. Options

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10 Reasons Why Intelligent Men Don't Get Women

Now now, I know what you're all thinking. cB is dominantly mature enough and (ahem) intelligent enough to take this seriously. The author here has published his writing, and he too, also has had exceptional experience; so no need to bash his credentials. So...I was wondering. Any guys get some answers?

[Terror]

well i wouldnt know im not exactly the smart type, im not dumb, just not super smart

[neKronos!]

wow that sounds just like me 2 years ago

[soulless727]

i really dont know....im smart and i dont do that stuff....course i havent had a girlfriend so it must be true

[Fangsea]

(im new) well im smart but those things are what i try not to do and im usally wrong. but im smart...... its kinda wierd...

[Eryi]

I don't know if it's true 'cause i get girls and I'm smart. Lol.

[Grim_Sorrow]

Hmm... I'm Quite Inteligent... Yet I Have No Problems When it Comes To Women ...



THough The Fact That I'm A Poet , I Own A Mercedes, And I'm A Romantic At heart Seem To be The main Reasons For This...

Or Its Just My Wit , Charm, And Well Rounded Sense Of Humor...



No,

No,


Its The Mercedes...

[someflipguy]

im smart and i get chicks. not always true.

[cocoalightning27]

Gah I hope thats not true...i can get girls...just as long as I ask them out...

[sadolakced acid]

hmmm...

well i guess i'm lucky i'm failing math.

[IamRad]

i kno a really smart guy and he's had quite a few girlfriends. he currently has one

[FoOd]

Hmmm, this has been brought to my attention.

Not many of the smart dudes have a girlfriend...

Well at my school anyway

[eenycee]

u want ten reasons why inteligent guys don't get girls. here's my top 5

5. school is always first
4. GIRLS? no time for girls
3. does my mom count?
2. don't talk sweet
1. weird.

[someflipguy]

maybe yal are talking about nerds! lets define this, because there are a lot of smart people and a lot of girls are attracted to smart guys. Or, maybe you guys are talking about smart guys.

[cs378]

REASON #3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS

wow, that is somehow true, don't you guys think so? Without any social skills = hard time to meet anyone

[sm0kinm0nky]

lol how smart are we talking about, some of the reasons i can relate to

[misoshiru]

how sad. the guy i like right now fits 100% into that list. perfectly.

[gladz612]

hahahhaha i hf to agree with that esp - REASON #6: THEY FOCUS ON LOGIC INSTEAD OF EMOTION. how true!

[sammi rules you]

i love smart guys.

[racoons > you]

^

and smart guys love you, my dear.

yeah. so. thats not really true... i mean, it makes sense... but you cant just group people like that. its stupid

[d0nchikit0]

Bullshit.. Depends what type of smart you are. If you're smart enough to tell a girl what they want to hear, then you'll get all of them. Like me. I'm a friggin' genius and a damn pimp. 147 = I.Q. Thank you

[pinyoboy]

of course all brains isnt gonna get you any women. XD u need to be hot rich n funny. but um, being smart is not going to deter tha ladies. most all the girls i know want a smart guy.

[Relentless]

Some smart guys in my class are the ladiezz man.. i am also, but im not that smart. Some ladiezz like smart students because they probably dont want a dum and dimwitted guy. Girls who don't choose smart guys, they may go for the looks? just an opinion.. xD Personality on the guy's is the best way to get//meet ladiezz..

[iliang86]

i think reason #8 is definately true...at least it applies to me in some way. haha

[Vozedale]

Here I go again to spill my heart out to a bunch of people I don't know...

Ok, first we are talking about "intelligence", while I don't think that is really the guy that don't get the girls. There are intelligent and attractive guys and they get the girls. Nice guys usually don't get the girls, but guys with WISDOM I think more often do not get the girls. Guys with wisdom have a knowledge of life and are very distinct from other people, although often they are also very intelligent. Although no one fits this system rigorously, let's look at the people as balanced.

Very attractive people are popular. They get dates, their social skills are being like everyone else that is popular. They might have intelligence, but usually lack wisdom and/or kindness. If conformity means being stupid, then they act or are stupid.

Then, you have your somewhat attractive people. They get dates, they have decent social skills, but also have their own values and will not conform against what they value the most. They are probably from average to high intelligence, have some wisdom, and are probably nice.

Last, you have your intelligent and wise people. They are probably less attractive and although they might not be ugly, they usually feel they are and are treated as if they were ugly because they are not popular. Their wisdom and higher system of values will not allow them to conform to everyone else, They may have poor social skills and might be very shy and quiet. They are usually introverts, and therefore may have a deep potential for passion. Although these people may not always show to be the nicest people, they may have the greatest potential for kindness and usually enjoy helping others. These are people that you can have an interesting talk with for hours, these people are usually very understanding, their ability to give advice and understand your deepest feelings is unparalled.

So for the top 10 reasons why the last group doesn't get the girls:
1. They are not popular.
2. They are different from most people. They are more individualistic than anyone else.
3. They are usually not as attractive.
4. They usually lack some social skills and are probably shy.
5. Especially in their teenage years, they act in a much more mature manner, although when pressured into a stressful situation by their peers, may act completely ignorant.
6. They want it too much. As I said before these guys are very passionate (Don't confuse that with LUSTY). I know this one well from experience. I have a very passionate desire for intimacy, I want it more than the life that I have and need it more than the air that I breathe. And the more I want it, the more it eludes me. I've learned to ignore it though, which helps.
7. They put on masks. They have often been hurt by people they opened up to a bit and prejudged for their differences. After awhile, they are afraid to show who they really are. These people may show two completely different personalities while at home and school.
8. Learned helplessness is a psychology term that describes how an animal or human can be conditioned to be down and feel like nothing they do can make a difference. Like when a mouse is given electric shocks at random times, they end up with learned helplessness because they have no control over their environment, the shocks that is. If the mouse gets shocked everytime he pushes a button, he just won't push the button, so learned helplessness also comes because our environment is unpredictable. I think the last group may suffer from learned helplessness. Where most people would be accepted for a given social act, these people will always be rejected. Learned helplessness develops because they feel like they have no control over their environment, the response people may give to a given action are unpredictable, yet always negative. They begin to feel like nothing they do really matters, they feel like they don't have any control over what people think about them.
9. Logical approach, rather than emotional. That is not to say that these people aren't as emotional, they are, they just don't know how to approach women this way.
10. I agree with the top ten reasons in a few cases, but I think I am describing people that are a bit different that just intelligent.