My friend likes him, but he's been flirting with me! |
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 Apr 21 2005, 12:41 AM
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Theres this guy who has been flirting with me. He always comes and sits next to me and hugs me and stuff like that. One of my best friends told me that she might like him but she's not sure if she likes him because she has no one else to like or if she really does like him. I like the attention I get from the guy but I really dont wanna hurt my friend. So whenever he sits next to me I move away and whenever he hugs me I back off. But for some reason he keeps coming back. What should I do?
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Apr 21 2005, 12:47 AM
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Well, Im not sure wut to say... do u like him? if u do i have no idea and if u dont, just talk to your friend... but im still clueless....
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Apr 21 2005, 06:28 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
your friend likes him only because she has no one else to like? that sounds wrong. well tell your friend what this guy is doing to you, she should understand.
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Apr 21 2005, 07:35 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
it seems that he likes you a lot, by showing so much affection all the time.
the question is: do you like him back, as well? if you do, then i'm pretty sure he likes you, too... so you should confront your friend about it, and make her understand that there are many other guys out there, and she shouldn't like one just because there aren't any more choices left. i think she'll understand if she's really your friend. good luck. 
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Apr 21 2005, 04:14 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Your friend likes him...but he likes you. You can't help that he likes you. Talk to your friend about it and she will understand...but the question is: do you like him? If you like him...tell your friend about it [how you feel about this guy...she should understand] but if you don't....then tell him that you only see him as a friend before you hurt his feelings in the long run..
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Apr 21 2005, 04:32 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
if he keeps coming back..that means he probably likes you...i guess you have to choose....talk to him about your friend...or talk to your friend about him...it's hard i know, but follow your heart.
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Apr 21 2005, 04:55 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 21 2005, 4:14 PM) Your friend likes him...but he likes you. You can't help that he likes you. Talk to your friend about it and she will understand...but the question is: do you like him? If you like him...tell your friend about it [how you feel about this guy...she should understand] but if you don't....then tell him that you only see him as a friend before you hurt his feelings in the long run..  she's right on the dot. do wat she said. took the words rite out of my mouth. dont feel like explaining so much rite now so i'll just leave it at that. |
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Apr 21 2005, 06:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
depends if yu like him..
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Apr 21 2005, 08:32 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you should both leave him alone, you only like him because of the attention and he's the last resort for your friend since you said she likes him because there's no one else to like...
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Apr 22 2005, 12:23 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
SINCE HE KEEPS ON GETTING NEAR YOU..EXPLAIN TO UR FRIEND THAT HE IS DOING THAT ON HIS OWN..AND TELL HIM THAT UR NOT INTERESTED IN HIM..
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Apr 22 2005, 04:54 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
I think you've gotta have a herat-to-heart talk with your friend.
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