what do you gurls do when..., you like a boy ? |
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 Apr 20 2005, 01:41 AM
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 Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,528  |
I like this girl, but the problem is, I used to have a thing with her best friend, but me and her best friend NEVER dated... it may sound bogus, but I think Im falling for her...
i have a feeling that she feels the same. Just like since her best friend and I used to have a thing, we dont know what to do. What do you think? what would YOU do, guys and gurls suggestion please!!!!! edit// also me and her bestfriend stopped w/e thing we had, cuz she told me that deep inside she still have a feeling for some1 else. Im not pissed, I just didn't want to be anybody's second choice... especially from some1 you like. |
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Apr 20 2005, 06:34 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
shouldn't this be in relationships?
tell that girl how you feel about her, don't let the thing you had with her bestfriend stop you. i would just go for it |
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Apr 20 2005, 07:14 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
talk to her more first, and then get closer
then tell her if u think it's da rite time:) |
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Apr 20 2005, 08:11 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
well I think if you really like this girl, start off a friendship that has nothing to do with her friend. That means no hainging out with one to see the other type thing. Make sure she knows you like her for her, and not to get at her friend or something. I know its dumb, but I'm a girl, and we think that way sometimes. If you are already cool with her, try to talk to her more, compliment her, stuff like that, but make it sincere. Because u already had a thing with her best friend, she will probably be on guard, thinking you are up to something. And theres no telling what her friend has said about you. So I say just start spending more time with her, showing interest in her. One thing never to do is ask her. oh hows ur friend, oh have u talked to her today, oh I talked to ur friend today...even tho it is a common person you know, it will make it seem like thats what u are tying to find out about, her friend and not her. So yeah. Thats about all I can tell ya. good luck! :D
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Apr 20 2005, 08:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Tell the girl you like how you feel. Just because you had a thing with her bestfriend, doesn't mean you can't date her. don't let her bestfriend get in the way.
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Apr 20 2005, 09:24 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,528 |
wow... all of you think i should go for it... alright... i should build the foundation first then.. i should go talk to her. more...
billsta~ |
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Apr 20 2005, 09:36 AM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
im of no help not many guys i liked have liked me back ...well there is one, but he is afraid to admit it cuz the snooty girls pick on him
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Apr 20 2005, 10:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
Well you never dated her bestfriend, so your fine. If you dated her then you would have a problem but u dont. So I would just contuine liking her, maybe get to know her more. I mean if your over her bestfriend then everything seem`s peachey!
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Apr 20 2005, 05:07 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
you like someone then tell that perosn beofre its too late ;)
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Apr 20 2005, 05:11 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I tell my friends cause I know they will tell someone and it will go on until the boy finds out. At least I wont be un-noticed haha. Im to shy to approach em myself
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Apr 21 2005, 06:42 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(nicky04033 @ Apr 20 2005, 7:14 AM) talk to her more first, and then get closer then tell her if u think it's da rite time:)  n after u tell her let her talk it out with her friend. or u can talk it out with her but it's mostly their problem if u guys do end up getting together. |
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Apr 21 2005, 07:37 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if you and the girl you like's best friend never dated, than i don't see a problem with you liking and dating this new girl. just talk to her and see where it goes from there.
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