a trainwreck waiting to happen, drama in the drama department |
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 Apr 18 2005, 02:24 AM
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so if you read my last post I like a guy Bob who likes this other girl Jill. We're all in our school play together. So ya i got great advice last time to become friends with him first and just see where it goes. I've run into some drama on the way though. My friend Lisa was talking to me about Bob then Frank overheard us. Frank then told Jill that someone in the cast likes Bob (its a giant cast of over 40 people) Jill then told Bob that someone in the cast likes him and Bob started baggering Frank to tell him. Frank didnt tell him who it was but apparently Bob thought it was me but Frank is convinced that he totally lead him off track.
I kinda wanna tell Bob that I like him but I know if I do its gonna turn into this whole dramatic thing and he'll probably avoid me. I already feel like he's avoiding me now and i really dont want it to get werid like this cause I'd be cool just being friends. See I think now that the only reason I started liking Bob was because Jill was being so mean to him and it was outta pity. I'm still trying to figure out my feelings for Bob. Meanwhile all this drama is going on. I just hope no one tells Bob I like him before I figure out my true feelings for him. All I know is that I want to be the one to tell Bob not someone else. So my plan is to figure out my feelings for Bob and then explain to him where I'm coming from. Is that a good idea? Any other advice? (sorry its kinda long i needed to get it all off my chest) |
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Apr 18 2005, 03:44 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
hmm..It depends on if you still want to remain friends with him or have him ignore u forever..If Bob likes Jill then obviously he's going to ignore u if u tell him that u like him...So I wouldn't recommend telling him...If you want to remain friends or at least have him not ignore u, then u shouldnt tell him..But if u want to take the risk and tell him and maybe have something more than friends happen then go for it..
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Apr 18 2005, 04:04 AM
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QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Apr 18 2005, 3:44 AM) hmm..It depends on if you still want to remain friends with him or have him ignore u forever..If Bob likes Jill then obviously he's going to ignore u if u tell him that u like him...So I wouldn't recommend telling him...If you want to remain friends or at least have him not ignore u, then u shouldnt tell him..But if u want to take the risk and tell him and maybe have something more than friends happen then go for it..  agreed, take the chance if you want, you never know what may happen, maybe you should remain friends for now, get to know him on a deeper level, and if he seems like the dramatic type, then you know not to tell him. |
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Apr 18 2005, 06:34 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
i think it's a good idea...
i'd tell Bob if i were you, as well. when you confess your feelings for him, you'll feel much better. at least you won't regret asking, you know? good luck 
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Apr 18 2005, 06:58 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well if he likes jill, then you can't really do anything about it. maybe you should try getting over him.
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Apr 18 2005, 04:56 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you tell him how you feel..then you risk him ignoring you....or avoiding you....or he could just feel the same way...
But he likes Jill....you need to consider this...and the fact that you're not exactly sure how you feel about him....give it a little while more...and then when you've gotten everything straighten out..tell him...or not to... 
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Apr 18 2005, 06:17 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 18 2005, 4:56 PM) If you tell him how you feel..then you risk him ignoring you....or avoiding you....or he could just feel the same way... But he likes Jill....you need to consider this...and the fact that you're not exactly sure how you feel about him....give it a little while more...and then when you've gotten everything straighten out..tell him...or not to... she's right. i agree with her. |
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Apr 18 2005, 06:20 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
your idea sounds great. it is exactly what i was going to tell you to do.
 just get all of your feelings straightened out and then talk to him.
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Apr 18 2005, 06:21 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
YOU DON'T DATE WITHIN YOUR DRAMA DEPARTMENT.
IT'S NOT A GOOD IDEA. |
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Apr 18 2005, 06:32 PM
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angel_1.jpg ( 23.88K )
Number of downloads: 22I say you know wat your doing and I agree with you 100percent!!!! 
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Apr 18 2005, 06:37 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
^ what's with the attached image?
 umm... just try to act calm, but yourself, around Bob. maybe you're just imagining he's avoiding you because you THINK he knows you like him, but maybe not.
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