Birthday Help, advice please Options

[Joss-eh-lime]

My birthday is in August [i know, a long time away] and Im going to have a guy/girl party. I need help with everything:

-How am I going to invite a whole buch of guys and girls in the summer, when I never see them? gettin their address face to face is semi-weird

-What will we do? I have a pool but~ music? dancing? games?

-What do guys like to do?
I am getting all stressed out a million years before it is even happening, but its good to know these things! Thanks!

OH! by the way ill be turning 14

[vampireduster]

what i do is i just make up a invitation with name and address on there saying party at my place call if you are coming. we listen to music eat food and do whatever. It depends with the whole making out thing

[RandomHero]

A pool. That's always a good party plan. Put on some tunes. Well, at least it is for me. But you should get their addresses before school ends. It's not weird to ask em face to face. Unless you're shy. Um, just hang out. You'll find something to entertain yourselves with.

[--x who0ps]

how --> IM them on AIM since you have AIM. & if the friend you want to come doesnt have AIM, then ask for their phone number & call them when you want to invite them

what --> depends on whatever you want. pool party`s are always fun (; music : anykind you want. i mean like.. what you & your friends tastes are probably different than mines. jst make sure it`s recent music or wtevr. dancing: if you guys know how ;] games: i dont think you should, iono when i think about it, it reminds me of a 2nd grader party since you are turning 14. but pool games would be fun. like marco polo or color tag or something.

what --> well you can play spin the bottle if you want to have a make out game. im not so sure about this area either cause im agirl too (;

good luck & have fun at your party.. in august lOLS =D

[miss barnes]

you need to start right now while you're in school and get numbers and addresses and let people know that you're planning to have a party during break

[shanny]

the aim idea is really good.
don't try to plan your party, just kinda let it happen
movies inside are fun and put on whatever music
have LOTS of soda though
and no make out games!!
have like soccer, or basketball or something for the guys

[sammi rules you]

phonebook!

and no makeout games. you're turning 14. nooo.

[tomboysocks]

yeah have a movie or something on inside, music outside, make sure to have a lot of games like pool or an actual pool might help too-haha

have lotsa chips and soda and make sure your music selection is good! maybe mix it up a bit, since the people coming might have different tastes.

if you wanna have a "makeout game" do something like spin the bottle- a simple classic! or you could play seven minutes in heaven...
but dont really plan it, just let it happen. be like "hey anyone wanna play..."

[angelshortipnai]

hmm just get invitation cards and like give out to the people u want to invite at your party. movies inside's pretty good. the pool thing's awesome XD have lotsa food and soda[duh] and errr....basketball for the guys and volleyball for the girls?

[staircase wit]

play pin the tail on the donkey. birthday classic!

[jennyjenny]

How am I going to invite a whole buch of guys and girls in the summer, when I never see them? gettin their address face to face is semi-weird

There are a lot of ways. If you invite people that are your friends, I think you would have their phone numbers, or aim screenname or something. Or you could just meet up and hang out at the mall and tell them.

What will we do? I have a pool but~ music? dancing? games? what kind?

Sping the bottle is always fun haha. But maybe you should have a pool party =] and then go inside and eat and play some music so people can dance to it. Slow songs are plus, too.

What do guys like to do? im so not good in that area. [do they like those make out games?]

Like I said, spin the bottle and you could have a pool party =] and then watch some movies or something and play video games haha.

I'll be turning 14, too! But in September lol.

[Joss-eh-lime]

ok- so no makeout stuff. thats fine with me.
Music-yea
Pool- duh!

thanks u guys! it kinda sucks not being able to be around ur friends whenur bday comes around...but n e other help ful stuff is welcome!


OH i could borrow one of those playstaion X Box thingys for the guys...cuz i dont own n e! haha [i have two sisters]

[iheartsimba]

Find them from AIM! And just invite them online, find phone numbers ect. It's harder then passing out invitations..but the only way =/

dancing! burn a CD with a lot of osngs that are dancible too and that people have heard of, dancing makes partys fun..and make sure you find a dancing room and dim the lights..then if you have a pool table that would be fun..and pools are fun..and truth or dare! spin the bottle =]

Yeah. They like pool. They like to get danced on. THat's usually what they just do. Or if they shy they stand on the side under an invisible loser sign.

[lilshelil]

Well you can im them and/or call them.
Would it have to be at a house? what about the movies? If you have no other choice then home, you can play spin the bottle, truth or dare, play in the pool.
Yea, i think that the guys would like to play those games
If any thing you can always rent a movie and watch it at your house.

[freeflow]

hmm if you have a pool what you can do is have like a pool party and have some music on and what not so if people wanna swim or dance or do w/e .. the making out thing thats up to the people?

[aera]

if your birthday is in late august, you can have your party in early september when everyones back from vacation. my friend's birthday is in july but we celebrated it in may which is a little weird...
pool parties are fun...
i know guys like sports and i think they like pool parties...

[IamRad]

-How am I going to invite a whole buch of guys and girls in the summer, when I never see them? gettin their address face to face is semi-weird--u can call them. get their numbers during school. or just ask for their adress and tell them the reason so they dont call u a stalker

-What will we do? I have a pool but~ music? dancing? games? what kind? u can tell them to bring a bathing suit and cds and stuff.. have food of course

-What do guys like to do? im so not good in that area. [do they like those make out games?] try truth or dare?

hope i helped

[Joss-eh-lime]

Yeah. They like pool. They like to get danced on. THat's usually what they just do. Or if they shy they stand on the side under an invisible loser sign.

haha! yea dancing. some of the guys like rock...others like rap. just mix em on a cd? nd i dont have a pool table...darn.

[itsnever4ever]

i think that u could also ask ppl for theire-mail address, however u are gonna have a hard time since lots of ppl go on vaca. and u wont be able to reach them, maybe u should have the party towards the end of the school year instead of in August, uhm u could have swimming if was at ur house, and if u did u would also probably want some music. Another idea is to have it at some kindof local park that way u could have lots of games and stuff most guys like that stuff depending on which kind of guys u invite, ifg u do this u could also have music.
Also make sure to have lots of great food!!

[*mzkandi*]

Awww...your an August baby!! What date in August? I'm August 1st.

Anywho

to help out with that you're asking

-How am I going to invite a whole buch of guys and girls in the summer, when I never see them? Someone suggested AIM/other instant messager invites. You can also email your invites.

-What will we do? Since you have a pool, a pool party sounds so fun, if the weather is right that is. You can play your favorite music and dance, talk, and have a good time. As for games, I found this while googling http://www.partygamecentral.com/pgcstandar...EEN+PARTY+GAMES. If you are at a lost for one games to play, google some or ask a couple of your friends what games they would like to play.

-What do guys like to do? When I go to a bday party or throw my own, I like to have music, dancing, laughter, fun games for everyone there to enjoy. Dont stress yourself, your bday is a little ways off so you have plenty of time to get everything in order.

[Joss-eh-lime]

if your birthday is in late august, you can have your party in early september when everyones back from vacation. my friend's birthday is in july but we celebrated it in may which is a little weird...
pool parties are fun...
i know guys like sports and i think they like pool parties...

Yea thats a REALLy good idea. have my party like the weeknd after school starts, cuz my bday is August 26. wow...a july birthday party in May! haha...

[blah122986]

just call up ur friends and then have ur friends call up some of thier friends and etc....etc...then just have da pool some musix.....no need for games really...so food...alotta food....and vwala...da perfect partay...u could add in some import cars and do a lil car show..dat be hot...hahahaha...just forget bout da last part hehe..

[pingpang_0811]

let's hold a wild party^^ playing some rock music, dance together~ mix the sweat with aug~
u can contact them through email or ICQ sth.

[Joss-eh-lime]

^haha...well im probably gonna need more help closer to my bday but oh well.

I was thinking i could add each person to my MySpace friendsthen send them a message. yea.

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

^I'd just go with AIM, but that's cool too.
You know whats always fun??? Clean Out The Backyard. I don't know if you know that one or not...
You have to hold it in an opened space. Basically what you do is split the area in two and throw balloons/balls/soft toys at each other for a period of time. Who ever "cleans out" their part of the yard best wins.
Then again, I'm just a child. I have no idea what you teenagers are into

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

Jebus-I double posted

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

I lied. I tripple posted

[tmauze]

you need to start right now while you're in school and get numbers and addresses and let people know that you're planning to have a party during break

oh wow no i think that's too early but whatever floats your boat right. oh and personally i think the whole aim thing is tacky and only call if it's a very small party, which i don't get the impression it's going to be. mannered people tend to actually give out invitations, but maybe i'm just old fashioned. hope it turns out well!

[alliegrl_x]

well one way of reaching people is by using yr network. you noe..calling one friend and asking him/her of another friend's contact info. A pool party is great, use it to the max. I was gonna suggest renting a movie, cuz thats what most of me and my friend's parties have. But i thought about using the pool at night too. it will be sooo nice if you put lights up and everything. gawd it will be some nice hawt atmosphere.

[Joss-eh-lime]

TMAUZE

oh wow no i think that's too early but whatever floats your boat right. oh and personally i think the whole aim thing is tacky and only call if it's a very small party, which i don't get the impression it's going to be. mannered people tend to actually give out invitations, but maybe i'm just old fashioned. hope it turns out well!

um...i said my brithday was in AUGUST school gets out in JUNE...i dont want to give ppl invatations two months before the party!! So do i need to have an equal amount of guys to girls? or even close? cuz i know about 4 guys i wanna invite but like alot more girls.

yea person aboe me^ i was thinknig pool at night cuz it has a pool light..its really cool! ya a string of lights would be sooo cool. man...cool ideas ppl.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

-How am I going to invite a whole buch of guys and girls in the summer, when I never see them? ask them inadvance maybe a week before school ends or even ask them for their phone number it's way better than just going and looking for them in the summer.

-What will we do? The pool can be fun too, remember tell them to bring water guns or something people love getting wet. And maybe try playing a game for the shy people that dont "dance"

-What do guys like to do?
They like to wrestle and like getting soaked in water, and play some of those cheap party games poop like spin the bottle or truth or dare it spices up the party xD