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Is it weird/wrong for a guy to reach out to hold his girl's hand
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SpedMonkee
post Apr 14 2005, 04:17 PM
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i always feel weird when i go to reach out to hold my girlfriends hand. not that i feel weird holding her hand, its just it feels weird to me reaching out to hold onto her hand.

i dunno..im just weird like that sometimes lol
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 04:23 PM
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It is not wrong for a guy to hold his girlfriends hand. I love holding hands, therefore I would not be/am not upset when my boyfriend reaches for my hand.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 04:24 PM
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I don't think it's "wrong". When I was going out with my ex, we had no problem holding hands, it's like, we hold hands everytime we hang out. O_O
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:21 PM
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I don't think it's weird or wrong for a guy to hold his girlfriend's hand. In fact, it's kinda expected. I love holding my boyfriend's hand.
 
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i don't think it's wrong. i love holding hands
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:22 PM
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no im not talking about actually holding hands, im talking about reaching out to hold hers. but yeah...now that i think of it, its not really all that weird lol
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:26 PM
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err..how else will she know you wanna hold hands?
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:28 PM
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lol really dont mind me..im just weird lol
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:30 PM
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Holding hands is sweet. It's something that you can do as well without getting dirty looks at ya sometimes. happy.gif
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:37 PM
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i love it when a guy holds my hand. (: personally i like it better than hugging. i don`t know why. lol reaching out is incredibly sweet.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:49 PM
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No, of course not. Why WOULD it be?
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 05:53 PM
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i think its just nervousness and it ffeels weird maybe umm your afraid you might do something wrong like if she pulls away for something else at that same moment lol just be comfortable with her thats all :-D


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post Apr 14 2005, 07:11 PM
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I think I know what he means...I don't know if this will help you out...but when me and my ex went out, it was usually me who reached out to hold his hand...when I asked him about why he never took the initiative to hold my hands, he said that he didn't know if I would like holding hands with him so he just let me take the initiative with holding his hand.
 
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aww..that's cause you are nervous/shy..
I don't think it's weird. It's sweet. throb.gif
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 07:30 PM
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its not weird for a dude to hold his chick's hand to me. its actually shows he's kind of sweet.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 07:31 PM
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why would it be?
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 07:46 PM
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i think it's VERY sweet when guys reach out to hold their girlfriend's hands. i think its very cute when my boyfriend reaches for my hands, its just that really swt and cute feeling (:
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 07:48 PM
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nope..i actually like it when a guy does that...makes me feel wanted =)
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 07:51 PM
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hehe. you are sped. :D I think its nice when he reaches to get my hand. Just like leaning in for a kiss. I mean, you dont just wanna wait to have your lips brush up to eachother do ya? lol no. So same thing with hands. I mean, dont like reach all around and across people, thats justnot practicle. but yeah, just go for it silly.
 
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no, of course not. it's fine, don't worry about it. _smile.gif
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 08:47 PM
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uhh....no..... stubborn.gif
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 08:48 PM
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maybe you feel weird because you're afraid that she doesnt want to...
 
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just go ahead and do it, most girls love this stuff...plus she's your girlfriend this stuff is supposed to be happening, holding hands, kissing hugging, etc
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 09:13 PM
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I would never think its wrong
I think its the sweetest thing, it shows that your not ashamed of her, there's nothing with P.D.A. (Public displays of affection) most girls wish their bf's would actually make the move. Its so sweet, it shows your happy with her and your not afraid to let the world know that. I love it when my bf does it.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 09:18 PM
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lol don't feel weird about reaching out to hold her hand! consider yourself lucky that you're able to do that. I would give anything to hold my boyfriends hand. he lives far away :( So go right ahead and hold her hand. And don't be scared either, lol. Cuz she probably loves when you hold her hand, lol tis sweet
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 09:23 PM
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nothing wrong with it. i wouldnt want my bf to hold my hand though. its pretty gay to me (a mon avi). thats just because i am not an affectionate person though.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 09:34 PM
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I DONT THINK ITS WERID.. [[FOR A GIRLS POINT OF VIEW]] I THINK ITS CUTE LOL
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 10:45 PM
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the first time...was soo weird.....and..usually i reach out to hold HIS hand haahhaha

its not wrong. lol we held hands in CLASS XD n all these teachers were like STARING at us....=P
 
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my first boyfriend reached out to hold my hand. :]

my second. *stabs*
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 11:10 PM
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it would embarass the hell out of my ex.
 
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post Apr 14 2005, 11:18 PM
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lol no. this is a pretty weird question to ask
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 01:22 PM
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There's nothing wrong with holding hands with your gf/bf, i think its kinda cute actually blink.gif
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 05:38 PM
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no, not really. but does she ever reach for your hand? does she seem like she doesn't want to hold your hand? if she doesn't really like it, than that could be a problem...
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 05:53 PM
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No way. It would be awkward if the girl reached out. Cmon, its the guy's job. whistling.gif
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 07:48 PM
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a guy holding his girlfriend's hand is a sign of affection, it's not weird at all. It's completely normal.
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 07:59 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it....It's nice of a bf to do that. I wouldn't truly know since I haven't had a bf.
 
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haha since u already stated that you feel different about it that you addressed the question, i wish u good luck.

i feel that you are just insecure. Think to yourself.. if she doesn't want to hold your hand, then she wouldn't hold ur hand. She probably WANTS you to reach out and hold her hand often.. but you do'nt.. so she has to do it. That is sad for the girl, her bf should do it more often than she does it.

But since you figured it out.. good. =)
 
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post Apr 15 2005, 09:15 PM
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Girls love the sweet stuff. Don't feel weird or anything like that. I think it's kind of cute =3.
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 12:16 AM
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its totally not weird. my bf usually does it at the movies though wacko.gif but hes a lunatic lol
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 11:00 AM
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nothings wrong with that. i like holding hands. ;x
 
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post Apr 16 2005, 02:48 PM
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no its not wrong? wtf... i took my boyfriends hand and we held hands for like 2 hours haha. during an assembly.. but o well. it was cute for me
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 02:10 PM
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Why would it be?... especially since its your gf/bf... sure it might be werid the first time with that person, but most ppl like it rolleyes.gif ... unless ur like an unaffectionate person.... _dry.gif
 
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Errr.. why would that be wrong? huh.gif
 
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post Apr 17 2005, 09:46 PM
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im not sure why.. but 2 people put no, lol
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 02:35 AM
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lol well uhhh my bf does that all the time, cause sometimes i just pretend that i dont wanna hold hands and then he gets impatient and just grabs it haha. or sometimes i just grab his. it doesnt realli matter. i mean its not like u guys can walk around everywhere with his arm around u, cause it'll get uncomfortable after. and how else are u gonna walk around? :S
 
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It's very weird to reach out for your girlfriend's hand, you dirty man-whore.
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 01:53 PM
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like my gf says: don't think about it, just do it.
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 09:43 PM
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Unless "Holding hands" is a new sex innuendo I don't know.

It's not.
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 09:48 PM
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of course it's not!
i <3 it when a guy holds my hand. (:
why would it be so wrong anyway?
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 10:02 PM
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no way.. it's cute.
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 10:12 PM
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On the night of a big dance at my school (winter formal) in my sophomore year of high school--my boyfriend then would not hold hands with me period. And then he broke up with me the day after the dance ><


Ever since then I think it's totally awesome when a guy reaches out to hold on my hand.
 
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post Jul 23 2005, 11:56 PM
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I like to hold people's hands.. I dunno, I'll be out somewhere and i'll just grab my guy friend's hand. I think it's neat.. and it isn't wrong in any way.
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 12:49 AM
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its not weird. its -blush- hahahaha. but i love it
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 09:02 AM
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aww I love holding hands..me and my bf hands are like glued to each others tongue.gif
 
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post Jul 24 2005, 09:26 PM
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i think it is cute...a guy is romantic that way instead of a girl reacing for a guy
 
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post Jul 25 2005, 09:43 AM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Apr 16 2005, 6:53 AM)
No way. It would be awkward if the girl reached out. Cmon, its the guy's job.  whistling.gif
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QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Jul 23 2005, 3:35 PM)
i mean its not like u guys can walk around everywhere with his arm around u, cause it'll get uncomfortable after. and how else are u gonna walk around? :S
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post Jul 25 2005, 11:23 AM
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It just shows that you like eachother. Nothing wrong with that?
 
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post Jul 25 2005, 11:26 AM
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I miss holding hands with my ex cry.gif but, you should, there's nothing wrong with it.
 
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QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 14 2005, 5:24 PM)
I don't think it's "wrong". When I was going out with my ex, we had no problem holding hands, it's like, we hold hands everytime we hang out. O_O
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post Jul 25 2005, 01:11 PM
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i love when guys hold my hands.. i dontt think its weird just a sign of romance haha ( im so lame)
 
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post Jul 25 2005, 02:06 PM
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i dont think its wrong mellow.gif ur just going deeper in your relationship if u do. console.gif <--- like that flowers.gif <--- and this
 
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post Jul 25 2005, 05:23 PM
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I don't find it weird when a guy reaches for my hand, I think it's cute, it shows that he is thinking about you and wants to be close to you ;].
 
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no, thats hella sweet.
 
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post Jul 26 2005, 09:24 PM
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I like it when a guy reaches out to hold my hand, to me it would be awkward if I were the one to reach out. And I like holding hands too.
 
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absolutely not!
i would love to have a boyfriend who would reach out to hold my hand,,,
it's so sweet! =D
 
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i would LOVE it and won't mine if my guy reached for my hand XD
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 06:09 PM
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no way i love it when they hold my hand.
 
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post Jul 29 2005, 09:43 PM
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Hmm your gf may like it but I think holding hands is weird.
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Ofcourse not!

Reaching out to hold your girlfriends hand is sweet!

...well, I think it is anyway rolleyes.gif
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:49 AM
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nope, nothing wrong with that but i can imagine how nerve racking it may be for you. hopefully, she wouldn't pull her hand away from yours though =] i'm sure she wouldn't though.
 
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i get it i think u may feel weird cuz theres always that chance she may not give u her hand. trust me she doesnt mind so u shouldnt feel weird. and if she doesnt give u her hand u can hold mine if u want. lol
 
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aww dont feel weird about holding ur gf's hand..i dont really mind if mi b/f holds mi hands..cuz we hold hands everytime we c each otha XP
 
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not at all i do it all da time :-p
 
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i love holding hands.....and u see this topic? mostly every single girl..."i love holding hands"

if ur shy and shes not holding hands with you heres the thing: she's shy too
 
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post Aug 6 2005, 01:35 AM
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No, of course not! I mean, she is your girlfriend. throb.gif
I'm sure she'll like it when you hold her hand
 
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it's sweet when a guy reaches out to hold his girl's hand.
 
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post Aug 6 2005, 12:52 PM
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it's definitely not weird.. unless you have another girlfriend ohmy.gif lol jk
 
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Its not wrong
I love holding hands.
 
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i fink dats like one of the sweetest things :wub
 
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noo! i think its rather cute ;O
 
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random reaching out weird yes your boyfriend reaching our weird no
 
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haha well dont just YANK IT like u want it. well maybe but dont do it agresively kinda just...yea take it haha i dont know my bf does that its cute happy.gif
 
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aww no holding hands is so cute!
 
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NO! I think it's soo cute. I wish more guys would. To me it's the best thing a guy could do to show you he cares. =]
 
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post Aug 8 2005, 09:37 AM
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yeah, it definitely shows that you're making an effort to be close to her. we girls like to be reassured all the time. we like to be reminded of how much you guys want us.
 
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are you saying the girl should reach out for your hand?!

i think its totally fine for the guy to reach out for his girls
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 04:40 PM
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WOAH. i dont find it weird. he loves you thats why. lol..
 
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post Aug 9 2005, 10:20 PM
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oh i love it when he grabs my hand.
but..
we don't do that often.
we do the whole hands in
back pockets thing. but
i love when he does that
to ; )
it makes me feel wanted.
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post Aug 9 2005, 11:08 PM
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Hold their hand as long as possible
cuz you never kno when they will drift away
 
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post Aug 10 2005, 08:42 AM
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Aww no, its not wrong at all. In fact its one of the best things a guy can do to show he cares. I love holding hands (just to add to all of the girls who have said this so far.)
 
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It's not wrong at all. If anything, I'd appreciate it all the more. I'm a total romantic like that.
 
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post Aug 11 2005, 06:01 PM
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it isn't weird to reach out for your girlfriend's hand. in fact she'll probably feel even more loved by you. my ex and i never really held hands. he only put his arm around me but same thing...
 
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post Aug 12 2005, 03:43 AM
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Just hold her damn hand. She'll feel all warm and happy inside.
 
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post Aug 13 2005, 10:30 PM
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Holding hands is cute. I don't really like it for some reason though.
 
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post Aug 14 2005, 04:21 AM
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...i understand what you mean

i feel wierd when i reach out to hold his hand....

i'd rather him do it..........but from my experience with him...i wont expect it HAH. dunno.

but either way..it DOES feel weird when u reach out ....even for a girl...
 
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post Aug 16 2005, 04:39 PM
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i think it's kyote if a guy reaches out to hold my hand.. i get flattered and everything.. but it's okai ..cuz it shows some attention to me.. and that's go0d!
 
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I don't think it's wrong..
 
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post Aug 16 2005, 06:32 PM
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i dont think its wrong.. in fact.. i think if i was the girl i would appreciate you holding my hand =) its a good to have kind of thing. so no its not wrong.
 
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i dun think its wrong..
 

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