Oh now I screwed it up Options

[Annie5332]

See, my best friend was going out with my ex boyfriend who I still liked. Im usually open with him because we could talk about anything...Well me and my bff got into a fight and I was so mad that I kinda talked shyt about her to my ex boyfriend...THEN a few weeks later turns out he started a rumor about me and now he like hates me and I have no clue of what to do...please help??

[dahding]

well, u got what u deserved. can't say anything else really..

don't want shit? don't start shit.

take it like a man..er..woman..er...person..thing..it..

apologizing might be a good step. first apologize, SINCERELY, to both ur ex and ur bff. and well, take it from there.

[Annie5332]

I already apologized to my friend but idk how to apologize to him without acting and sounding all gay and stupid...

[dahding]

well, lets see. it'd help a little bit if i knew exactly what u two said about each other or whatever..

i guess u could write a nice letter of apology, and give him a box of candy/chocolates as a peace offering. iono. i say take the first move and have the incentive to do something nice and make nice.

[*mzkandi*]

just get over him, you know you messed up so there no need to apologize to him. if he wants to forgive you then he will but if he doesnt then you will have to get over it

[Annie5332]

But he was all "yeah you stalked me and now i regret going out with you" and then he was all yeah your bribing me to dump her to go out with you and its not gunna happen JUST BECAUSE i gave him some incence --sp-- WHICH he asked for. And I dont really know what to say because if i say something wrong he might take it the wrong way and just hate me forever...

If ya wanna know what the rumor was just ask and I'll spill

[dahding]

i thought i did ask...

and from what u said, he sounds like an ahole.

apologize first. if he'll forgive u, yay.

if he doesn't, shove the incense up his ass and tell him to fart it out.

[Annie5332]

i thought i did ask...

and from what u said, he sounds like an ahole.

apologize first. if he'll forgive u, yay.

if he doesn't, shove the incense up his ass and tell him to fart it out.

The rumor was like I had a make out party at my house and invited him but not his g/f so I could try and m/o with him BUT NONE OF THIS IS TRUE (hence the name rumor) and Im just so pissed and CONFUSED

[Shattered_Hope]

You got what you deserved.....
The only thing you can do is forget about him.....or..just apologize.

[Annie5332]

And I know that this would happen....but GOD I need help

[dahding]

man, he's being such an annoying idiot. screw whatever he says. i say, throw a make-out party, and make out with hot guys, and be like, "sorry i didn't invite u. i have great taste. that's why."

or like, "i only invite good looking people."

and then laugh mirthlessly (sp?).

[Annie5332]

man, he's being such an annoying idiot. screw whatever he says. i say, throw a make-out party, and make out with hot guys, and be like, "sorry i didn't invite u. i have great taste. that's why."

or like, "i only invite good looking people."

and then laugh mirthlessly (sp?).

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

who cares about how u sound. if ur realy sorry then just get the guts to go up to him n tell him ur sorry. if u really wanna reconcile with him then u gotta do wat u gotta do u know?

[Annie5332]

who cares about how u sound. if ur realy sorry then just get the guts to go up to him n tell him ur sorry. if u really wanna reconcile with him then u gotta do wat u gotta do u know?

Yeah I get what you mean but like if he things I sound really retarded and stupid when I apologize to him he might just turn around and be an ass again and tell people about me sounding really stupid and acting like a fool

[Annie5332]

I tried apologizing to him and asking if we could still be friends and he just ignored me and left

[_sarcastic_]

Yeah I get what you mean but like if he things I sound really retarded and stupid when I apologize to him he might just turn around and be an ass again and tell people about me sounding really stupid and acting like a fool

he's an ahole, forget about him. he was in ass to start with ^^

[megan_x3]

do wat u think its right. go apologize to him if you want. but he sounds like an a-hole to mee. =)

[heyyfrankie]

well, u got what u deserved

so true.

i don't even know people let their "best" friends go out with their ex-boyfriends. i just think that is so stupid. you knew that things were going to get weird, right? well, i guess y'all's relationship is over. whenever i saw y'all, i mean your "best" friend and your ex-boyfriend. i doubt things will be the same again...
i honestly don't know what you could do to make things better.

[aera]

um... talking behind your best friends back when shes the girlfriend of the person your talking to... bad idea.

[Annie5332]

I know but I was mad at her and thats what happens when Im mad at someone

[illuminessence]

well, u got what u deserved. can't say anything else really..

don't want shit? don't start shit.

take it like a man..er..woman..er...person..thing..it..

apologizing might be a good step. first apologize, SINCERELY, to both ur ex and ur bff. and well, take it from there.

Definitely agree. You started it. Now it's up to you to fix it. Apologize.

[bravodancer04]

Don`t start shit if you can`t take it back atcha

[Rachel]

Karma is a bitch

[racoons > you]

just be a woman (that phrase is much more effective when the person you're talking to is male) and go up to him and aappologise. get it over with.

and yes, its entirely your fault. dont talk shit if you cant deal with it hitting the fan

[twelveislands]

You said stuff about your 'bff' to your ex bf.. which he was going out with her? That's just asking for trouble

[angelrevelation]

i agree with dahding i think it's karma

[kryzcoak47luv666]

You said stuff about your 'bff' to your ex bf.. which he was going out with her? That's just asking for trouble 

agree to the max
you NEVER do that, he's automatically gonna tell her, and no matter how bad a fight is with a best friend, you should never talk shit as bad as you might want to, it's highly not suggested, You dug your own grave with that friendship, and now either you apologize, or the 3 of you move on with your lives...

you should apoligize to your ex boyfriend too

[AsianUniQ]

YOUR SCREWED!!!!!!!!!!!!

hehe jsut kidding. I see that you are jealous. A your level of compromise is low. But cant do anything for him. but what you can do is apologize and make up for it INDIRECTLY. Have your freind (his gf) help you do something nice for him, like for his birthday, suprise him. You are using his gf to make the apology so that you can be freinds again. He would like that, no matter how stubborn he is, he'll have to accept it. Even if he cant accept it directly from you, he'll have to accept it form his gf. So just do something nice for him, but dont let him kno that its from you, yet.

[starlette]

damn I hate it when that happens. I say just suck it up hun. Next time dont say anything to make you eat your words. Get to know a weblog and the private entry button. Thats all I can tell ya.

[icy_angelx]

.....wow..... I think you should like set things straight and it's just because like you were really mad and you got sooo upset.....

[rockbass60]

get over the ex bf guy, hes an as$ making that rumor up, and apoligize to your friend, say that you were mad and couldnt control your feelings, cuz sometimes you cant, your a teenager wut do u expect.

[blah122986]

well if he is bold enough to start rumors about u then u dun really need him...

[x shootingstar x]

first you were wrong to start saying things about his gf to him.
second, i think you are jealous because u aren't over with him yet.
third, ur bff should have consider your feelings.. (how long have yall broke up before THEY started?)
fourth, just because of the rumor he started, you do not have to apologize. he is being immature and an ass. so i suggest, move on.

to sum it all up, you both are wrong and you should only apologize when he does. you do not need to apologize if he's being a bitch.