there's this girl..., keeps flirting with my boyfriend Options

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

i posted bfore about this girl who told me that she's been seeing my boyfriend n then it turns out to be true but it seemed like he wasnt lying so i didnt believe her. well she found out that we're still together n she knows that she's not dating him cuz he even told her so and she knows that see him n stuff to but she keeps calling him "babe" n sending him texts saying "thank you babe. i felt so much better after last night. i love you." n all this other stuff...it's relaly getting to me. i trust my boyfriend cuz i know he never loved her n n he told me that i dont have to worry about her n e more...but wat the f**k?! y is she calling him ten times a day n sending him i love you texts n calling him babe?! he's not her babe. n i dont know y he wont stop talking to her. "we're just friends" he says but even though he know she has feelings for him he still talks to her. i asked him to stop talking to her for at least a month or so so that she can get over him but he wont...wat to do??

[Chii]

my dear, must i say it again? DUMP HIM

he obviously does not love you either if he lets this other girl carry on like this, you're basically letting him walk all over you. even though you "believe" that nothing is going on and you trust him...deep down we all kind of know that he probably is doing something with her...

just let him go, don't let yourself stay in this position, you're hurting because of some guy

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

tell her off

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

Throw her down a flight of stair`s.


JK

[angelrevelation]

Throw her down a flight of stair`s.
JK 

lol yea you should do that... or take her cell and chuck it at her head

i dont really understand the whole thing about him 'not dating her' and everything, because it sure seems like it. and he's still talking to her too! i'd suggest talking to him about it one last time. if it doesnt stop, dump him, because it seems like he's cheating on you

[aera]

in the middle of a crowded hallway, yell at her and tell her to stop talking to your boyfriend. im pretty sure everyone there will take your side and she'll stop.

OR

tell her nicely to stop in front of your boyfriend

OR

dump your boyfriend

[Shattered_Hope]

You could either: dump him, tell her off, or tell him off...In this situation, I think you should dump him because he's obviously with you but he's talking to this girl even though he knows she likes him and you don't like it. Telling her off or him off might not help...but do what you want. You should've left him a while back when the problem started..

[_sarcastic_]

tell her off, if she doesn't listen slap her.
or just dump your bf

[love_101_213]

Yo first thing dump him and then it's a bout to be a what ? Girl Fight

[whomps]

He should stop talking to her.. for all you know he could be leading her on. But what are you doing? Just standing there and letting this girl holler atcha boy? (Hahahhaah) Go talk to HER instead. Does she even know you? Do you know her?

[topsyturvy]

first dump his ass
then kick hers!

you don't have to take that shit!

^ HAH!! That made me laugh so hard. xD

.. for all you know he could be leading her on. But what are you doing? Just standing there and letting this girl holler atcha boy?

^ Agree.

Go do something. To her or to him, for all we care. But DO SOMETHING.

[*mzkandi*]

Girl HE IS LYING TO YOU. Any guy the give you the "We are just friend" crap is lying. I am 20, I have dated alot of guys in my lifetime so i know the bullsh*t games they can play. It seems he is seeing her while he is seeing you. If he really didnt care for her he would have ended all contact with her a while ago. Do yourself a favor and leave him because he is up to no good.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend.

[*mzkandi*]

but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend.

but can you prove that? look people lie. thats a simple fact. people cheat. i'm not saying dont trust him but dont be taken in too easily. i think you should ask him to stop speaking to her altogther and then he doesnt then something maybe up. the other girl may love him for a REASON and you dont know what that reason is now do you?

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

well i do know the reason why she tells him that she loves him. but there's no proof that he hasnt been faithful to me either.

[*mzkandi*]

well i do know the reason why she tells him that she loves him. but there's no proof that he hasnt been faithful to me either.

well good luck with your situation. i hope everything works out and that he is not cheating. but if you are so sure he isnt then dont get mad when the other chick calls or texts him.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

i just dont know wat to do about her tho...

[yOUCANtSEEmE]

kick her ass...
then get rid of him.

simple as that.

[sadolakced acid]

why's the guy always the bad guy?

keep the guy. do nothing about the girl.
let fate prevail.

[Chii]

but here's the thing. we're on a break but he promised to stay faithful to me n he trusts me now cuz i did a lot of stuff to him in the past too. but i think he's telling the truth about not spending time alone with her n not caring about her much n only thinking of her as a friend.

wow, i just looked at your xanga, you're 3 years older than me and you fell for that?

i just dont know wat to do about her tho...

don't do anything about her, what comes around goes around, she's going to be the one who's with that lying jerk who can't stick to one woman. just let him go and move on. you're 20 (or you will be 20, i forgot your birthdate but i remember the year), you don't have to tie yourself down now.

[xhiddenemotion]

definately dump him. he doesn`t sound reliable.

[miszSERENiTY]

Smack a ho.

[FoOd]

Lets say we give you boyfriend the BOTD. And ask yourself this,
"Do you completely, absolutely, positively trust him?"
"How long has this girll been hanging on?"
"What is the girl's past on boy's?"
"What was your boyfriend like before you guys got together?

I hope that helps

[mouse_3k]

Tell her to step off or your goin to beat the knowledge outta her. I wouldnt even give her a warning, Id just jump her if I see her even touch my boo

[illuminessence]

In my opinion, he needs to sacrifice his time with her or all contact with her since it's making you angry. If he can't, dump him.

P.S. I'd so bitch-slap her and tell her to get her homewreckin' paws off of my man. He's found a real woman and he don't need some desperate ho.

[xMayleex]

Dump him, i have had a boyfriend like that before, its usually him getting texts from his ex, hes saying its nothing, when its everything. Oh and kick the bitch in! lol

[DORKalicious]

dump the guy! lol He probably likes the attention from the other girl.Find someone else who will give you the attention and time you deserve.

[bravodancer04]

See this is like my little poem I like to tell people who mess with my boyfriend..

I love my man
Oh yes I do
He`s for me
And not for you
And if by chance
You take my place
I`ll take my fist
And break your face

..Simple as that

[*x____duckii*]

Well, you never know. He might be cheating on you. Just try having a talk with him. Tell him to stop hanging around with her for a while. If he doesn't, dump him.

[heyyfrankie]

if he is cheating, you need to break it off. duh!

[pinayprincess]

''its about to be a girl fight..''

mann i would of beatin that bitch to the ground for messing around with my man... dont ever let that happen to you in life, put some sence into that girls head saying that he's your man...pshh the girl is walking all over you, you need to step up OR theres always dumping him...

[this_is_life]

shes jelious. throw rocks at her when shes not looking.

[this_is_life]

or if hes cheating. throw rocks at both of them.

[ItzOnlySydney]

dump his ass!

[to-devastate]

Confront her. Or dump him.

[kryzcoak47luv666]

Let's think about this logically

Another woman is in the picture
and thats def. a problem

Solution: Put her in her place, you got to tell her to back the f*** off, your with him, she's not, and if she really is, then you make sure to get the truth out of him
If worst comes to worse call cheaters

You just got to tell that girl back off, and if she tries to start something, then put her in her place, yeah fighting isn't always the best resolution, but some people need a good kick in the ass to get something in their heads.

But if it were me, I would have left him, I mean is it really worth it to you to put up with his crap, he's needs to grow some hair on his chest and be up front with you. You don't need no little boy, you need a good man.

Just think about it. Be the bigger woman!

[vampireduster]

dump him dump him

[sadolakced acid]

wow, this forum is full of vicious man-haters.

come on. what if the guy really is only friends? and it's the girl that's BLEH about it, but the guy is faithful?

[AsianUniQ]

Dear useless, Im starting to think that this has become a stage. So you might have to hold your breath adn hope it goes away. If you trust your bf that much, and would want to stay with him, then you'll have to wait until she moved on to another guy. Your bf doesnt seem to mind her calling him and texting him, but when she moved on to another guy and stop talking to him, he would mind then.........so tell your bf, that he should stop talking to her now because the busy bee had to pollinate somewhere else. Your bf doesnt seem to mind, because he feels special that two girls like him at the same time hehehe.........but there is no such as a 3-way babe!

[starlette]

SMACK THAT BEETCH!! Thats all I can say. She needs to be hit. Or maybe your man needs to be dropped. Now that I think of it, smack him too.

[darklync]

lol, this is def. girl talk, i got like HALF of what u were saying, but it seems like its all sorta out?!?
sum girls r like that, just like how some guys r like that....i dunno, sumtimes people dont respect the fact that ur seeing sumone.

[XaZnX07]

hmmm i think he thinks of her as a good friend and doesnt wont to lose t hat and so he keeps on talking to her its complicated but just let it go if you trust your boyfriend theres nothing to worry about hope for the best for you

.:tony:.

[KELLYYY]

Slap the hell out of her.

[Litt0_TeeZy]

honestly...he might be playing you two...it's hard to trust guys...i have a HARD time trusting them now......

[xtiffysweetzx]

he juss likes da attention dat he gets from her...but yeah...id go up to her n knock her out...n then tell him it really bothers me n dat if he doesnt stop he's gonna lose me

[sweetdreamsx3]

Tell your boyfriend it really bothers you and if he doesn't do anything, dump him because he doesn't even care for what you feel and what you're trying to tell him. Guys are idiots. *stab stab stab*

[sweetdreamsx3]

*edit* Oops. Sorry. >.< Yeah yeah, don't double post.

[i can break]

Hm...I think you should tell them both off.

[xlaydee_v]

ew. whore. slap the shit out of her. unless she's your friend lols

[icy_angelx]

omg....he's like probally 2 timing ya....THat's y he won't listen he likes you and her sooo yea....and she calls him BABE!!! OMG DUMP HIM

[blah122986]

if u trust him enough then its ok....i myself...90% of muh friends are girls...and when i first went out with muh gf..i asked her if she trusted me....cuz she knew i had a lot of friends that are girls....if she was to ever ask me not to hang out with a person for a month...i think i would be able to do it...just becuase i love her...but personally i would be dissapointed....

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

ok well first of all i asked him to not talk to him because he's went on dates with her bfore while he was with me n then told her he loved her even tho he didnt mean it. so now she loves him n call him baby n after i found out about her he told her that they werent dating n that he wasnt her baby n still she kept sending these texts. but now its over. happened a long time ago.

COULD SOMEONE PLEASE CLOSE THIS TOPIC?!