omfg here he goes again, >_< Options

[EmmalieV]

I absolutely Adore and Love my boyfriend ( as you can tell by my sig and avatar )

But , yesterday we were talking and he asked me If I knew why guys cheat on girls , Im like No , explain it to me. He said that guys cheat on girls because where they cant get something they can probaly get it somewhere else and he put an example , he said this is an example , Me and you are going out and if you dont want to give it to me , I find another girl that will and Ill have you and the girl on the side.

I asked him if he felt this way , and he said no that thats how most men think.

AND , I dont want to have sex with him yet because his best friend and his best friend is like a father to me told me not to do anything with him yet , wait until he values me completley because If I give it to him now its not going to be the same and he wont value me as he should , and I so agree.

My bf has had a very deep n dark past , which includes f*ckin alot...

Im just "iffy" about what we talked about yesterday , what should I do?

And another thing , I live in the Dominican Republic , where all men are pigs but still >_<.

[*Weird addiction*]

My bf has had a very deep n dark past , which includes f*ckin alot...

Hahahaha .
There's nothing you can do, he said he didn't feel "that" way, so you have to trust him .

[lilshelil]

Well, since you asked him and he tells you he dont feel this way. you should believe him since the fact that he's your girl friend. I think your question is "do you think he's cheating on you?" well you gotta c if he act wierd around you. How long have you guys been going out for? does he tell you that he loves you?

You have nothing really to worry about cuz you know that your not going to do it w. him. And if he DOES cheat on you, then leave him. Any guy that can do something else w. another grl other then you is completely NOT worth it.

So if he does jus leave him. you know u can get a guy that can completely cherish and value you.

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Argh. Ask him about it...ask him if he's cheating on you.

Simple.

[EmmalieV]

^that wasnt the whole point of my situation.

I know hes not , his best friend would have told me , hes just telling me why he think guys cheat on girls and I told him If he cheats on me and I find out its over with the quickness.

[pinayprincess]

thaz tha same exact thing that WAZ happening b4... his two best friends are lyk fathers to me, for protecting me from my bf .. idk wut i wud do kuz it wud come to tha point he will probably "if u luv me then give me wut i want" .. thaz krayzee though , thats pressure... if u feel pressure then dont do it..[[ he hasnt dont thAt to me but thats uz a thought of wut i wud do]]

[FoOd]

All relationships begin with trust.

Remember:
"Men are like parking spaces.... all the good ones are taken."

Just think of yourself snagging a good parking space.

[megan_x3]

i simply thinks that your boyfriend is just someone who wants to f*ck ppl. im not sure but to me , i think he is. if hes giving you an example saying that if you don't want to give it to him then he would go and find someone else who would ... that's pretty weird. if my boyfriend said that, i would slap him and kick him in the b*ll and break up with him.

[bravodancer04]

That`s kinda weird that he asked you, maybe its because hes trying to say if you don`t have sex with him, he will find another girl to do it..

[twelveislands]

^^
Could be a reason.

But then again, if he was cheating or planning to cheat.. I doubt he would of brang up that whole subject.

[illuminessence]

The question is this:

Do you trust him completely?

If the answer is yes, you shouldn't worry and continue with waiting.

If the answer is no, then we have a problem. Simply ask him.

[heyyfrankie]

so, he just asked you that question randomly??? something is fishy... maybe he only wants you for sex? i don't you, him or the current state of your relationship so i can't give a valid response to your question but just be careful and don't do anything that you might regret in the future.

[Shattered_Hope]

I think your boyfriend is hinting to you....that he wants you to have sex with him or he'll go find someone else...I don't think he's cheating on you yet...but just telling you what he thinks...

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

yea..i think u should wait...n if he cheats on u...well u'll have to make a decision if u will stay with him or dump him. the only problem is...he'll probly do it to u again. n yea he probly brought that up for a reason...careful. n if u need someone to talk to about that...im the one ur looking for cuz i been through it.

[aera]

it's possible that he just brought it up to share his thoughts. but he also can be cheating on you. keep an open mind and dont have sex with him yet or anything. if you close your mind, then youll think that everything he does are signs that hes cheating on you.