MY BF AND I BROKE UP!, I'm so sad, tell about ur brake ups here |
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 Apr 7 2005, 07:33 AM
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 My bf and i were fine and then he started ignoring me so of course i got rlly sad. Then on the internet he said were through so im like hahaha april fools. He said no, im serious! me: april fools was april 1st. L8tr on i found out it was an april fools joke and got so mad  I told him how i felt and then he ignored me even more! We just broke up, im rlly confused !
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Apr 7 2005, 07:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup with your boyfriend.. don't worry, over time you'll recover and be able to live a single live happily again =]
Most of my breakups went pretty well considering I was the one breaking it off.. so usually I was ready to break up with them. |
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Apr 7 2005, 08:03 AM
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oh wow that sucks! Just move on with your life and try to find another guy (when you are completely over your ex).
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Apr 7 2005, 08:05 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(JoeSocks @ Apr 7 2005, 7:33 AM) My bf and i were fine and then he started ignoring me so of course i got rlly sad. Then on the internet he said were through so im like hahaha april fools. He said no, im serious! me: april fools was april 1st. L8tr on i found out it was an april fools joke and got so mad I told him how i felt and then he ignored me even more! We just broke up, im rlly confused ! He sounds like a jerk. That's a dumb stunt to pull on you and I don't think he took the relationship seriously. Try to move on. |
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Apr 7 2005, 08:13 AM
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 evelyn* <3 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,438 |
dont worry you two hafnt broken up for a long time yet. you can still try to save the relationship from falling into pieces. prepare ureself, take a deep breath, phone him and try to clear the whole matter and say that ure sorry and that you still want to b together wif him. let him tell you y he's ignoring you aswell. afterall, couples have to understand each other, right? ;)
as for me i hafnt went out bfore but ive had my heart shattered by a boy but thats a rly long story... so yea soz |
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Apr 7 2005, 12:19 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
ouch
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Apr 7 2005, 02:41 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Dude I am so confused of what you just said, but you have my simpathy!
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Apr 7 2005, 02:47 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
that's pathetic.
what a jerk... |
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Apr 7 2005, 04:20 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup
 ...but he sounds like a jerk...  Just give it time and you'll be over him sooner or later. 
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Apr 7 2005, 04:36 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Talk to him, Explain to him that it hurt thinking that he was serious about breaking up with you. Say you still wanna be together. Ask him why he's ignoring you for since he's the one that pulled the whole 'joke'.
Only have had one major break up really. He changed, I didn't like the new him as he didn't seem that interested in me any more. I broke it off. Found out that while we were together he was going round asking girls to do stuff (sexually) with him.  Was kinda bummed but I got over it 
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Apr 7 2005, 07:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
hahaha, quite mature i must say
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Apr 7 2005, 07:49 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Awww...sorry to hear that, but you'll get over him. Find someone who actually cares about you ^^
As for my breakup...only had one real one as I've only had one real boyfriend so far. He broke it off with me over the phone. His reason was that I was too insecure for him (I was a bit...but he was my first bf...), we had different opinions and priorities on just about everything, he didn't care about whether we stayed together or not while I did, he didn't take it seriously while I did, and that he didn't ask me out because he liked me, he only asked becasue he knew how much I liked him.  I was hurt by him, but now I'm MUCH better. Just go and find someone new and get over him. Guys like that aren't worth your time. |
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Apr 7 2005, 07:55 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
It's ok he was a jerk anyway for doing that to you! That's the worst april fools joke a guy could ever pull!! You did the right thing.
For me I have never been through a breakup. But I have gotten in alot of fights with my boyfriend. |
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Apr 7 2005, 08:08 PM
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i'm sorry to hear that, give it time. you'll soon forget him.
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Apr 7 2005, 08:13 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you break up because of this? because of an april fool's joke? how immature is that? i mean yeah yeah it hurt at the time but you can't just break up because of a stupid fight, you break up if things can't change, all he did was make a simple mistake...if this is the only problem, then get back together with him while you still have time, you should talk to him about this, tell him that this really bothered you. make sure he gets it through his head that some things just aren't funny.
QUOTE(illuminessence @ Apr 7 2005, 8:05 AM) He sounds like a jerk. That's a dumb stunt to pull on you and I don't think he took the relationship seriously. Try to move on. oh please, it's just a joke, my boyfriend tried to pull this on me but he couldn't keep a straight face 
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Apr 7 2005, 09:49 PM
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aw, i'm sorry to hear that about you and your boyfriend. i hope you feel better.
and i've had 3 exes now and its funny cause i've had each case...i've been dumped, i broke it off, and in the other we mutually agreed to end it. its good because i'm quite good friends with all 3 still but the first one was in our freshman year and he broke up with me over email saying he wanted to be friends...i soon found out he liked this other chick who ended up being a slut. |
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Apr 8 2005, 01:41 PM
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 sugar + spice + everything kinky. Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,665 |
my most recent break up was four days ago. it's the first break up that i've ever cried over. my boyfriend and i were going out for five month, and we broke up for like four times before but managed to get back together. but this time i know it's different cus he has no feelings left and i'm the one who broke it off this time..
it was my longest relationship and seriously first love. we were two completely different people who won't learn how to compromise.. i guess u can consider that u love that person when u still miss them when they're right in front of u, and u can feel all their physical and emotional pains.. it hurts too much cus everything around me just reminds me of him.. |
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Apr 8 2005, 06:26 PM
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aww that reaallly sucks
My boyfriend was gunna dump me for an April Fools joke but I think he chaned his mind..Because my friend said "what if she cries!?" |
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