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 Apr 6 2005, 05:05 PM
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 I Made Ebonics  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430  |
why does it hurt when you see your boyfriend walking with another girl and you know its just his friend to class and just completely feels like he doesn't see you
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Apr 6 2005, 05:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
well hmmm if he acts like that maybe its time to have a heart to heart. <3 2 <3.
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Apr 6 2005, 05:09 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
it hurts because you're [still/are] emotional attached to him.
leave him, he's not worthy if he does things like that just to piss you off. unless it's his sister or other relative. |
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Apr 6 2005, 09:32 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
it hurt me soo much with my exboyfriend.. i think it hurts bc u care about them soo much and are afraid to lose them.. i wudn't mention anything to him tho since u know that nothing is going on and he'd probably get mad.
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Apr 6 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
it hurts, but i juz remember to take his word, kuz he alwayz reminds me that he luvs me nd wud neva do that kind of thing... juz keepin his word helps me remind myself ''its juz a friend fling'' --
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Apr 6 2005, 10:07 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i dont think you should worry that much, unless they're flirting. i mean, you have guy friends too right? how would you feel if your bf got jealous whenever you talked to one of them?
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Apr 6 2005, 10:42 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
Keep it all in perspective. Unless he does it just to bother you, which it definitely doesn't sound like, then why freak over his walking with a girl? Yes, it drags out a little jealousy, but don't blow it out of proportion. I walk to class with my guy friends all the time, and I know how I would feel if my boyfriend even hinted that there was something going on between me and them.
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Apr 6 2005, 11:12 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
Omgoshh.. I totally understand what yooh mean. I CAN'T stand it all.. even when I know its just a friend. And I especially can't stand him laughing wth another girl. haha. I'm wierd. <33
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Apr 6 2005, 11:15 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
Well that doesn't happen to me..rofl..
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Apr 6 2005, 11:33 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
that doesnt happen to me so idk what thats like. my bf's friends that are girls are my friends too so i dont mind
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Apr 6 2005, 11:56 PM
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RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,386 |
first thing: when you see your ex with another girl or just with a friend that happens t be a girl, of course it's going to hurt. it's because you still love him, even if he was a jerk or whatever. i don't find it possible to get over a guy, not completely because that love is still there.
you're probably hurt to see your boyfriend walking a girl to class because you don't happen to be that girl. you feel like he's not paying attention to you when he's supposed to. |
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Apr 7 2005, 12:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
No...
I just have a lot of trust in him that he won't dump me for a friend. And I hang out with my guy friends A LOT so he understands. It's vice-versa. |
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Apr 7 2005, 01:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
because you're insecure?
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Apr 7 2005, 02:10 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(jennypie @ Apr 7 2005, 12:47 AM) because you're insecure?  Agreed. I mean, he's your boyfriend right? Don't you trust him? Don't you know he likes you obviously and not her? If it bothers you a lot, you should talk to him about it. |
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Apr 7 2005, 02:27 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
because you want to be the only girl that ever is around him. and the only girl that he sees. The thought of him with someone else kills yah.
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Apr 7 2005, 02:43 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(ilauqh @ Apr 6 2005, 4:32 PM) it hurt me soo much with my exboyfriend.. i think it hurts bc u care about them soo much and are afraid to lose them.. i wudn't mention anything to him tho since u know that nothing is going on and he'd probably get mad. i agree.. i guess u really care about them... |
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Apr 7 2005, 09:17 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
i think u dun luv him anymore.........
u should be pissed off seeing him wiv another girl if u luv him? |
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Apr 7 2005, 12:19 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Well that's not right. Have a talk with him and tell him how you feel. It's the only way to solve the problem without being too dramatic.
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Apr 7 2005, 02:37 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
You better get over that jealousy because if you keep this up he will forsure leave you!
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Apr 7 2005, 04:40 PM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
Well i really dont see my boifriend cuz we go to different schools but when were together and he hugs sum of his friends that are girls and i dont know them i ask who they are...im sumtimes a lil jelouse cuz when that does happens he just leaves me for a few so i dunno...i cant complain cuz i have a crap load of guy friends and im always talk/walking/hugging them
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