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 Apr 6 2005, 09:13 AM
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i like a guy whos my friend but doesnt like me as more than a friend but ppl say he does and he sometimes acts like he does. i have a best friend whos also a guy and we care about eachother a lot, so last night i was IMing him, and he asked if i liked him, so i said yes and that i loved him because i do. the only problem, is that he has a girlfriend, and everyone thinks they make a horrible couple , but , he loves her a lot more than me.
 then i kept saying how much of an idiot i was for liking him, because i knew he had a girlfriend and this would ruin everything, but he said i wasnt an idiot and that his heart may change one day but then i started crying and he started crying too (i could literally see him crying through the webcam) and he said he was mad at himself for bringing up the subject and that he was sad then he called and i was crying too hard to talk so then i signed off and cried myself to sleep, then i only could sleep for a couple hours because i was thinking about him, and now we're both mad at ourselves and just a big 'ol mess and i have to see him on friday and i dont know what to do!!!!
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| *wind&fire* |
Apr 6 2005, 09:17 AM
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well he shouldnt break up with his gf and you should go out with the other guy
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Apr 6 2005, 09:26 AM
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but.....i love the first gut more and the other guy is, well, very quiet and doesnt tell anyone anything and he will NOT admit that he likes me but everyone knows it and so a lot of my friends have asked him out for me and he said no but then his friend told me it was because he didnt want anyone to know, but his friend lies A LOT , but sometimes i can trust him
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| *wind&fire* |
Apr 6 2005, 09:40 AM
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dont be selfish... he likes the other girls more than you... there are other guys too you know not just those two
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Apr 6 2005, 09:53 AM
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oh why dont u just shut up!!!! youre not helping me anyway..
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Apr 6 2005, 10:26 AM
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QUOTE(bRoK3N_h3@r+ @ Apr 6 2005, 3:53 PM) oh why dont u just shut up!!!! youre not helping me anyway..  Why don't you shut up, cos you are being stupid! You asked for help and she gave u an advice and this is how you react? Now this is what i call "immature". I'll go with wind and fire, he already has a gf, stay away from him. |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:26 PM
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yeh youre just mad cos im not telling you that you should go out with him.. get over it ... the truth hurts...
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Apr 6 2005, 06:35 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
what they said i agree with them,
he has a girlfriend and i guess that there's no reason for him to break up with his girlfriend if he loves her very much. you'll have to find a way to get over him, there are plenty of other fish in the sea, but you guys can always still be the best of friends. |
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Apr 6 2005, 07:28 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
u said it yourself you shouldnt have made such a big mess that grl IS his girlfriend and theres really nothing u can do about it. plus, he said it--- his heart MIGHT change one day. (whenever that day is right?)
Right now, you dont do anything at all because you dont want to be the blame for them breaking up. Girl, if he REALLY want to be with you then he'll talk about it with his girlfriend, they will decide what to do. HE will decide if he will come to you or not. Dont be the hate of every eye dont try to break them up. IF you really want him you will wait. |
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