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 Apr 5 2005, 09:37 PM
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 damn u got owned!  Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850  |
ok well how do i start this. um... well my last real relationship was a year ago. it was the last and really the first one were i actualled fully cared about a girl and every thing. and well we ended up braking up because she had some problems she said that she wanted to deal with on her own. and well since then i've had a lot of relationships with other girls but it's like they don't mean any thing. and i still feel as if i still love that one girl were i had a good relationship with. and for the past 4 or 5 months i decieded to just wait for the right girl to come to me. but it's really not working at all. and as every day goes by i just get more lonely. and i just really need and want a g/f right now. but i just don't want a relationship that means nothing cause im really sick of those. so i guess im asking you guys wat i should do?
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Apr 5 2005, 10:22 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
just wait for the right girl then. she'll come eventually. you kind of answered this yourself... lol
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Apr 6 2005, 01:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Well, you said so you're lonely but don't want a meaningless relationship. The best thing to do is just... well.. wait. I agree with angel_revelation, you may not know it, but you answered your own question.. haha. Don't try to get into a serious relationship, when it feels right with another girl, then it will be your time. Trust me, you have plenty of time to find that special girl.
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Apr 6 2005, 02:16 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Obviously, you should wait if you wish not to have a meaningless relationship. When you said you've been waiting for the right girl to come your way, how long have you been waiting exactly??? You're still young and you have a long time to find the right girl so don't rush it.
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Apr 6 2005, 02:27 PM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
try 14 years with another year and a half to go until you can even be allowed to. but just wait for the right girl, cuz if u have a bunch of meaningless relationships she'll be discouraged and then you could possibly be missing out from having a really important relationship
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Apr 6 2005, 07:15 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You can't make any meaningful relationship happen.....it takes time and...well....the only thing you can do is wait...wait for the right girl to enter your life..then you get to know her and pretty soon maybe you two will have a meaningful relationship...
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Apr 6 2005, 07:22 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
*Agrees with everyone else*
Trust me, you`ll know when the right person comes along. Don`t stress over it unless you want a crappy relationship. NEVER settle. |
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Apr 6 2005, 09:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
awwwwwwwww ... u shud keep in touch w/ ya ex.. juz hanging out nd stuff...
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Apr 6 2005, 09:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Just so you know, most of the people never ever meet their soul mate.
If you want your soul mate, don't wait around for it. If you wait around, how do you expect to do anything? QUOTE awwwwwwwww ... u shud keep in touch w/ ya ex.. juz hanging out nd stuff... Smart idea and all, but that would create some discomfort between them. |
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Apr 6 2005, 10:01 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Hmm. I can't help but wonder if the girl you had the meaningful relationship with is your soul mate... since it meant so much to you compared to your other relationships..
 If you miss her that much, I think you should try to get with her again. I mean, you guys broke up because of her problems, right? It wasn't because of an argument between you two.. so things shouldn't be too tight there.. I dunno, I just don't think you should let her go so easily.. 
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Apr 6 2005, 10:03 PM
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damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 6 2005, 9:35 PM) awwwwwwwww ... u shud keep in touch w/ ya ex.. juz hanging out nd stuff...  yeha i really want to but well.... there's problems with that. cause we had a bad break up because she thought i was cheating on her with her best friend but i really wasn't and stuff. cuase her best friend was a little obsessed with me like she would follow me around and every thing. but i really want to keep ion touch with her but she doesn't want any thing to do with me. and i still really love her but there's nothing i can do. |
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Apr 6 2005, 10:07 PM
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naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Oh, nevermind my prev post then. Supposing you guys got together again, the tension will be tight.
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Apr 7 2005, 04:31 PM
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damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
yeah but i really feel as if im in love with her but she seems to not want any thing to do with me
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Apr 8 2005, 01:17 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well she was your first real girlfriend, and the first girl that you ever had a relationship with, so it's bound to be a bit hard to get over her. That's what happened to me and my ex; we had a pretty bad break up and even now, 5 months after we broke up, there are still times when I miss him so much that it hurts. But...life goes on.
If you don't want to have pointless relationships, maybe you should stop looking for a while; these things happen when the time is right, and you can't force anything to happen that wasn't supposed to happen. If she doesn't want to do anything with you, it's best to leave it as it is. Don't push for things that wasn't supposed to be... Remember, be thankful that your paths crossed and that she made you happy for a little while...and that she may seem like the best girl for you right now, someone better is waiting for you, and when the time is right, you guys will find each other ^^ |
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Apr 8 2005, 07:02 AM
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 evelyn* <3 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,438 |
yea wait for the right girl to come =]
or if you rly cant let go of the the ex, try to phone her up and ask whats wrong and that you still care. apologize if you have to and all,,, the works. goodluck* |
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