school problems, this is my story Options

[*Statistik*]

okay..this is my story..people say nobody likes me in our grade..except for this loser in our grade..(everyone hates him much as they hate me) but im his friend..i think its starting to be true..but not sure still..Do you think all the ppl in my grade are saying that i have no friends, no life to offend me and hurt my feelings or that no one really dosent like me or thinks i dont have a life?? Cuz these are some probs.

Everytime I change for gym in the locker room this fat kid bullies me. He starts picking me up, steals my shoes, harasses me in many ways. I feel uncomfortable around him cuz everytime he sees me or I see him, he goes near me. I want to tell on him but im afraid im gonna get in trouble because people can stand up for him and help him and he can make up another story.. He acts gay to me. all the time. And he actually has friends.

Why dont people like me? why? (im talking about ppl in my grade, not here in cb -_-) Is it cuz im ignorant? stupid? annoying? weird? mean? I dont know..some1 please help me here..

And when people say "hi" to me..i feel like they dont mean it..i think theyre just faking..u know what i mean..


WELL another reason why i think ppl hate me cuz early in the year..i called this kid a jewbag..and everybody started to spread it around the school..and i think its cuz of what idk..idk what the main reason is..and omfg this italian kid is like "I love seeing chinese men naked" WOW WTF..? THAT really hurt me even though im not chinese. Remember, Im new to this school this year. They think im chinese. IM KOREAN.

[imafreakinazn]

they have their reasons.
personally
i don't know you that well,
so i have no reason to dislike you.
you are currently: neutral

(for me at least)

[JC4P]

well for begginers...tell on him, u should never feel threathed at school second of all, idk

[crazeegirl411]

Well...I don't really know you, but people can hate you for no reason AND for the things you stated. That's just the way you are...so you will find someone that would be compatible to your personality one day. Some people are just not born to be likable.

[DaTru KataLYST]

When ppl bully you, they're actually crushing on you.

HF!

[JC4P]

When ppl bully you, they're actually crushing on you.

HF!

wtf was that?

[*Solipsist*]

wtf was that?

When the fat dude sits on your chest, your ribs make a cracking sound.
Then your lungs give way. Then everything gets all blurry and dark.
I don't know.

- Solipsist

[JC4P]

^ rofl

[crazeegirl411]

Nooo. It means the bully likes you. That's their way of expressing their lust for you.

[ItzOnlySydney]

hmm...maybe becuz your an a-hole?

[crazeegirl411]

hmm...maybe becuz your an a-hole?

you're

Call me when you learn.

[*wind&fire*]

maybe you shouldnt have insulted the people...

[*salcha*]

beat up that fat lard and his friends.
then tell them you're korean.

[*Statistik*]

^are u crazy?

well..i told them im korean and theyre like "oh" and they say it again like few days later

AND IF I BEAT them up, ill get in more trouble. I dont wanna fight.

Maybe its cuz i never talk..people think im so shy..and they also say i act so tough on the internet and at school u barely talk blah blah....

[miszSERENiTY]

I`m sorry. Sounds like your life sucks. Just brush them off and act like they don`t bother you...TRY to make friends =]

[*Statistik*]

^How? i always act nice, i never curse, or say anything bad. Im just...quiet/timid

[*Solipsist*]

^How? i always act nice, i never curse, or say anything bad. Im just...quiet/timid

Have you ever seen that movie, The New Guy?
You should try and do what he did.

- Solipsist

[crazeegirl411]

^How? i always act nice, i never curse, or say anything bad. Im just...quiet/timid

If you're quiet and timid...if you REALLY are, then maybe you're just paranoid.

[jambaJUICE]

^How? i always act nice, i never curse, or say anything bad. Im just...quiet/timid

interesting.. from what you used to share on cB was that you got suspended from calling someone a jew, and getting in fights with people, etc. wondering why the hell they would do that. that doesn't sound like you "always act nice, never curse, or say anything bad" let alone being "quiet/timid"

[*basick*]

Maybe its cuz i never talk..people think im so shy..and they also say i act so tough on the internet and at school u barely talk blah blah....

then don't be a e-thug if you are scared to even talk to that fat kid who picks on you... if you act hard online to your friends then act "timid and quiet" at school then somethings not right. how you act online should somewhat resemble how you act in real life.

[jambaJUICE]

OHHH ANDDD i just read the whole thing now.
you know if what you do at home is talk smack to people and think your hella gangster. and then once you get at school, suddenly you're not as tough as you think, you're going to be hella insecure and no doubt you're going to get picked on because.. well , if you think your hella gangster and you're not.. then duhh. that's obvious.

[dahding]

man. beat the crap out of the el tub o' lard. who cares? so u'll get in trouble. u'll still have the satisfaction of kicking his fat ass.

oh, and if u tell jokes or talk like u do on cb in reality, no surprise there buddy.

[*Solipsist*]

You can't beat up fat kids. They absorb all the blows.

- Solipsist

[JC4P]

You can't beat up fat kids. They absorb all the blows.

- Solipsist

once i punched this fat kid in the boob and my hand poped out.

[dahding]

You can't beat up fat kids. They absorb all the blows.

- Solipsist

use the power of the twinkie. lure them to fall out the window. it's the only way.

[toodlepops.]

Do you even try to talk to the other kids?

[Teesa]

once i punched this fat kid in the boob and my hand poped out.

aw, that's sad, but made me laugh
but I definitely think you should make an effort to talk to them and find out what the problem is.

[racoons > you]

use the power of the twinkie. lure them to fall out the window. it's the only way.

ROFL!

lol

well did you rap at them? b/c that wont have helped.

seriously tho, starting a new school is a bitch, i've been there. firstly, tell them you're korean. as they probably dont know. i cant tell what country an asian person is from on sight, other people probably cant either.

if you're being actively bullied, rather than just left out, then you really ought to tell someone. it wont be fun, but it is most likely to make it stop. otherwise.. i dunno.

[angel-roh]

Well there can be a starting trend. If a popular person doesn't like you, then they start of a trend. I bet there's many who hates you when they never even know who you really are. Maybe they are gona listen to the popular kids cause you said JewBags... or hurt someone's feeling when you never realized it. I guess you need to show a little innocence in you? Well I know that there are lot of bullies who are half popular to people in school. Well you know, if he threats you too much, go talk with your counselor and if the counselor is on the bully's side... then go call 911 haha.

[demolished]

i'm not sure but i kind of have a FRIEND who is almost the same as you. from my similar experience, i think its because you're defenseless or doesnt have the guts to stand up for youself. you're existence is worth to be picked on. you got to be smart and have plans what are you going to do next if something happens .. that is how i am today, i made friends and i fight for myself. never let youself down and act like nothing has happen. well, you can report a very deep situation to the princible about yourself and rumors.

[ i dont mean to offend you or something, i'm just helping]

^are u crazy?

well..i told them im korean and theyre like "oh" and they say it again like few days later

AND IF I BEAT them up, ill get in more trouble. I dont wanna fight.

Maybe its cuz i never talk..people think im so shy..and they also say i act so tough on the internet and at school u barely talk blah blah....

is it because you're expressing your emotion and feeling on the internet and not in real life ? its because of face to face ?

[innovation]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

[Shattered_Hope]

People can hate you because....
1.) What you may have did to them...
2.) Because of who you are in general..
3.) Because of who you know...
4.) Or...because they feel like it....other words being: they hate you for no reason at all...
5.) their friends hate you..
In most situations people hate you because they don't know you....try to find someone who might have common traits with you.

[demolished]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

wow, thats actually true. thats something i have done before. HAHAHA. girls are more accepting too.. thats a good thing. YEP, DOING WELL IN SCHOOL DOES A BIG DIFFERENT AND GET MORE COMPLIMENTS from others. yes yes yes, always keep the mouth close to gain more friends... this is soo true. great job purple !

[OriskybusinessO]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

reminds me of my father... tell the principal, dean or someone if your being harrassed. and when i first came to my new school, i thought no one liked me either, but what i did is just tried to talk to people in our class, and eventually, even though they arent my best of friends, they are someone to talk to, get help from, etc. Good Luck!

[i_am_a_chameleon]

awwww
*hug*

[racoons > you]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends. 

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

do wha tmindy said. mindy should be a school counsellor. wel actually, she should be president, but baby-steps, no?

[Ington]

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends.

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

Mindy is so awesome. Thats why I love her.

And yeah, James, I told her she should be President but she doesn't want to. :\

[racoons > you]

^

i dont care. she's going to be whether she likes it or not. i've now decided.

grr arrgh

[*Statistik*]

awwww
*hug*

^shut the fuk up bitch

[*nightmare4taki*]

^shut the fuk up bitch

Maybe this is why people at your school dont like you. Someone was trying to show you sympathy and you say f*ck you. Maybe you need to change your whole Demeanor before you get people to like you.

1. If your going to act like another culture make sure its authenic and not fake.
Like Basik said the your claming to be gangster on the internet and yet your lifestyle is totally different.
2. If you such a Kangsta beat the sh*t out of that kid otherwise don't claim something you dont represent.
3. If no one likes you so what. Be happy with the friends that like you.
4. Practice Basketball or Football and play it then the girls will be attracted to you even if you sit on the bench.

Now I truly feel sorry for you man. Hope everything works out.

[funbobby]

Personally I think you serve to be bullied kangsta boy, and if I was at your school, I'd probably hit you as well. If they're not hitting you by the way, insult their mothers, I dare you.

[O x LiseE x O]

Jewbag? And you wonder why people hate you? Racism last forever, had you been at my school and said something racial, I'd make sure you're life was hell. o.O And you calling this other kid a "loser" doesn't help you what-so-ever. You're just like them. Heh.

[funbobby]

2. If you such a Kangsta beat the sh*t out of that kid otherwise don't claim something you dont represent.

lol. I like you.

[*basick*]

^shut the fuk up bitch

lmfao wow.... no wonder people hate you

[dahding]

^shut the fuk up bitch

haha. no wonder no one likes u. i hope the fat kid sits on u and breaks ur ribs. and then farts on ur face.

so gluck with that.

[miszSERENiTY]

ahhhhahaha...i wouldn`t like your ass either.

[juliar]

YOU, my friend, have to learn social skills.

even if it spreads around the school, who cares. pretend it was a joke.
about the naked chinese man thingy, no one cares if your chinese or korean, because theyre trying to hurt you.

learn to laugh at yourself, and dont try to paint some bs image of yourself, because that may be a reason.

when that fatass gets on your nerves again, dont just stand there. but dont hit him either. tell him to get off your ass. get some damn respect and stop friggin whining.


and being racist never helps. neither does cursing or trying to be gangsta or whatever you wanna call it...kangsta. whatever.

also, if there are any new kids or whatever next year, try to make friends with them. don't let any other people tell them "oh you wont be popular if youre friends with him" you have to make some good friends, close friends that you respect and that respect you. you can't just sit around waiting for some damn miracle. try to be nice to someone who doesnt seem to pick on you as much, someone who doesnt laugh at you all the time.

a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

[Skyline Drive]

haha. no wonder no one likes u. i hope the fat kid sits on u and breaks ur ribs. and then farts on ur face.

so gluck with that.

HAHA. Indeed.

[lolthissiteisfun...]

except for this loser in our grade..(everyone hates him much as they hate me) but im his friend

what a great way to make friends, call them losers

Everytime I change for gym in the locker room this fat kid bullies me. He starts picking me up, steals my shoes, harasses me in many ways. I feel uncomfortable around him cuz everytime he sees me or I see him, he goes near me. I want to tell on him but im afraid im gonna get in trouble because people can stand up for him and help him and he can make up another story.. He acts gay to me. all the time. And he actually has friends.

ignore him and he'll stop


And when people say "hi" to me..i feel like they dont mean it..i think theyre just faking..u know what i mean..
if you didn't worry about it so much, you would be a lot happier. who cares why they are saying hi? at least they're sayin it.

i  called this kid a jewbag..and everybody started to spread it around the school

yet another great way to make friends...

They think im chinese. IM KOREAN.

annoying, I'm sure, but not that big of a deal.

^shut the fuk up bitch

quit being mean like that or you'll never have friends

my advice, don't call people jewbags, and don't call your only friend a loser, and don't be all desperate for friends, just be nice and be happy you have one friend, and ignore the guy in gym. and quit being mean. also try to get involved, but don't come on all strong and demand to know why people don't like you. join something, but start quietly, and NICELY. maybe after a while people will change their mind about you, and then you can actually trying to make polite conversation. Cheese is a good topic starter good luck

ps- calling your self a kangsta, which is bad enough in itself, is probably not very attracting. Coming on all strong, and i hate you all, i don't care what u think ur are so mean and I'm a tough "kangsta" is generally not a good way to make friends. So just be friendly! I'm sure people will like you

also, i know very few people who can easily tell what country in asia someone is from by looking a them.

[*jooleeah*]

hmm...maybe becuz your an a-hole?

1. It's you're, not your.
2. Your posts are annoying.

action plan for an improved jason

1) be nice. clearly, if you call someone a "jewbag," they will be offended. keeping your mouth shut is the first step to gaining friends. 

2) be composed. spazzy = risky. people don't like being around volatile people, but everyone likes a calm, rational, easygoing person.

3) join something. be it sports, student council, music, whatever-- join something at your school and devote your time to it. if you succeed or contribute significantly to a certain activity, people will respect you. you'll gain a good reputation, and you'll gain more friends.

4) improve your appearance. i know, it sounds really superficial, but what i mean is-- don't wear anything too outrageous. maybe this would apply more to slutty girls.

5) do well in school. although most think that "nerds" are disrespected, you can actually gain a lasting reputation if you get good grades, participate in class, etc. be open to helping others out, and eventually, people will start liking you more.

6) first convince the girls. it's the truth: girls are generally more accepting, and thus, it'll be much easier to sway their friendship, first.

Read this.

[Just_Dream]

You know what? If people can't accept you for who you are nor can they even show you respect, they're not wortth your time.

Also, be true to yourself as well. Don't act different around people at school than you do at home or around friends who don't go to your school. Maybe it's your personality.. If you didn't act a certain way, people probably wouldn't hate you.

Oh yea, and treat others with respect. After the whole "jewbag" incident, I don't think people would quickly come willingly to forgive you. People make mistakes.. just try to prove to people that you're a good person, IF you are a good person.

[becomingAWARE]

I'm sorry :[

but JEWBAG? please. that offends me 'kay?

[*x____duckii*]

1. Tell on this fat bully you're so afraid of.
2. You don't seem like a loyal friend (who calls a friend a loser?)
3. Well obviously, people probably think you're racist since you called a kid a jewbag?

But seriously, you probably deserve all of this. And remember, karma's a bitch.

[voguelove]

And when people say "hi" to me..i feel like they dont mean it..i think theyre just faking..u know what i mean..
WELL another reason why i think ppl hate me cuz early in the year..i called this kid a jewbag..and everybody started to spread it around is italian kid is like "I love seeing chinese men naked" WOW WTF..? THAT really hurt me even though im not chinese. Remember, Im new to this school this year. They think im chinese. IM KOREAN.

yea, no wonder why.


haha, you unregistered.

[voguelove]

oh, i was trying to quote that passage and clicked quote. as in quote you. but then copied and pasted what i wanted.

oops. :D?

[JenxCrazii]

do something that will impress a lot of people like if yooh have gaming skills or graphics skiills<- use that on projects. ppl will see and think ur not dumnb

[Shahin]

This topic is hella old...but I wonder if the fat kid still picks on him

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

when the fat kid picks on you again, call him gay. and if he really is, he`ll either deny it or perhaps leave you alone.
sometimes, you don`t need other people. and if people talk shit about you just think about this..
"keep talking, your shit makes me famous."
which, is terribly true.

[chibichi15]

You can't beat up fat kids. They absorb all the blows.

lol! ouch, thats harsh!

well, something like this is actually happening to me at school in that people say stuff behind my back and start rumors that arent even true. i ignore them because i know that i dont have to let what they say affect me. i know that im right, so why let a lie get me upset? for you, hey, dont be afraid to tell someone that can help. i know itz hard because it may make the bullies dislike you even more. but, thats their problem. not yours. if they feel the need to continue to bully you, there's nothing rong with you. there's something wrong with them.

[Jinny]

whenever that kid disses you, he probably does it so his "friends" can laugh. right?
well anyways. whenever the kid picks on you, think of something/a comeback to say to him. say it..loudly? and maybe he'll learn so stfu. =]

[corohehe]

dude u are a f**king loser. ur asking how to get friends on an online forum? admit it: ur f**king gay. rofl.

http://a706.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/image...e41b081f849.jpg

^thats a present for u, since u think ur the hottest guy in cb and ur always insulting other members' looks haha. u look like a fuccn douche. GG, u look like a fa990t.

[datass]

^What the hell? Even if he may be an ass doesn't mean you can be one too and bash him.

[corohehe]

^ yea i can. he never gets punished or banned or mod previewed or whatever cuz his "friends" on this forum like him. whatever i dont care. at leat i have friends in real life unlike this faggot.

[michellerrific]

^ excuse me but if you're going to spend time here dissing him then maybe you should better suit your time elsewhere. especially here on cb, it's not nice to diss people no matter how much you hate them, especially through these forums. not everybody likes everybody on here but you gotta learn to respect that, okay? thanks.

[corohehe]

^ u dont understand. this fag bitches about everything. if you've been here throughout the years u will know that no one likes this little faggot in real life. go to relationships and read his gayass topics.

[Shahin]

dude u are a f**king loser. ur asking how to get friends on an online forum? admit it: ur f**king gay. rofl.

http://a706.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/image...e41b081f849.jpg

^thats a present for u, since u think ur the hottest guy in cb and ur always insulting other members' looks haha. u look like a fuccn douche. GG, u look like a fa990t.

Damn fool chillax.

[Rachel]

haha, you unregistered.

Actually he is still a member. He is using a different screen name I believe.

And coro.hehe, stop bashing and being rude. Jason has gotten warned, banned/suspended numerous times. Why don't you check his current warning level before stating that he never gets punished? Please stop.

[show_me]

^ excuse me but if you're going to spend time here dissing him then maybe you should better suit your time elsewhere. especially here on cb, it's not nice to diss people no matter how much you hate them, especially through these forums. not everybody likes everybody on here but you gotta learn to respect that, okay? thanks.

I got you coro.hehe
In almost every thread our boy Jason has never failed to make a fool out of himself..
Why would we lay off him? rofl One moment hes cussin someone out talking about how great his life is, the next he is complaining about how a fat kid picks on him and how he has no friends in his new city :(
I'm just saying that coro.hehe has every right to bash him, he whines 100x more than most members

[*Libertie*]

^Right or wrong (and I'm not taking sides here), there is still the no member bashing rule which applies to everyone.

[*Uronacid*]

I got you coro.hehe
In almost every thread our boy Jason has never failed to make a fool out of himself..
Why would we lay off him? rofl One moment hes cussin someone out talking about how great his life is, the next he is complaining about how a fat kid picks on him and how he has no friends in his new city :(
I'm just saying that coro.hehe has every right to bash him, he whines 100x more than most members

I agree... :] hehe

[emazing]

For starters, you shouldn't have called that kid a Jew-bag, and maybe the kids have some sort of discriminatory problems or something.
When some people say hi to me, I feel like they don't really mean it either... like they're faking it. Eeeh, I'm paranoid I guess.

[DarkImpressions]

Bullies..Those still exist?.