sex when you're 11, should i? Options

[ix3youx33]

i was thinking maybe i could have sex with my boyfriend cuz it seems like we're gonna lasta really long time and well i'm 11 and maybe i'm a lil bit too young but i mean like how do people get birth control anyway? but like is it for shure that you'll get pregnant or sumthing or is it 50 50 cuz like i love him a lot and i've been with him for like i think since i was 9 and yeah but hes 14 right now so iono should i?

[tmauze]

NOO! that's disgusting. and you can only get birth control from your doctor, it's a perscription.

[IamRad]

HELL NO ARE U F*CKN CRAZY!!?!?

KIDS THESE DAYS!... STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL UR MARRIED.. IF U HAVE SEX AND THEN GET PREGNANT ILL LAUGH AT U. =) ENJOY UR DAY AND MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE

[frenchaddict88]

F*CK NO!!! ENJOY YOUR CHILDHOOD!

[megan_x3]

LOL. NO DON'T HAVE SEX. UR ONLY 11. YOUR TOO YOUNG. TOO YOUNG. THESE KIDS DESE DAYS DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS. LOL. YOU SHOULD KEEP UR VIRGINITY UNTIL UR MARRIED DUDE. IM ONLY 12. BUT STILL U SHOULDN'T BE A NONVIRGIN WHEN UR ONLY 11. =/ CHAOTIC .

[KELLYYY]

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU!? Eleven!? You're crazy.

[aznxdreamer]

whoops..there goes your innocence. have fun living the rest of your life in regret. ^_^

[AlweizN4evah]

HAHA. wow you must be CRAZY..

Thats all i have to say.


LMAO this made me laugh.

[*mzkandi*]

You only fricken 11!!! Damn!! When i was 11 I was playing with my barbies...you are still a child and not mature enough yet to know what love means or have sex...*throws hands in the air* i give up...children these damn days

[inlonelinessidie]

April Fools joke, right?

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

HELL NO! first of all, your way too young to even be thinkn bout having sex. secondly, your only 11, i dont understnad how you can even think you know what love is, many people even older than you dont quite yet no what it is, i mean you may really like him, but love is a biiiiig comitment. 3rdly, why would a 14 year old go out with an 11 year old, no offense or anything but i dont see it...please dont do it, its really stupid to do it when your so young i mean your not even a teenager yet. dont even think bout birth control either.. there really must be something wrong with you! what happened to kids innocence these days???? when i was 11 i wasnt thinking about anything like that at all! please make the right decision and DONT do it

[DanielleMaria05]

I'm not going to scream at you. This is you're own decision

My opinion..

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!

Yeah, I think you're way to young. You may think you are going to last, but I truly doubt it. Sorry to burst your bubble

[zznazi]

#1 r u got dam fu**ing crazzy dont do it
#2 wult it mitly it ur deasition no one can fouce it on u ......
what u choose u will have to live with the out come
i think ur way too young
thats me tho

[cRaZiiXbEauTiFul]

wow. how did that even cross your mind?? thats crazy, no offense or anything...dont do it. its so funny how kids want to grow up all quick and then the rest of their lives try to stay young...

[sharerol]

You're only eleven, and he's 14? Hell no. You should think of the possibilites and the consequences. Have knowledge of what could happen. I think you're too young to truly understand the possibilities and such. Also, you're eleven, and you think you will be with him forever? Okay, two years, but look at Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake....I'm kind of overreacting, and whoa, I don't know what I'm saying, but anyways, I say don't do it. You may end up regretting it, and you don't want that to happen.




//Edit

Wooow, after reading all this...
HAHAHAHAHAHA.

[ix3youx33]

i'm basically 12 cuz i'm turning 12 tomorrow and age doesn't matter does it?

[inlonelinessidie]

^^ Bullshit you f**king liar, your xanga says your birthdate is on the 26th. This is all a lie. IF this is real and IF you're really this stupid go ahead have sex and regret it later.

[Ington]

You're disgusting. Get your hormones in order. You are a little girl. You don't even know what love is. Sex is a powerful thing, and you don't go around misusing that. All because you love him doesn't mean you should automatically give yourself to him.


Also, no. Its not going to last. You are going to seperate when he goes to a different school (BECAUSE HE'S 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU). Then he'll forget about you, you'll forget about him, and that'll be the end of it.

And one more time, he's 3 years older than you. Once you reach about 16, age difference is okay. But when you're 11 and 14, something is wrong. Seriously, I think he's just horny. Sorry to burst your bubble.

[AlweizN4evah]

i have one more thing to say:
14 year old with an 11 year old?

thats like..
a Freshman with a 6th grader!
or an 8th grader with a 5th grader!

HAHA. both are crazy. i mean.. im 13 and was with a 15 year old, but at least ima teen. You have a loong time to grow up. Dont rush it!

[*mzkandi*]

i'm basically 12 cuz i'm turning 12 tomorrow and age doesn't matter does it?

age does matter when you are thinking about sex. ugh you dumbnut...you know what, do what you want because i seriously dont the you're going to listen to people giving you advice online

on a last note: think about the decison you are about to make. cherish your youth while you can

[lovescream]

You're an idiot. Don't have sex. Why the hell did you ask us anyways if you wanted to? If you wanted to then just go do it and take your own risk. If you know you're too young, then don't do it unless you really want to. It's all your choice.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

have u NOT read the replys we have given you???? think bout it! 11 year olds dont know what is good or not good for them concerning this yet. come on!! even if you are turning 12 tomorrow that doesnt just go ahead and give u the permission to do it! YOUR 11 years old! My god think about it! im going crzy here with how stupid all this is! Sex is supposed to be first of all for marriage...but whatever chick, you just go and ruin the rest of your life and f**k it all up. you are not ready at all. your sooo young and stupid! what do we really have to say to make you think about it?

[LudaKriSs]

thats pretty crazy, ur only 11, even ur bf is too young at 14. I'm 14, the farthest i went was sleeping with a grl (did nothing) and kissing.

[ix3youx33]

what i ment to say was that i'm turning 12 pretty soon and he just turned 14 GOD hes in 8th i'm in 6th and we're gonna go to the same highschool n he said hes not gonna go to ucla until i get in so plus AGE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T MATTER

[lovescream]

They do if you're that young. For all you know he could rape you.

[sharerol]

Well, it would seem like it matters if you're thinking of having sex for the first time at such a young age. Also, people tend to change when they get older.

Shit, be practical.

[ix3youx33]

yeah maybe i shouldn't but isn't having sex like after you're married kinda creepy tho? like BLAH

[love-issosweet]

you are only ELEVEN! you do not even know if you truly "love" your boyfriend yet. heck, maybe you don't even know what love is. maybe your boyfriend only wants you because he wants to have sex with you.

//edit
you know what? you should have sex. and after, you'll get a baby. then, your "boyfriend" will leave you. you'll have to raise it 24/7, then you'll run out of money. then, your parents will be extremely mad at you. and maybe you'll even get kicked out of your own house! WON'T THAT SOUND LIKE FUN?!

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

oh my f**king god girl! what the hell is wrong with your head. your making up all these excuses for your age and whatnot. let me tell ya something and trust me on this one: you are not gonna stay with him your entire life! your in middle school. when he gets to highschool hes gonna move on and forget about you! i know he will! so dont give me this shit like he said hes gonna stay with me forever, guyz lie! guyz are scum! and i mean it! about the college thing: how much of a chance is there for you both to get into ucla? my ass you really need to stop this girl!

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

and sex after marriage is NOt creepy, just because a lot of people dont wait, its not creepy, it just is more special and stuff

[lovescream]

oh my f**king god girl! what the hell is wrong with your head. your making up all these excuses for your age and whatnot. let me tell ya something and trust me on this one: you are not gonna stay with him your entire life! your in middle school. when he gets to highschool hes gonna move on and forget about you! i know he will! so dont give me this shit like he said hes gonna stay with me forever, guyz lie! guyz are scum! and i mean it! about the college thing: how much of a chance is there for you both to get into ucla? my ass you really need to stop this girl!

I agree. You're not psychic enough to tell your future, are you? I highly doubt you are so uhh.. stop getting horny and start getting a life. And be normal with your boyfriend. Haha, just wondering, have you guys even kissed on the lips yet?

[Paradox of Life]

My lord! I may be 12, but at least I have the tiniest bit of common sense. I think everyone else has made it pretty clear, but you are 11! Or 12, but you are INSANE! I mean, I bet you don't even have like... boobs yet! Omg! How could you be thinking about having sex! I don't even think 12 year olds even kiss other guys on the lips. Especially if they are so much older than you! And you've been dating him since you were 9!? THAT'S DISGUSTING (funny too)!! You are frickin' desperate. Wait until you're like old enough to take care of a child! Your mother would be ashamed. This is sad. -_-; I hope this is just an April Fools thing. What are children coming to these days? Logic has no place here.

And also, if he ever breaks up with you... You would've had that child in wedlock.. So he could be called a bastard for the rest of his life and never even know his real dad. Just think about it.

[ix3youx33]

i'm gonna get into ucla cuz i already talked to some of thte staff they said if you wanna get into ucla we'll try and get you in and I TOLD U I'M BASICALLY 12 and guys r sumtimes scums but like i'm not rly actually gonna do it i'm mean like i might when i'm older but not right now wat u think i am sum kinda slut?

[*mzkandi*]

what i ment to say was that i'm turning 12 pretty soon and he just turned 14 GOD hes in 8th i'm in 6th and we're gonna go to the same highschool n he said hes not gonna go to ucla until i get in so plus AGE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T MATTER

girl please you sound so stupid right now. and what happens if this boy just decides that he doesnt want to be with you anymore one day? then what? in high school there is a chance to grow and develop as a person and i have seem many a chickenhead like you heartbroken hearted because they were so in love with someone when they were young and now that person doesnt want to be with them anymore... it seems you have made up your mind all ready so there is no use in asking what we think you should do

[ix3youx33]

yeah actually we have kissed on the lips like every morning when he walks me to school

[sharerol]

Hahaha, this thread is so screwed.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

your such a f**king liar girl, when your 11 no college is gonna say oh ya were gonna let you into our school
jesus chirst
stop the lying and get a life

[lovescream]

i'm gonna get into ucla cuz i already talked to some of thte staff they said if you wanna get into ucla we'll try and get you in and I TOLD U I'M BASICALLY 12 and guys r sumtimes scums but like i'm not rly actually gonna do it i'm mean like i might when i'm older but not right now wat u think i am sum kinda slut?

It's not like there aren't any other 11 year old scums in here that is the same age that has a horny boyfriend.
Yes, I thought you were some kind of slut. I mean, you wanted to have sex at 11. Psh, come on. Not a slut? Uh-huhhhh.

[*mzkandi*]

your such a f**king liar girl, when your 11 no college is gonna say oh ya were gonna let you into our college
jesus chirst
stop the lying and get a life

i'm serious...she act like she got the whole thing planned out.... and i agree with Spiritedfreak all the way

[ix3youx33]

i am not lying they said they'll try their best to get me in

[AlweizN4evah]

my god. why the hell are you making this thread if you say NOW that your not even gonna do it. this is SO friken pointless. you know what, you and your boyfriend can do whatever you damn want.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

ya they said that to make you shut up and go away!
and im sure they didnt even say that at all

[Paradox of Life]

... Actually, they say that to everyone that they don't accept and never call you back. Colleges don't even accept 12 year olds that send in scholarship applications or whatever. They say, "Wait until you actually graduate from middle school and know your multiplication and circumferences and we'll think about it." You're just sick. Unfortunately, if you're 12 years old, dating a 14 year old and kissing him every morning on the lips... You must be a slut or something of that sort. You have to think just beyond what you want to do. You have to think of what can happen. BE WISE.

[lovescream]

You're 11 and college is like 7-8 years away.

[*mzkandi*]

i am not lying they said they'll try their best to get me in

they will tell that to kids of course i am in college right now so i know how the whole process works...so dont assume your getting into anything lil girl

[ix3youx33]

ya know what? maybe you don't have to even come here if you're just gonna cuss at me cuz i'm not exactly gonna do it right now sex when you're 11 is you're thinking about it and when you should damnit

[whywasisostupid]

ur way to young right now, id think abotu it again if i were u

what yall just kissed?

slow it down missy.

[imadorkabledxd]

omgosh. no. you're still young...you're ELEVEN. I have friends who thought who hav ethought that they'd last forever with their boyfriends...but after 3 years, they break up. i honestly don't think u should do it

[*mona lisa*]

did you even reach puberty yet? haha ROFL how can you get pregnant then? you must be crazy if you think you'd have sex with a 14 year old guy. and believe me, you and your bf wouldn't last that long this early and at your age.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

i dont think you can decide what people can and cant say, we can reply anything we want!

[ix3youx33]

ya i have hit puberty and isn't puppy love the same thing as regular when you're all old n sh!t like its still love and how u kno it might not last a life time maybe it will

[imadorkabledxd]

your such a f**king liar girl, when your 11 no college is gonna say oh ya were gonna let you into our school
jesus chirst
stop the lying and get a life

hahahahah yea....after i gave my advice and read what everyone wrote...she sounds kinda.....pathetic

[*mzkandi*]

ya i have hit puberty and isn't puppy love the same thing as regular when you're all old n sh!t like its still love and how u kno it might not last a life time maybe it will

go ahead and make yourself sound even more dumb

[lovescream]

ya know what? maybe you don't have to even come here if you're just gonna cuss at me cuz i'm not exactly gonna do it right now sex when you're 11 is you're thinking about it and when you should damnit

Puppy love isn't the same. I'm not old. I swear to my dear God, you are a very horny little girl.

[whomps]

You were nine and he has twelve? So you were in the fourth grade and he was in the seventh grade? So now you're a sixth grader and he's a freshman?

Stick this into your brain: It only happens once.

Edit// Okay I just read what you posted above.. Don't consider the term "age doesn't matter" literally. When you think about it, age sort of.. does matter. In a.. common-sense sense. You definitely want to consider the consequences.. say if you get pregnant, the pain.. the possible embarrassment and rumors if other people find out (and other people usually DO find out).
What is your reason to have sex with him? Are you even ready? Is this what you really want, or is this what you feel will seal the relationship and keep you guys together forever? Do you love him, can you see yourself with this guy, get married and have children with him?

I say don't do it.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

a

[ghjgfkgfk]

i'm sure your mom can buy some condoms for you when she picks up the milk and eggs.

[Skyline Drive]

hahahaha







No.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

puppy love and real love? the Same? hahaha thats a good one!

[AlweizN4evah]

ya i have hit puberty and isn't puppy love the same thing as regular when you're all old n sh!t like its still love and how u kno it might not last a life time maybe it will

yeah suure. maybe it will. but you know what? it probably wont. YOU? hit puberty?! you're not even a friken teen yet! yeah, so what? OH WOW your almost twelve. big difference! you still wont even be a teen yet! o god..

[Paradox of Life]

i'm sure your mom can buy some condoms for you when she picks up the milk and eggs.

Lmao. That's funneh.

Some people can be so ignorant sometimes. We're not trying to tell you to break up with your boyfriend. And we're not trying to prevent you from doing what you want to do. We're just telling you that you WILL leave your boyfriend at some point because you'll have to wait like 10 years or so before you can get legally married and lead a normal life. If you want to have sex, so be it. Have children since you've hit puberty and have your little baby. Let your mama be so happy that you had sex at a young age. Let it haunt you for the rest of your life after you break up with your boyfriend and have a little baby in your arms without a father. Deny it all you want, but it's just logic. Yeah, whatever.

What would it be like walking through school with a big ol' belly after you had sex? People will mistreat you if you're pregnant at such a young age. It's been tested before. It's serious. Even the school staff gets involved.

[lovescream]

yeah suure. maybe it will. but you know what? it probably wont. YOU? hit puberty?! you're not even a friken teen yet! yeah, so what? OH WOW your almost twelve. big difference! you still wont even be a teen yet! o god..

I've hit puberty, I'm 11. You don't necessarily have to be a teen to hit puberty, it can happen at any age.

[teeners4]

aww that's so cute how you guys been out for 2 years. and yea... but dont DO IT

[WrathOfOnigo]

Wow is this even debatable? You're so stupid! So what if you think you will be with him for a long time you might not so what the hell?
Go get yourself knocked up.

[murderwaltz]

Hmm.. i dont know who to believe. maybe you are lying &; maybe you're not. whatever. just dont have sex. youre too young. you'll regret it afterwards anyway.

[HelloSunshine]

you're 11 going on 12, he just turned 14. you're right, age doesn't matter but girlie, this is a serious thing, a little young? try alot enjoy your young age

edit//
toby, you make me laugh, yes a very horny girl anyways, puppy love& real love aren't the same, age matters in this situation.

you don't have to be a teen to hit puberty. i hit it when i was 11 and i'm 12 right now.

and i just think you should really wait, but go ahead if you want to make yourself a disgrace to your family and the ones you love at a young age.

This post has been edited by xSWEETxCANDiix: Apr 1 2005, 06:55 PM

[Looow]

Kid,
What the f**k is wrong with you?
You don't love him. You're eleven for god sakes.
Idiot.
No.
Gosh darnit, what the f**k is going on with the world.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

you cant hit puberty at any age!

[AlweizN4evah]

I've hit puberty, I'm 11. You don't necessarily have to be a teen to hit puberty, it can happen at any age.

yeah. true. but i mean.. if you're thinking about sex at this age, its just WRONG. wow, spiritedfreak, you talk like you're alot older than you really are. haha thats a compliment.

[ix3youx33]

um yes people that r 11 could hit puburtii

[lovescream]

Any age up and above 8. I've started puberty at 8, actually.

//Edit:
AlweizN4evah, thank you.

[*mona lisa*]

sorry to be mean, but you are one of the dumbest people i've ever seen. there's no reason why you should do it now instead of waiting another 5 years at least. and you really don't know the difference between puppy love, which is what you have noe with your bf and real love, which doesn't occur often. think about it and the whole life you have ahead of you. it's not worth it to face the shame and embarrasment and ridicule if something happens to you and people find out.

[ix3youx33]

yay i get a compliment on here !! dat was retarded

[Paradox of Life]

Just posting a quick thing here. I went through puberty when I was 10. Some people have gone through puberty at 8, but that's the earliest I've heard.

[yoohgotpangd]

Oyy ... I'm not much older than you, but don't go around having sex when you're 11. Most kids around this age don't even know what a true relationship is ..

[*mzkandi*]

dat was retarded

no baby you are

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

no.. idont think so. you say that 8 and up you get it, well whats so special about being 8 that automatically makes you reach puberty, and im not asking when you reached it, honestly i dont care, my f**king god, you are stupid and i dont care if i make you mad or whatever, you are stupid!

[inlonelinessidie]

no baby you are

LOL! That was a good one.

[HelloSunshine]

Oyy ... I'm not much older than you, but don't go around having sex when you're 11.  Most kids around this age don't even know what a true relationship is ..

ditto, rei

[AlweizN4evah]

yay i get a compliment on here !! dat was retarded

wait. you got a compliment? from who. Ahem, excuse me. but that compliment was to spiritedfreak, not to you. i wouldnt compliment you. on what? what is there to compliment..

[lilnatcat]

No way!! What on earth are you thinking at the age of 11? Sex? Would'nt you rather go out watch movies or something than having sex?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Tsk tsk tsk...........you have no idea what you're getting yourself into...

[ix3youx33]

guess what everyone?

[Looow]

Hmm your idiot self did it already? rofl


by the way, you're the same girl who posted this in another thread

hi well um i have a boyfriend named harrison and hes in 8th grade right now and i'm in like 6th and then he's in DC right now cuz you go to DC for a graduating thing or sumthing like that and then like it seems like he might be 2 timing me with another gurl at DC and i don't even know it like hes so far away even if he tells me that he is i can't do anything help me ! 

You want to have sex with this guy who is two timing you?

[ix3youx33]

no... APRiiLL FOOLS!!!MUAHAHAHHA i love april fools

[sharerol]

no baby you are

Haha, that was good.

[Paradox of Life]

wait. you got a compliment? from who. Ahem, excuse me. but that compliment was to spiritedfreak, not to you. i wouldnt compliment you. on what? what is there to compliment..

Lmao! That was funny. I thought Spirited was like 15 or something. I'm shocked. I actually think this ix3youx33 is acting more like an 8 year old than an almost 12 year old.. -_-; You're so stupid and you don't even know. You don't even have the smallest trace of literacy. Hopeless..

**Edited:
Oh, just read that new, gay April Fools joke. I see you think people are just going to start laughing. Well, firstly, it isn't a joke because we're just disgusted by you, not mad or anything. I can only speak for myself though. Quite frankly, I really didn't give a damn if you got pregnant or not. No one's laughing, you loser.

[*mzkandi*]

dont you say april fools because i wont believe you

[inlonelinessidie]

April Fools like I said, huh?

I knew it!

[AlweizN4evah]

OOH OOH! youve finally decided to stop acting STUPiD?!

or even better!

APRiL FOOLS. haha wow.

[AlweizN4evah]

oh wow.. your SO mature. thanks for wasting a whole thread and a waste of everyone's time. GOOD JOB!

[Looow]

no... APRiiLL FOOLS!!!MUAHAHAHHA i love april fools

Kid, get off the damn comuter & stop acting stupid.
idiotic moron. ..

[*mona lisa*]

no... APRiiLL FOOLS!!!MUAHAHAHHA i love april fools

you get dumber by the minute.

[*mzkandi*]

she still a freakin dumbnut who needs to fall head first into a well

[*mzkandi*]

she still a freakin dumbnut who needs to fall head first into a well

[lovescream]

I bet she's just trying to stop this chaos she has created.

[ix3youx33]

dun be mad cuz all of you peoples got fooled!!! muahaha! i'm 12 (basically) not 8 plus onlii sluts would do that

[*mzkandi*]

stupid bitch...your a slut to even think that way

[sharerol]

Ha, more of an opportunity to spam.

[Paradox of Life]

We're not mad -_-; Don't flatter yourself.

[k_atie_elizabet_...]

dont f**king waste our time dumbass