Totally miss..., ..or is he another player on the list? |
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 Mar 31 2005, 12:58 AM
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I was searching around and I came across a few topics on "I miss him..". I have a general question:
When you Miss your ex. or maybe a past lover. do you miss what you had (like the relationship deal.) or do you actually miss him? |
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Mar 31 2005, 01:00 AM
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I miss him being there with me, the way he made me feel, but all of those times we had together couldn't have happened without him.. it's kinda hard to say..
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Mar 31 2005, 01:01 AM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
hmm i wouldnt know. lols
ive never been in a relationship =P but if i would guess she missed him lols. wild guess 
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| *mzkandi* |
Mar 31 2005, 01:31 AM
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i dont miss any of my ex's mostly because once the relationship is over i move on very fast and just forget about him
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Mar 31 2005, 01:53 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
I dont really miss my ex either. I just start moping about wanting a bf.
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Mar 31 2005, 03:11 AM
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 i know right? Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,129 |
I just miss having somebody to care for. Plus I miss how he treated me and stuff. But overall..I dont really miss him. Just the affection?
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Mar 31 2005, 03:49 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i just miss what we had
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Mar 31 2005, 04:12 AM
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yes..i will miss wt we had and sometime i think i may actually miss him!!
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Mar 31 2005, 04:17 AM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
ya sumtimes, but then i remember the way he treats me so sometimes i dont really care about thinking about him
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Mar 31 2005, 04:19 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,656 |
HaHaHa......I DONT miss him!! He was an ass to me....Dont believe me? Check out my xanga!! www.xanga.com/xximxbackxx
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Mar 31 2005, 06:00 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I miss him.
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Mar 31 2005, 06:58 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, sometimes I missed what we had, and I missed him...
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Apr 1 2005, 05:46 AM
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It depends really, though I guess if you never had him then you wouldn't be in a relationship...so...most people miss both I guess cause having a loved one is great AND being in a happy relationship is great too.
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Apr 1 2005, 04:35 PM
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a little bit of both, i guess
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Apr 1 2005, 09:11 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
i missed what i had...
right now i just got a guy i would miss him if we were apart but from my past i missed what i had |
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Apr 2 2005, 12:27 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
a little of both.
he was my first, and i guess that left a mark on me. sometimes, he calls me everynow and then, and my heart still skips a beat each time. |
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| *salcha* |
Apr 2 2005, 03:14 PM
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I denno, never had a boyfriend,
but i guess you would probably miss both. |
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Apr 2 2005, 03:32 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Probably would have to say.. what I had w/ the guy.. because the guy came out to be a total jerk. But I guess to truly love someone.. you miss him/her. Not what you had.
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Apr 2 2005, 03:58 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
I think it may be what we had. You know...getting all the attention from him and being treated as if I was special. I don't miss HIM though cuz he's an a-hole now.
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Apr 2 2005, 06:03 PM
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i definatley just miss what we had. missing him actually seems to just make it worse...
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Apr 3 2005, 01:50 PM
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I dont miss them.. Unless I'm the one being dumped, THen I might miss them or what we had for like 2 days then I'm over them (usually).
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Apr 3 2005, 04:57 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I miss all the times that we spent together...the way he made me feel special and all. I don't miss him...he's such a jackass now that I think about it.
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Apr 3 2005, 06:09 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I actually miss him. He was my dream guy, but all that is gone, now.
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Apr 3 2005, 06:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
i actuall miss the happiness and feels loney and cold in side i miss the love the feelig of beeing love and the feeling of loving some one
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Apr 3 2005, 06:24 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I miss having someone and I miss all the nice things he used to do for me and say to me. I don't necessarily miss him, because we're just kind of friends now and that's fine, but I miss having someone like him.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:18 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
I think missing him & missing memories and the relationship comes in one big bundle.
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Apr 3 2005, 10:16 PM
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hmm usually for me, i think i just miss the whole "relationship" stuff. just depends on the person. i did miss all the cuddling, holding hands, kissing stuff. i think that's it. not the guy. he's a total jerk.. but somehow i miss him!! haha. for me, just relationship things.
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Apr 4 2005, 02:28 AM
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hahaha. hmm. i miss his 'reassurancing". like him saying "i love u" and "i'll always be there for u". =/
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Apr 4 2005, 11:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,633 |
i think depedning on how long u guys actually dated,,,u could actually just be used to hanging out with each other,,,cause it feels normal. Its hard to distinguish this and can ruin a relationship or keep one going forever when both arent simply interested but dont want to or too afraid to change. It can be traumatic to just not have someone in your life all of a sudden,,,,some consider it close to someone passing away.
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Apr 4 2005, 01:36 PM
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i miss having the support and i also wonder what would've happened if i didn't screw up.
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