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 Apr 4 2004, 10:03 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3  Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491  |
I have two best frins...but actually da truth is i only feel closer to one of them. n she's closer to my best frins too. but my best frin says dat im her bestest frin. iono so its a triangle im really confused but da thing is.. recently ive been thinkin
 n i realized dat they always makes me feel depressed after we hang out or talk  i dunno wut im supposed to do i always try to cheer them up but nothin seems to work they're usually sad most of the time. i feel like i have to stop this whole triangle frinship or else im gonna be one depressed grl. but da thing is i really love 'em n care bout them but i cant help feelin selfish n wantin to be not part of this n juzz be on my own n be happy becuz they never make me happy they always make me sad n depressed. n i dunno wut will happen if i stop being their frins...i really donn know..wut should i do? should i juzz be their frin n act like nothings botherin me? or should i stop dis? n donn tell me to talk to them becoz ive tried n they're still not changing....
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Apr 4 2004, 10:43 PM
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so what you're trying to say is that both of you guys feel closer to one of your best friends. and that best friend says that she's closer to you? you know, you can have more than one best friend..it's not like you have to pick one or you'll die. you shouldn't stop being their friends, but if they make you sad and depressed whenever they're around you then you should definitely tell them and talk to the about it.. i'm sure that they don't make you feel bad on purpose.. they probably don't even know they're doing it.
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Apr 4 2004, 10:43 PM
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Eh, I was gonna tell you to talk to them but u just said you've tried that. Well, then. Just try distancing yourself from them if they're bringing you down so much. Don't distnace yourself completely, just a little, and if you feel it's best, gradually distance yourself more and more. That's what I would do if talking to them wasn't working
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Apr 4 2004, 11:26 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
im kinda lost.. but i think i got a little of it... how about u talk to both of them about how u feel, if u gusy are best friends i dont thinkm u should hide anything from them
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Apr 5 2004, 02:50 PM
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<3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
yea isolatin myself is a good idea thx..
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Apr 5 2004, 02:56 PM
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 ºù¼ö~ Group: Member Posts: 1,076 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,755 |
aww.. i ahte beign in the middle of those triangle thignies.. it really gets me mad too. after a day of not talking to them it worked one time ^^
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