BF TROUBLES, plz help |
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 Mar 26 2005, 06:58 PM
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ok i have this problem me and my boyfriend we tlk and stuff wen we see eachother but you see he never really calls me on the fone n it just kills me ive called him a couple of times n its been really awkward but wen wer talkin(not on the fone) everything is perfectly normal with the boy i feel so in love with!
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Mar 26 2005, 07:02 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
How long have you guys been together?
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Mar 26 2005, 07:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,643 |
about 3 weeks
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Mar 26 2005, 07:05 PM
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Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
plan things to talk about before making the call.
if he's not talking, then you gotta be the one to lure him into the conversation. can you give me an example of what your phone conversation is normally like? |
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Mar 26 2005, 07:08 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
 its no big deal, some guys just dont like talking on the phone. I'm sure it's nothing personal, dont worry about it.
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Mar 26 2005, 07:11 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
some couples just aren't.. phone conversated..
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Mar 26 2005, 07:14 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Don't rush into things.. maybe he's still kinda iffy about talking to you on the phone because he's shy.. Even though you two do talk more in person. I agree with uninspiredfae that you two should plan things to talk about or you should think of things to talk about that interest him. Get him to open up and crawl out of his shell.
Haha I remember it used to be the other way around during the first month of my relationship with my boyfriend. He would only talk a lot on the phone or online, but when we were at school or I would go to his house (once a week), he didn't talk that much. We kinda just hung out and watched a dvd or something. Also, tell him how you feel.. That you want to talk to him on the phone but there's always an awkward silence. That'll get him to start talking ;] |
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Mar 26 2005, 07:49 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, maybe he just isn't a phone person, like my boyfriend. Or, he can get really shy talking on the phone. Plan what to talk on the phone- maybe over time, he'll get more comfortable talking on the phone.
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Mar 26 2005, 08:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
thats the way my bf is.
 I know how you feel. & my bf always says "ill call you tonight" but just never does. 
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Mar 26 2005, 08:08 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
my bf too everytime i call him he says hes busy or something and he'll call me back but he never does either. =( guys... sigh
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Mar 26 2005, 09:36 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
okay, I can TOTALLY relate to your boyfreind, hehe, I HATE the phone...I always get really nervous and tense while talking on it, aspecially with someone I dont' know very well, I jsut want it to end as fast as possible...
...and seeing as you've only known him 3 weeks weeks (or maybe you've known him longer but not as a boyfreind?) I'd give him a break. I can hardly talk comfertably with freinds I've known for like 5 years, lol...ya..it's kinda a mental block for me, although I'm slowly getting over it  Anyway, I wouldn't get to upset aobut it, probably he hasn't had a girlfreind before so doen'st know waht to talk about and/or has a mental block like me 
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Mar 27 2005, 12:42 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
..LOL im really starting to think its a "guy thing" cuz my bf only called me 3 times...in all.. i've been with him for 3 weeks. not long i know. but i called him at least 10 times. XD hah
dont worry about it =). just give it some time. or maybe he just isn't a phone person. ya never know. |
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Mar 27 2005, 12:53 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
my god. just because he's ur bf, doesn't mean he's a whipped bitch. god. "OMG HE HASN'T CALLED ME IN THE LAST FOUR SECONDS!" come on. the man's got a life. calm down, wait a little, and like, whoa, if it's that annoying, talk to him about it.
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Mar 27 2005, 12:59 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Maybe he doesn't want his parents to know he has a girlfriend. My brother always hides his girlfriends.. I suppose it's because he doesn't want us getting into his "life"
Talk to him about it. |
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Mar 27 2005, 12:54 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
3 weeks and your *in love* with him? I smell bullcrap.
QUOTE ok i have this problem me and my boyfriend we tlk and stuff wen we see eachother but you see he never really calls me on the fone n it just kills me ive called him a couple of times n its been really awkward but wen wer talkin(not on the fone) everything is perfectly normal with the boy i feel so in love with! maybe since u think your *in love* with him and always calling him, maybe ur just to clingy and wanna get away. truth hurts |
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Mar 27 2005, 02:18 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
Its part of the game. He knows that when u don't hear from him, it kills you inside. Lol
I know some guys that do that... |
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