is it wrong to, date a friend's ex |
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 Mar 26 2005, 04:12 AM
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so i was trying to search for any threads like this and the search wont let you look for words with less than 4 letters... you cant even you quotations ...BOO
so i just wanted to know... is it ok to date someone that your friend already dated? what if you never met that person while they dated your friend? i think the relationships been over for about half a year anyway 
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Mar 26 2005, 04:41 AM
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 Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
If your friend doesn't mind...i guess it's okay, but i have found it usually arouses jealousy.
I did a no no and dated my friend's ex--very bad ending. |
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Mar 26 2005, 05:46 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
There shouldn't be a problem. If she's really your friend, I'm pretty sure she'd be supportive.
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Mar 26 2005, 07:10 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
the best thing to do is to ask her. but like barelyy_coherent said, it shouldn't be a problem since the relationship has been over for half a year already
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Mar 26 2005, 10:43 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If the relationship has been over for half a year, I think it's OK for you to date your friend's EX.
 If you like this guy, go for it.
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Mar 26 2005, 12:12 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, you should probably ask her, but since the relationship's been over for half a year, it should be OK. But make sure with her first.
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Mar 26 2005, 12:19 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
yes its wrong.
my friends's friend dated her ex. gave him head, and we hate her now. |
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Mar 26 2005, 12:24 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
just ask her if she's alright with it. if she's okay and wont get jealous then go for it, but if she's known to be a jealous person then i'd say back off.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:32 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
thats fine...i've dated some of my friends ex's and they have dated mine....as long as ya'll aren't jealous people
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Mar 26 2005, 02:37 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
well i personally wouldn't jeopardize friendship like that. i find it wrong.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:00 PM
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I think it's ok if it's been awhile since they broke up, but if you go out with him/her right when they broke up with their ex, then that's wrong.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:31 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well it's not wrong, but you should ask your friend how she feels about you dating her ex.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:59 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
depends on how good of friends you are.
if you`re his really good friend, than no. if you`re a hi-bye friend then, maybe. even if he says its okay, he`s lying same thing happened to my bro. he & his friend got in a huge fight. didnt turn out great. good luck 
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Mar 26 2005, 05:02 PM
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i dated my friend ex coz she said it was alright & my other friend dated my ex so it doesnt really matter if the feelin for the guy is gone
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Mar 26 2005, 05:03 PM
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p.s. im still best friends with them too
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Mar 26 2005, 05:05 PM
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YES!! it only comes back to bite you in the ass take it from someone who knows *points to self*
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Mar 26 2005, 05:52 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
it depends on hu broke up first...like my friends friend broke up with someone and my friend is now dating my friends friend's ex..but my friends friend is jealous..so it depends..(i hope that made sense)if ur friend broke up first then its ok..but if the ex broke up first i think its not ok..
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Mar 26 2005, 06:59 PM
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as long as your friend is cool with it then its cool
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Mar 26 2005, 07:24 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I really would ask my friend about it first.. You don't want to lose a friendship over some guy/girl you know what I mean?
Plus, your friend should be okay with it if s/he thinks that the guy/girl is okay. If your friend says that you cannot date him/her because s/he is your friend's ex, then just know that your friend is really protective about it and is still going through a phase after a break up. Remember that your friend might also have his/her best interest, at heart. Also, your friend is bound to get over that guy/girl anyway because s/he should move on... You know what i mean? |
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Mar 26 2005, 07:27 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
ask your friend if it's ok, and I think 1/2 a year is not too early to ask a friend's ex back. My friends would be dating my ex's the next 2 or 3 months!
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Mar 26 2005, 09:12 PM
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Go for it.. Its not like she owns him.
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Mar 26 2005, 09:25 PM
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I'd say no...it's not wrong to date a friends ex...if you know they realli don't care for them nemore..then it's okae..it's a problem if your friend says they still love him and say they're goin to go back out w/ him...
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Mar 26 2005, 10:35 PM
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put yourself in your friend's shoes
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Mar 26 2005, 10:39 PM
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i dont think its wrong...
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Mar 28 2005, 04:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,954 |
i tried to keep this as general as possible but i think its bitin me in the arse... im a male... so i would have trouble dating my male friends... hahahaha... i aint gay not that there's anything wrong with that...
thanks for your input... we'll see how this goes |
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Mar 28 2005, 08:42 PM
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BOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MY EX IS DATING MY BEST FRIEND
i was soo effing pissed for soo effing long cuz my ex was being such a bastard. but now that i've found sm1 else..i pooint at my ex and say "hahahahaha he's taller than you..smater than you..nicer than you.. AND he's on the basketball team.. AND he doesn't smell like VIETNAMESE NOODLES!!!!" |
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Mar 28 2005, 08:55 PM
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Personally i would never date my friends ex. I just think its some line that shouldnt be crossed. |
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Mar 29 2005, 05:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,633 |
yes...if they truly moved on with your friend, then it is not their business anymore...ppl are not trophies
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Mar 29 2005, 05:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,633 |
lol
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