im so mad at my dad ..., how can i not hate him? |
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 Mar 26 2005, 02:11 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
When I was one, my mom got pregnant again. However, since she had to take care of me at the same time, she would often get really tired and that affected the pregnancy. So she needed a lot of rest so maybe there'll be nothing wrong with the new baby. And oh gee, exactly how helpful was my dad? he didn't even bother trying to take care of me so my mom can get some rest. my mom started having all these medical problems and she'd bleed a lot, so that probably meant there was something wrong with the pregnancy. and guess what? when my mom needed the most attention and help, my dad decides to just go to taiwan and i don't know, visits his mother who is just fine when MY mom is having all these problems. the baby eventually died inside of my mom two weeks later ...
and since then my mom somehow couldnt have another baby again. if it weren't for my selfish, ignorant father, i could have a little sister or brother right now ... |
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Mar 26 2005, 02:13 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
o gosh thats horrible. i see why you hate your dad.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:55 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
Goshness my dad always seems horrible but that makes him look like he has never done anything in his life that didn't hurt anyone.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:57 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
im sorry that happened, but you cant necessarily blame it ALL on your dad..how do you know that if he had helped..the baby still would have lived..or the bleeding would have stopped..you dont know what the future would have held if he would have stayed..
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Mar 26 2005, 04:00 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ Mar 25 2005, 9:57 PM) im sorry that happened, but you cant necessarily blame it ALL on your dad..how do you know that if he had helped..the baby still would have lived..or the bleeding would have stopped..you dont know what the future would have held if he would have stayed..  agreed..i dont think everything is ur father's fault..yes he could have given support..but he didnt..even if he was there he might not have been able to do anything about it...did u get ur dad's version of the story?maybe there was something he had to do..im not sure..im sorry that happened.. |
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Mar 26 2005, 04:06 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
^^Agreed
It is noones fault. Nothing to really do about it since what is done is done. Leave it alone, just accept it and keep going. There really is no point staying mad at him, its not gonna do anything. Just be happy, if not for him you wouldn't even be alive today xP THis is only a one-sided story, your dads version also needs to be told. Medical problems and bleeding happens during pregnancy unless it happens A LOT, which it seems that it did. But still, how was your dad able to tell from just that? How do you know that he knew about it? Maybe he didnt... who knows. |
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Mar 26 2005, 10:38 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I'm so sorry!!
 
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Mar 26 2005, 12:22 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
im guessing your father was afraid of what was going to happen.
He is a jerk, but realize its not all his fault. |
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Mar 26 2005, 01:05 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Oh, wow. I feel so sorry for you, seriously. I would get really mad at my dad if he was like that. I mean, that's his wife right there suffering! And all he did was go to Taiwan. What an aweful daddy.
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Mar 26 2005, 09:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
Your dad is a mofo.
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Mar 26 2005, 10:42 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
awww,
 That's so sad, how could he be like that? You shouldn't hate your father, he is your father. But it's still so wrong.
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