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 Mar 25 2005, 09:00 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
this has nothing to do with n e thing...but just a lil while ago i found out a friend of mine died in a car accident. she just died last night. it was on the korean news n everything. she was seventeen or eighteen. im not sure. i havent seen her since eighth grade. pple have been dying so much lately but this time it wasnt my uncle or a grandparent or a friend's parent. it was a friend of mine n her parents lost their child. i can only imagine how hard it is for her parents rite now.
"when a parent dies the children burry them in the mountain but wen a child dies the parents burry them in their heart." and that is so right. but i wonder...the people who have already lost so many people in their lives...people who were friends and siblings...how they are feeling rite now. wen someone passes away it makes u think...life is so short. dont waste it being depressed and doing things that could get u in trouble. live a fulfilling life, one that u will never ever regret. she was a very sweet person. she was loving and bright n very polite. she was nice to everyone. i never saw her get mad or upset. she always had a smile on her face. everyone who knew her as a person respected her n she was very smart. she had so much going for her...i guess she was such a great christian that she was called to go to heaven. i hope...she is happy in heaven rite now. |
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Mar 25 2005, 09:03 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Im sorry about your friend.
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Mar 25 2005, 09:03 PM
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wow, i am so sorry you had to go through that. Sometimes we don't realize the things we took for grantite until they are gone. i feel terrible for parents who have to bury their child.. I hope i never have to go through that.
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Mar 25 2005, 09:05 PM
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Definitely been there... my gma died a couple months ago, a kid i knew was found dead inna ditch this year...
makes you not take so much things for granted.. lyfes too short to be pist off. I wish everyone will realize that. |
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Mar 25 2005, 09:05 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Wow..I'm so sorry about your friend too! And yah..it does make you think..my friend always says..'I hate it in movies when someone is about to die they tell the person they have loved secretly for so long that they loved them so much!' I agree with that..I think it relates to this topic and I understand what your saying..live life to the fullest!
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Mar 25 2005, 09:37 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I'm sorry about your friend.
 "when a parent dies the children burry them in the mountain but wen a child dies the parents burry them in their heart." This is such a sad quote. I think I'm gonna go and cry now. 
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Mar 25 2005, 09:39 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
death makes me wonder what will happen next. if you do go to heaven, is it just gonna be a bunc h of clouds and you learn to play the harp? hell is a scary thing to think about. imagine burning for the rest of eternity. you want it to stop, but you will know it will never stop. and isnt it a scary thought, that if nothing happens to you when you die, your just nothing, no thoughts, no feelings, nothing. death is a mysterious thing and i guess people arent afraid of death itself, but what will happen afterwards.
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Mar 25 2005, 09:41 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
sorry to hear about ur friend...life is short, we should all live it to fullest..some ppl need to realize that...
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Mar 25 2005, 09:49 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
people make out for heaven to be white n a bunch of clouds. but in the bible they actually mention wat heaven is like n its so much more than that. in the book of revelation there was this disciple or servant of God who got a small fraction of a glimpse of wat heaven was n it was unbelievable. n ur eternally happy so you have no free will.
n all hell is is darkness. not light or anything. |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:24 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Aaw im sowie!
IT's so odd that nobody knows what lies beyond our graves. There could be something so wonderful, or something horrible. I have never really lost someone in my life but it scares me when you think that the person you are talking to right now will one day die and you will never see them again. |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:33 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
aww im soo sorry you lost a friend. but yea i started to realize that when so many people i love started dying in the same year. makes you appriciate life a little bit more.
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Mar 25 2005, 10:43 PM
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 Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
I am sorry about your friend :o( A friend of mine died in a car accident a few weeks ago too. Her tire blew out and she hit a tree... It's Hard.
I like the quote that you posted but i disagree. I burried my dad in my heart too. I hold everyone that I love there and they will never leave. The best thing to do when a person dies, is to keep their spirit alive in memories. .Never.Forget. R.I.P |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:48 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
the quote...wat its talking about is...u expect ur parents to pass away bfore u but parents dont expect their children to die bfore they do. its more painful if u lose a son or daughter than a parent because it's more unexpected.
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Mar 25 2005, 10:58 PM
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Entropic Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,522 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 25 2005, 10:48 PM) the quote...wat its talking about is...u expect ur parents to pass away bfore u but parents dont expect their children to die bfore they do. its more painful if u lose a son or daughter than a parent because it's more unexpected.  I was going to say that it isn't more painful for me...but i can't say that because i dont have a child to lose. I dunno i'll just be quite x_X |
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Mar 25 2005, 10:59 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Aww. I'm sorry about your friend. :[
I think about death. It scares me, actually. Scares me alot. I don't like to think it.. but then I do know that it's going to happen. we can't run away. |
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Mar 26 2005, 02:56 AM
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I usually don't have sympathy [sp?] for people, but I do for your friend. I'm so so sorry.
It still doesn't make me sorry for other people who have died. I have a reason. |
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Mar 26 2005, 03:13 AM
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aww, sorry vout your friend
yeah, in church the other day they were talking about dying and shizz. scares me... >_< |
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Mar 26 2005, 11:39 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
=( the thought of death scares me. .
im sorry about your friend |
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Mar 26 2005, 11:43 PM
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That's extremely sad. I'm sorry.
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Mar 27 2005, 10:34 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
sigh that's life.... a purpose...
i know how you feel.. you just feel totally weird and lost cause that perosn is your sibling or your relatives or best friends passed away. i mean when i was 3 years old...my grandpa passed away... i couldnt stop saying that i miss him. he was sucha nice and awesome grandpa!! but he died cause this huge rock hit on his head while he was working T_T;;; |
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Mar 27 2005, 10:49 AM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,507 |
yeah.. i`m sorry about your friend.
talking about death, my math teacher died the day before yesterday.. in a car accident.. |
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Mar 27 2005, 10:53 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
sorry about your friend .
ps. the size of the font is really hard to read. |
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Mar 27 2005, 03:57 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i really hate the whole subject of death
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Mar 27 2005, 03:58 PM
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 ˘ž Wanting it. ˘ž Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
=( im sorry about that
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Mar 27 2005, 04:21 PM
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i used to be afraid of death, but then I figured: it doesn't matter, when I die, I'm going to a better place anyway.
and your friend isn't gone...she's always in your heart, no? |
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Mar 27 2005, 04:25 PM
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i'm sorry about your friend
What you said about life and how it's important to fulfill it is really inspiring, thanks.
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Mar 27 2005, 04:37 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
My friend died two weeks ago. I know how you feel.
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Mar 27 2005, 05:00 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
I'm sorry about your friend. What it seems like to me is when an adult dies, you feel like well i guess it was their time, and blah blah blah. But when a fellow student or a child dies, it really makes you think about life & how many opprotunities youve had, and how you could be next.
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Mar 27 2005, 07:12 PM
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I'm sorry about your friend.
Death itself is a scary thought. I always think about death whenever I'm about to go to sleep and wonder, is there an afterlife? Will I still even exist after? Death is very scay to think about >< |
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Mar 27 2005, 07:46 PM
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 jellyfishing, jellyfishing Group: Member Posts: 1,174 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,185 |
That's sad, sorry
Yeah, it does make me think....I have a sort of different perspective of things, but yes, I agree. Life is way too short to be wasting it on things that can get you in trouble or things that just aren't worth doing....
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Mar 31 2005, 12:50 AM
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Sorry about your friend, but at least they will be in a better place now. tey don't have to suffer anymore. My dad died when I was a baby, and then after that, everyone in my famiy started dying. totally know how you feel, but people who ar afraid of death shouldn't be. I can't wait, because then I wll be with God. Also, i will be with the rest of my family. But once again, sorry about your friend. Just know that they probably don't want to see you so sad over them. They will be reborn agin. Yo should be happy. Go celebrate their new life. If you think this is wierd, fine. But i think thatpeople who mourn over others for more time than isresonabl are wierd too. You should honor the deads' good pointsin life and laugh about the good times you had with them. Trust me, it helps with the greivence, and remember, I should know. I am an expert on death and the whole funeral thingy. Anyways, bye. Rock on. oh, and be nice to nature, kiss a beaver.
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Mar 31 2005, 01:09 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 27 2005, 8:53 AM) sorry about your friend . ps. the size of the font is really hard to read. I agree, but the font in general is just really hard to read, color, size, type... But yeah, sorry about your friend. |
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Mar 31 2005, 01:15 AM
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Im sorry for your friend / you / and everyoen that knew him. I hope I can say this, and not get in trouble by atheists (but if a mod or admin says i cant say it please edit then)... God Bless Him.
EDIT: When I die I'll go to a much better place... then here. |
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Mar 31 2005, 01:44 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,889 |
im sorri to here about your friend......ya it kinda gets acary to think about it....i know i really am a scardy cat! hah....
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Apr 30 2005, 12:09 AM
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im sorry about that
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Apr 30 2005, 11:39 AM
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I'm sorry about your friend, but I bet their in good hands now.
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Apr 30 2005, 11:47 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Yeah... I'm sorry. I don't know what to say. I don't know any children that have died but the thing is...
I live in Philly and there are murders on the news almost daily and most of them are between kids and teenagers. I feel so bad for the parents.... 
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Apr 30 2005, 12:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
Sorry to hear that.
I just don't like your line "Don't waste your life being depressed" That really isn't a choice kid. |
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May 1 2005, 02:59 PM
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hope she rest in peace
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May 1 2005, 05:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 452 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,814 |
sorry about your friend.
it hurts alot. my great grandfather died a year or 2 ago. i never got to know him.
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May 1 2005, 05:29 PM
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I'm sorry about your friend
. We humans don't appreciate life enough until we get a reality check. It's good to think about life and how lucky we are, though.
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May 1 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Yeah, I think that everyone takes life for granite. Life is short, and we should enjoy every miniute of it..
Sorry about your friend, and family. |
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May 1 2005, 08:47 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Sorry about your friend.
But it just proves that you need to live life to the fullest everyday because you'll never know when it's gonna end. |
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