Friends Forever (?), What to say wen u want to keep a friend |
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 Mar 25 2005, 02:40 PM
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My BF is hated by all my friends. They walk up to him RANDOMLY and say "Ur not good enough for her" and cruel things like that. At his house his prnts are in and out of the hospital and he has the responsibilities of an adult. I help him by keeping his little bro. entertained over the phone. HE HAS SO MUCH PRESSURE! of having me, his family, my friends. How do I tell my friends to buzz off w/o them getting mad at me??????????
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Mar 25 2005, 02:53 PM
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Well if your friends realli cared about you they would respect your since of judgement on him...and they would trust you..maybe he's not good enough for you...but obviously god sended you to him as a gift...
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Mar 25 2005, 02:55 PM
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explain his responsibilities.
i am shure if they kow the situation they will understand.
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Mar 25 2005, 02:58 PM
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 sydney: I did, even my BFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF doesnt understand!  momobubble: thanx for the comment, it made me smile. |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:05 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Tell them what his life is like, how he has to take care of his little bro and be responsible since his parents are mostly gone...tell them the good traits of your BF and why you like him.
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Mar 25 2005, 04:14 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
One: its your relationship not theirs, and they don't have to keep on bugging him about that. Two:explain to your friends whats going on
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Mar 25 2005, 07:45 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
QUOTE How do I tell my friends to buzz off w/o them getting mad at me?????????? jst tell them to buzz off. it`s not their business & you know they care bout you [or they might be jealous o_o] but its really bugging him so they need to mind thier own beezwax. |
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Mar 25 2005, 09:13 PM
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tell your friends about the stress he already has and they don't have to add the burden for him
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Mar 25 2005, 09:23 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
If your friends really care for you then why are they telling your bf all of this? They really should get their fact right before they say all those rude comments. Hope evrything works out.
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Mar 25 2005, 09:42 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
just tell them that they have no idea wat he's going through rite now...that he has bad family problems n that, unlike them, he has so many responsibilities. tell them to get off his back n stop saying that shit to him cuz u dont appreciate it n that if they actually care about wat u think n if they're really ur friend then they should start talking to him n ACTUALLY get to know him. u should not tell them his whole situation cuz he might not be happy with that. just be more general. they're not realy friends if they're like that.
he has a life n he doesnt need a bunch of girls who gossip n have NO life be going up to him telling him he's not good enough for u. wat is wrong with ur friends n e way? they're so immature. they need to grow up. if they have problems with him they should talk to u. they're not friends with him, they're friends with YOU. if there was something they felt uncomfortable about they should tell u to let u know. |
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Mar 26 2005, 04:04 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(swe3ttemptasian @ Mar 25 2005, 11:14 AM) One: its your relationship not theirs, and they don't have to keep on bugging him about that. Two:explain to your friends whats going on  agreed..tell them to back off a little..they shouldnt be sticking they heads into someone elses business... |
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