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 Mar 25 2005, 10:28 AM
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i remember it was about a year or two? ago when i wrote in
"relationships" about my ex who slept with another gurl. he left after the incident happened and came back last friday. thhe day he came back "our group" met up and ate dinner and had some fun. it was like ol' times. laughing..talking.. after the incident i wanted to show him that i could move on so i just picked a guy and hooked up with him (i'm stubborn) and....well..he did the same. BUT. my relationship didn't last long since i didn't really like the guy..and his lasted up to yesterday. he broke up with her for me. ever since he came back he's been talking to me alot..calling me..talking about our past..and he told me he missed me..and that..he never stopped liking me..that he regrets what he did and regretted every single day while he was gone. he wants to get back with me...i like him. actually i love him. he was my best frend before we hooked up and that helps alot. i forgave and didn't forget. i don't wanna look like a loserr but i think i still have feelings for him. i just don't know i can trust him?? you know the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" should i hook back up with him?... or should i not? . . . 
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Mar 25 2005, 10:37 AM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
Umm thats hard but i think you should give it a try but you gotta check him carefully make sure he isn't talking to any girls and stuff like that.
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Mar 25 2005, 11:59 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's up to you to decide.
 If he cheated on you before, it was his fault...but if he cheats on you again [I'm not saying he will]...it'll be your fault for letting him.  Everyone deserves a second chance, you just have to decide if he's worth the pain if it doesn't work out...again.. 
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Mar 25 2005, 12:04 PM
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 just chillin Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,562 |
i think you should give him another try. if he does it again, well... kill him.... lol
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Mar 25 2005, 12:55 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
I think you should give him a chance
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Mar 25 2005, 07:51 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
i dont think you should hook up with him.
but its really your decision. i mean if he cheated you once, then what`ll stop him for doing it again? but remember fool you once, shame on him. fool you twice, shame on you. |
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Mar 25 2005, 09:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's up to you if you want to or not
like you said, if he cheated once he can do it again. think about it, is it really worth having your heart broken all over again? |
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Mar 26 2005, 12:36 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
if you really like him go ahead.
but just remember, he might cheat on you again. it happened to me. |
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Mar 26 2005, 12:39 AM
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maistakes will be made. it either makes ur love stronger or breaks it apart. the true test is if u can forgive and take him back.
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Mar 26 2005, 01:40 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 25 2005, 2:51 PM) i dont think you should hook up with him. but its really your decision. i mean if he cheated you once, then what`ll stop him for doing it again? but remember fool you once, shame on him. fool you twice, shame on you.  exactly what i was thinking..but its ur choice..if u love him and want to be with him, go for it.. |
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Mar 26 2005, 03:14 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
Truly i'm not sure. You have to make a descion. if you can live with the fact that he cheated on you and you love him then go ahead. if yuo can't forget it and you don't truely love him then give it some time then think about it again. MAke it clear to him what it is you want.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:31 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Sure, why not. You sound like a forgiving person. Go forgive him. If he cheats on you again, go smack him and leave him.
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