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Should I do it or not?, I'm 18 and my boyfriend wants to do.. xx
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:21 PM
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blink.gif My boyfriend and I have been going out for long time and he is askin me if I want to have sex with him.. sure I had a lot of sex but with my boyfriend? I'm kinda scared.. What should I do..?
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:23 PM
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you've had lots of sex before with guys other than your bf?

tsk tsk. abstinence! [sp?] happy.gif
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:24 PM
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well even though I've never had sex I would have to say decide wether or not you realy want to if not tell him yes if so go ahead.
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:25 PM
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If you're ready to, then I guess go for it...
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:32 PM
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Girls give sex for love.
Guys give love for sex.

That's my opinion.
If you arn't a virgin then I don't see why it matters if you have sex with him or not..
you already gave your virginity away anyhow.
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:33 PM
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what the hell? you've had lots of sex but you won't have sex with your own boyfriend? ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:33 PM
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well whats the difference from having sex with other men.....................
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:40 PM
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if you're ready to make babies wink.gif well, actually if you think you can handle all the risks and you KNOW you are ready then i guess yeah
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 10:40 PM
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i agree...u had sex with other ppl but not ur bf..thats kinda strange to me..if u r ready, go for it..if u arent dont..
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 11:25 PM
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you have had sex s lot but not with your bf?
i dont get you.
anyways, do it when you're ready
 
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post Mar 24 2005, 11:53 PM
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post Mar 25 2005, 12:07 AM
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that is just weird. your logic really does NOT make sense.
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 12:14 AM
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If you are ready to have sex then go for it but dont let him force you into doing it...
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 12:18 AM
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don't let him force you. wait it out a while until you're totally comfortable with him. don't rush into anything if you're not ready.. just tell him to give you some time
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 06:49 AM
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Mar 24 2005, 11:28 PM)
wtf, so uve had sex with other boys beside ur bf? and u dont wanna do it with HIM?!

wtf. ur twisted.
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if you really want to then go for it, you already lost your virginity anyways.
if you're not ready then don't _dry.gif
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 06:50 AM
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if ur ready for pregnancy or STDs and all that crap, then go for it!!!! *Thumbs up to you!*
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 08:19 AM
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if you're ready, and you really trust him, then go ahead i guess
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 09:06 AM
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post Mar 25 2005, 10:20 AM
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Have sex with other guys? YES!!!


Have sex with your boyfriend? EEP!! NEVER!!!



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Seriously, though. Why are you having seconds thoughts about it? Chances are if you have to think twice, you shouldn't do it.


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post Mar 25 2005, 04:17 PM
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If you're asking other people whether you should have sex or not, chances are you're not ready to do it with your BF [ though you've done it with other guys...] or the fact that you don't want to do it and you're just waiting for an excuse to help you decide that you don't want to have sex with your BF. The decision to do it or not isn't a really big deal since it's not like it's your first time....what I don't get....is how you have had sex with other guys but you're not sure if you want to have sex with your BF or not.... mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 04:23 PM
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Err, you've had sex with other guys but not your boyfriend? Well, if you think you're ready it's up to you. But he shouldn't have to force it on you, you both should want to.
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 04:25 PM
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goin thru tha same thing..
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 04:30 PM
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eeek!! if you have had lots of sex why should it matter...(coming from a virgin) what the hell if you love him go ahead...hate him...dump him.
just make sure you use a condom and dont do it in the shower!
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 04:31 PM
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that doesnt make sense..you`ve had sex with other guys but you are worried about doing it with your bf?? theres some irony there..i think you should do whatever you feel is right..and only you can decide how you feel and what you want to do..no one can tell you whats right or wrong or how you should feel or anything..
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 07:47 PM
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if you are not comfterble then dont do it... 12 days after your period you CANT get pregnat so you can do it on one of those 12 days and you wouldnt have to worry about gettting pregnant..or the other choice is that you can have oral but im sure he doesnt want to do that
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Mar 24 2005, 10:33 PM)
what the hell?  you've had lots of sex but you won't have sex with your own boyfriend? ermm.gif
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I agree, I was confused, If you had sex with other guys why is it so weird to with your own boyfriend?
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 10:37 PM
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12 days after your period you CANT get pregnat so you can do it on one of those 12 days and you wouldnt have to worry about gettting pregnant..


You are dead wrong! who informed you anyway? whoever it was, they are a dumbass. You can always get pregnant, any time of the month. Stupid little kid. Don't post abot things you dont know about because crap like that can mess up some ones life.
 
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post Mar 25 2005, 10:41 PM
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O_o i find it kinda strange that youve had sex with other guys but are unsure if u wanna do it with your bf. well um if you're ready then do it
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 02:31 AM
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it's weird.....
how can u have lots of sex wiv guys other than ur bf??
just go and do what u want....
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 02:37 AM
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post Mar 26 2005, 04:07 AM
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Girls give sex for love.
Guys give love for sex.

That's my opinion.
If you arn't a virgin then I don't see why it matters if you have sex with him or not..
you already gave your virginity away anyhow.



i agree.. and plus u can get AIDS, and other shit!
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 12:16 PM
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go for it!!!!!!!!! you only live once right? why not have fun
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 12:33 PM
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post Mar 26 2005, 01:04 PM
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guys everyone has to stop asking why shes saying shes had sex with other men besides her boyfriend cause i read this thread and 2/3s of it isnt even helping her its just saying wtf why are u havin--etc, etc, blah. besides shes not even answering so, idk what to say. im not helping either cause i cant help.
 
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post Mar 26 2005, 01:18 PM
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I think that she means that she had sex with other guys because she didnt care about them or love them, they were just one night stands or w.e..idk if this is right, but I could feel this way too. If she loves her boyfriend and she doesnt want anything to ruin her relationship..then why would she want to have sex? With the other guys, it didnt matter...idk

but yea..if you`re ready then go for it
 
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