my mom gets mad a lot ..., because i'm flat. Options

[ichiban]

I try talking to her about it and telling her that I'm only twelve, but she still always gets all pissed. she goes and blames my dad for not telling me to drink a lot of milk when i was little because that's supposed to make em grow? and yeah she keeps saying i'll never get married becasue i'm all flat .. and .. yeah.

[ItzOnlySydney]

wow what a bitch.

[*salcha*]

wow, tough mom.
well, you'll tell her when you get more developed, right?
she'll get over it, i hope
and plus, isn't it genetic? doesnt that mean your mom is flat too?

[danishcookiez]

wow, thats terrible. hm, well, you're only 12, don't mind her. =)
i guess you can drink some milk to make her happy, besides milk is good for your bones, can't hurt.

[charanjust4yu]

wow my mom doesnt care how i look i think

[inthemudhole]

Jeez.
There's nothing you can do about it!

If you ask me, that's a pretty dumb reason to get mad over..

[Shattered_Hope]

Tell her to be smart. and if she doesn't then to stop lecturing you. I dont think milk will make them grow. Puberty will though. You're 12..give it time.

[*lolita kitty*]

wow, tough mom.
well, you'll tell her when you get more developed, right?
she'll get over it, i hope
and plus, isn't it genetic? doesnt that mean your mom is flat too?

no. my boobs are average... a bit small
while my moms are huge

and thats rude of your mom to get mad. of all people judging you by your looks, your MOM?

[Pulchritude]

thats hella messed up.. hearing that from your parents that they are mad cuz your flat.. some people mature way later than others.. dont worry you got all the way to like 16 to mature

[WhiteLotus*]

Duude, your Mom is like...

She shouldn't get mad over that. That's just...



Ask her when her boobs starting growing.

[lakerfever2476]

OMG!! That's so mean!! Well, just .... don't mind. It's not something you can control.

[FireArrow]

Wow... is she flat? maybe like she doesnt want you to feel the same experience..? or maybe she doesnt want to be embrassed to have a 12 years old daughter that is flat 8-)

[gigiopolis]

She gets mad at you because you're flat? Wow. What a stab to a girl's self-esteem. But then again, my mom tells me I won't be able to find a husband because I'm dirty and always forget to pick up dirty tissues and stuff. But at least I can control that...but the growth of breasts? That's going too far.

[HoodieObsessed]

Tha'ts awful. what a horrible mom! ....I'm flat, so is my mom...I mean obviusly my mom is'n't falt anymore, but she's got resnobly small boobs fro her age...hmm, so I'll be small all my life, but I Really don't care, I don't ahve to worry about bonking into ppl with my boobs an stuff YAY!

[HoodieObsessed]

no. my boobs are average... a bit small
while my moms are huge

and thats rude of your mom to get mad. of all people judging you by your looks, your MOM?

ya, you can inherit it from your dad's side too...but it is genetic, you probably just got your dad's jenes...hmm, I deffinitly got my moms, my dad's side of the family has huge boobs, my mom's side all like all flattish

[yukichan]

wow...strange...give it some time..and i dont think milk has anything to do with that...

[*wind&fire*]

is your mum deeply traditonal?

[*lolita kitty*]

ya, you can inherit it from your dad's side too...but it is genetic, you probably just got your dad's jenes...hmm, I deffinitly got my moms, my dad's side of the family has huge boobs, my mom's side all like all flattish 

ahahaha! i thought you meant you could inherit your dads boobs... ... haha... thats funny... ahem, sorry

[Nicolatofu]

haha not drinking milk??
That doesn't really help your breasts grow... some women could drink a gallon a day and it wouldn't help any.. I can't believe your mom would say such things to you. Don't listen to her. There are guys out there who will like you not because of your chest, but because you're who you are. I wouldn't pay much attention to your mom. And depending on how old you are, they may not be done growing.

[someflipguy]

Haha! Don't worry about her, if you were meant to have big boobs than you will get them!

[karrar]

HAHAHAHAHAH Hilarious , hmmm get em plastic.

[nicky04033]

ur mum is mean.....ur only 12..... u still have time to grow=)~~~

[ilauqh]

wow she's really mean... she has no right to say that and ur 12.. u have time. don't listen to her bc she's so wrong by what she's saying.

[[[trOpIcaL]] kiS...]

wow, thtz...weird. i'm 12, kinda flat, whatcha gonna do about it, ya kno?

[NyteRyder]

shouldnt she be happy youre flat? big boobs = guys wanting to touch them

[HUNNNAY]

wtf?

[parallel]

Wow..what a Mom..that's not right..don't listen to her put-downs..your mom should respect you and how you are..gosh!

[yeseulx3]

then ask her to pay for your implants. maybe that'll shut her up.

i heard drinking sprite makes your boobies bigger.

[HUNNNAY]

i heard drinking sprite makes your boobies bigger.

rofl i doubt it.

[UrF4vL!pGl0Z...]

your MOM!?
Well, for one I think shes TOTALLY out of line for saying that. maybe next time she says that you should be like "Mom I'm sorry you dont like my boobs get over it" or make fun of her. Then laugh if you need a counsler because your mom made you have low self esteem. Just wait, your boobs shall arrive. then you can shove it in her face.
(sorry about all the banter, that just really makes me mad.)

[smilePiNAYstyle]

that is messed up. it's ok i was flat when i was twelve and now i'm .. decent. but yeah just dont mind her

[_sarcastic_]

that's just a weird reason for her to get mad at you, reason out with her, tell her your only just starting puberty. ask her to get over it

[jennyjenny]

Wow, what the hell is her problem?

I just...
wow...

you can't control the way your boobs grow, they just do...
you still have like 3 years anyways.

wow.

[tinababy143]

i`m sorry but thats odd..i dont really know what to say about that..im sorry that you have to deal with your mom being like that..but i dont think there is anything that can speed up puberty..not even drinking milk! haha..i HATE milk and i turned out fine =P

[love-issosweet]

what?! your mom shouldn't care about your looks at all, she should love you no matter what

it must be frustrating to have a mom like that, sorry you have to deal with that

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well just be like Mom one day mine are going to bigger than yours and guess what?!?!?...your not going to be soOo happy than either..soOo enjoy it while mine are small and yours are big!!!...and Mom stop checkin me out I like dudes!!!....

[sunissed14127]

Wow, Your mom is a bitch. She needs to understand that you will grow at your own pace.

[AngelTears]

I think thats the stupidest thing I've ever heard of a mom getting mad over..

Your 12, your not going to be fully developed yet..

I'd talk to your dad and have him tell her to lay off, just because your flat has nothing to do with if a guy will marry you or not! And she really shouldnt be so worried on your physicle aparence anyways.

It not like you can control it or your dad can! You grow when you grow! Have you looked at actresses these days? Most of them have nothing! I have friends that are 13 with more of a chest than them.

[whatiismae]

haha thats really sad that your mom gets so angry, esp when you're just 12!! tell her that you have plenty of time to grow and that shouldnt she be ashamed for not giving you milk too? why is she just blaming your dad? maybe your mom is flat and she's trying to live through you. which is a weird way for her to accomplish that.. what, does she want you to be a whore so you can come home and spill the details with her so she doesnt feel as old? thats creepy.

[swe3ttemptasian]

only twelve? you've got a long way to go. Don't stress on it... she's just being a b****

[Brneydgrl]

sry, i posted twice

[Brneydgrl]

yeah, you're 12, they'll grow blah blah blah.

what you should realize is that there is something wrong with your mom, not you. does she always pick on you about these types of things?

i don't know about your home life, but if picking on you like that is a daily thing, when you're only 12, sounds like emotional abuse. if she gets you down a lot like this, why not try talking to a guidance conselor at school, or a teacher? someone you can trust

life is hard enough, your parents should be ones you lean on, not be afraid of getting picked on

[perdyperdybirdy]

does she realize...that'd be sorta bad? if ur husband only married u cause ur boobs?...personality duddddeeeeee.

[bravodancer04]

I try talking to her about it and telling her that I'm only twelve, but she still always gets all pissed. she goes and blames my dad for not telling me to drink a lot of milk when i was little because that's supposed to make em grow? and yeah she keeps saying i'll never get married becasue i'm all flat .. and .. yeah.

wtf thats just wrong i think

[x0xpaulax0x]

wow, thats terrible. hm, well, you're only 12, don't mind her. =)
i guess you can drink some milk to make her happy, besides milk is good for your bones, can't hurt.

um....i hate to breake it to you guys but milk is BAD im SERIOUS it DOESNT help your bones AT ALL i read it in a book and really, its not healthy to drink another animals milk, i mean really! its ok to drink every now-and-then but dont over do it, its not that good, just telling you the truth, and dont worry, im 12 and im not "all developed" either!

[sportschick1]

wow. very diff from most moms but your 12 they'll grow more i just she just a hard mom

[megan_x3]

dont worrii. i didn't drink milk all my life. =) and it all depends whether your body is mature enough for you breast to grow. =/ you shouldn't be wanting to have periods too.

[pinayprincess]

dude, its ya moms f*kin fault that yaz is flat, she shouldnt be blamin nobody but her self... wut a f*kin b!tch...

[asiangurl913]

wow ur moms mean. im 14 and im still flat. and i dont think drinking lots of milk will help much.

[Litt0_TeeZy]

shouldnt she be happy youre flat? big boobs = guys wanting to touch them

yeah that's true...but dude. milk helping your boobs grow? i've never heard that one......you should be glad you don't have boobs. your mom should be too. boobs can give you breast cancer, back problems, etc. trust me i know. with D's....it SUCKS ASS. i really hope i never have any problems.

maybe you should tell your mom to back off...people grow at their own rates...and i know how it is to have your mom bug you about crap...my mom says i'm too fat and that my boobs keep growing kuz i'm fat...half true, but not really...boobs grow kuz that's how life is? lol. i dunno >.< life is a big puzzle to me.

[aznxdreamer]

sounds like a fat trailer park mom.

[angelrevelation]

wow that is SO mean!!! i mean, you may be flat NOW but you're only 12!!! you might like just suddenly blow up! and you'll grow em eventually, and if they aren't that big, who cares. guys arent worth it if they just like you because of your chest and i'd be embarassed if my mom was talking about that stuff with my dad...

[GodsBrokenAngel0...]

Jeez.
There's nothing you can do about it!

If you ask me, that's a pretty dumb reason to get mad over.. 

I agree, really dumb!!!
x3
Kristin aka Angel

[wincyyellow]

flat is a problem?
i dunt think so

[onemanshow]

shouldnt she be happy youre flat? big boobs = guys wanting to touch them

and increase danger..

[wishesanddreams]

when i was 12 i was pretty flat too
once u become 13-14 or when u get ur period, they started growing really fast
tell ur mom that she needs to stop being such a a-hole, u cant just tell ur body to grow just like that, i mean that is sooooo lame.

[teeners4]

you're 12. i didnt develop until i was 13 xP

[*mzkandi*]

your mom shouldnt say things like, some girls dont develop until they are as old as 16 and 17. dont let what you mom is saying worry you

[*xcaitlinx*]

ok...am i messed up? i have big boobs and my parents wish i didnt b/c guys think im older. w/e....your mom is definitely strange.

[xbr0kensmil3]

woa you're still 12, you got a few more years. your mom shouldn't be pissed cuz you're flat. every girl was flat once.

[~Shades of Grey~]

when i was 12 i was pretty flat too
once u become 13-14 or when u get ur period, they started growing really fast
tell ur mom that she needs to stop being such a a-hole, u cant just tell ur body to grow just like that, i mean that is sooooo lame.

Same, and I can't believe you MOM of all people would say that. Like brother, sister, friend maybe but MOM. Wow that's just mean.... it's evil ...

[ch33sylici0us]

Uhh.. why does your mom even care if you have b00bs or not? Does she want you to have more attention? Anyway - for goodness sake your 12! 12! I didn't start having anything till i turned 13! And, no it doesn't have anything to do with milk..beliiieeve me. I drink 3 glasses of milk a day - and if you were to ever look at my chest..well i think you get the picture.

sheesh..

[SimplicityGirl]

Milk has nothing to do with it. I drink at least 2 cups of milk everyday from when I was..8 til now. I'm 17, and my boobs are at 32A...if your Mom keeps on making an issue out of it...tell her that you don't like it.

[`SWTWiNKLE3YES]

HAHAHAHAHAH Hilarious , hmmm get em plastic.

lmaooo don`t worry ur still growing. just like tell ur mom to SHUT UP! (well not in that manner ..) i mean u shud be comfortable to be at YOUR house.

[EmmalieV]

tell her that her boobs are small too. wtf .

[yellowgurl]

Haha!  Don't worry about her, if you were meant to have big boobs than you will get them!

ya.. dont wrry abt it.. try talking to ur mom ^^ maybe?

[xwifeyd]

why does your mom care how u look?

[Oranite]

I try talking to her about it and telling her that I'm only twelve, but she still always gets all pissed. she goes and blames my dad for not telling me to drink a lot of milk when i was little because that's supposed to make em grow? and yeah she keeps saying i'll never get married becasue i'm all flat .. and .. yeah.

Just because your flat doesn't mean anything bad at all... Does you mom know that or is she soo ignorant that she only believes that guys like girls only cus they have a nice rack...

[sammehmyst]

Hm.
You should tell your mom that it's a known fact that it's not incredibly normal to have 34D's at 12 years old.

[Angel_Cece]

dang. why does she care? itsnt that your body. woahhhhhhhhhhhhhh way too controlling

[teaspoondesigns]

I try talking to her about it and telling her that I'm only twelve, but she still always gets all pissed. she goes and blames my dad for not telling me to drink a lot of milk when i was little because that's supposed to make em grow? and yeah she keeps saying i'll never get married becasue i'm all flat .. and .. yeah.

Well.... for starters, your mom's a bitch.

You'll grow, don't worry. And I don't know about milk helping girls' breats to grow . And about the marriage thing, don't even worry about it. I know that at least I don't go for looks only. It shouldn't matter if the guy really likes you. If your mom is actually harassing you, talk to an adult at school, or call the police if it's really bad.

It would be like my dad blaming my mom for my balls not dropping until I was 13. Wow. Give it time, lady.

[teaspoondesigns]

Hm.
You should tell your mom that it's a known fact that it's not incredibly normal to have 34D's at 12 years old.

Haha, that's a little funny. I don't know why.

[bravodancer04]

wtf?

ok..wouldnt this be considered spam?

[xoStephie93]

wow...ur mom's mean.... (no offense) and i seriously don't think milk would do any good, but if it'll make ur mom happy................ go right ahead! but i mean, out of all the people to say this.. UR MOM!?!?! WTF!?!?! i'm 12 and i'm... normal but my mom doesn't say those things to me...

[blah1234567]

thats kinda mean...when you get older...youll prove her! :)

[midnitestarz]

thats mean! u r 12 damnit! she should understand that

[HotStuffff09]

wow what a bitch.

thats so rude, you dont call someones mom a bitch. If my mom was still LIVING and someone called her a bitch I would be so f**king mad. Anyways, I dunno try calming her down. and DRINK UR MILK
haha jk

[zbrittanyz]

Ewww...
She shouldn't get mad at you because your body doesn't meet her standards. And you're 12? You've got so much time! Just ignore her ridiculously harsh comment.

[Looow]

Gosh what is the world is wrong with your mom?
Stupidest thing I've ever heard

[HelloSunshine]

Wow your mom seems..blaah. Gosh. She shoudln't care. Tell her your only 12, what are you suppose to do? Wth does she want, to you have supper big ones? =/

[whywasisostupid]

flat as in boob wise?

wow. that sucks.

[tmauze]

aw i'm so sorry! there's nothing you can do or could've done to change them! that sucks, moms are supposed to be the people that encourage you no matter how much you suck.

[CandiedChaos]

I've got to say, if you're mom is angry because you're "flat" chested and you are 12 years of age, she's behaving totally incompetent.

An adult, having experienced adolescence, should be sympathetic to the changes your body have and will make!

I'll be 18 in June. I had no boobs when I was 12, going into 7th grade. Hardly an A. Nobody in my family expected me to be big-chested, and i had made the resolution that however small I ended up I'd accept myself. Let's just say that within 2-3yrs I became the utter and total opposite of flat chested --and I'm not saying it brag, i'm saying that i'm so NOT flat chested enough that I have a never-ending back ache (which sux btw, please don't wish it on yourself! ) Obviously, that doesn't happen to every girl. I just wanted to point out that it's entirely possible for you to develop a larger bust further into your adolescence, so your mother shouldn't be ragging on you!

I am also pretty sure that milk has nothing to do with breast growth, it's a matter of genetics.

Many mother's are hard on their daughters, mine is on me too, but for different reasons. It's part of the hell that is adolescence. YAYYYYYYYYYY! ..and some of them don't stop there unfortunately, my mom won't, trust me.

So just remember you are never alone!

<33 Ash

[the_crox]

ooohh... harsh.... geez.
I mean my mom's all freaky about who i am, but not about my boobs... she's so evil.

[*mona lisa*]

get some hormone shots. that *might* help.

[mayb2moro112]

Jeez, you're only 12, you still have a lot of time to grow! How can she get mad at you for something like that? If your mom keeps throwing that at you, blame her for the genes.

[xXirockhardXx]

Thats really mean of your mom. She shouldnt get mad at you becassue your flat chested. Its not your fault. I think your mom needs to chill.

[HotStuffff09]

who gives a shit. its the truth. would u be happy if ur mother got pissed at u cuz u were flat?

god.

what a bitch.

fcuk you Im not the bitch. and No I wouldnt know I guess because my mom DIED. God, it is mean that ur moms getting mad because ur boobs arent big or w/e but that girl shouldnt have called her a bitch. Its not her buisness.
w/e

[qoddesscheeks]

wth that`s ridiculous. tell her it`s all her fault that she didn`t give u the genes for big breasts.

[TheSpoon]

your mom gets mad at you cuz your flat? just ignore her. she's bein bitchy

[lolthissiteisfun...]

goodness! that's not fun!! oh well just ignore it. like i was practically flat until like 8th or 9th grade, and you're only 12! don't worry about it!

[angelrevelation]

fcuk you Im not the bitch. and No I wouldnt know I guess because my mom DIED. God, it is mean that ur moms getting mad because ur boobs arent big or w/e but that girl shouldnt have called her a bitch. Its not her buisness.
w/e

but it WAS true... you might as well as get mad at 99% of the ppl who posted on this topic

[somekhmergirl]

thats kinda mean dude.im not flat.and im younger then you.you just have to wait to get developed.i mean a drank a lotta milk when i was lil so yeah lol

[Joss-eh-lime]

at 12, i hardly even thought about that...im 13 now!
but yea ur mom dont need to worry bout that. its kinda ur problem now.

[Laotian_Doll]

geeshh...mean mom!!! i'm sorry...maybe u'll grow faster so ur mom will be happy!

[xxtaintedlips]

wow thats harsh!

[*liquidize*]

great parents you have...

[IamRad]

shouldnt she be happy youre flat? big boobs = guys wanting to touch them

i know really...what kind of mother says that

[O x LiseE x O]

Tell your mother you cannot help it, and what happens, happens. And your mom has to remeber, she is the one of the people who pass on the genes. So part of it is her fault. But who cares, your 12! I'm 13 and I'm... not developed :( *SNiFFLE* I'm like 34C... maybe a bit smaller. ;[

[_time2fly]

wow...