The longest time, it ever took you to get over someone |
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 Mar 17 2005, 10:48 PM
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 I watch you while you sleep.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685  |
How long was the longest time it ever took you to get over someone (they could be a lover, a dead relative, etc)?
What type of relationship did you have with them? What I mean by "getting over someone" is: to stop missing them, or to fall out of love with them. xo, Pauline |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:49 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
let me see...maybe a month at tops...i always go cold turkey when i need to get over someone, i don't see him, talk to him, i try not to think about him, nothing
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Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Ugh, about 3 months.
>_> <--Lamer. |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM
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hmm, my grandmother died last year, and I'm still not over that.
I still feel kinda guilty cuz I never really got close to her...she's been in a hospital for as long as I could remember. |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,653 |
im still trying to get over someone...but i know i'll eventually get over it...
but when my grandfather died...it took awhile...i still kind of miss him from time to time... |
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Mar 17 2005, 10:58 PM
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about 10 months...or a year....time seems to blend together...bleh
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Mar 17 2005, 10:59 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I dont get over them until they leave or I never seem them again.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:02 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, well about a year now...
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Mar 17 2005, 11:04 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Um, well not that long really. I'd say around a couple months. Yeah, nothing serious really happened to me.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
a year; not terribly long.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:09 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
a year and a half or so.
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Mar 18 2005, 12:00 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
crushes: longest - 4 years
deaths- 6 of them. i havent gotten over any. one of the deaths was a current boyfriend. i still love him. all of the deaths were friends. nobody i knew in my family has died |
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Mar 18 2005, 01:39 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
one year six months. i hope.
i sure hope i get over her now. i think i am... i'm going to go listen to yellowcard's one year, six months. 
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Mar 18 2005, 01:44 PM
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well i still havent gotten over him. and we broke up almost two years ago. but we talk on the phone almost everyday and he still isnt over me either. and we havent fallen out of love with eachother. so i dont really know. yea im lame, leave me alone.
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Mar 18 2005, 01:46 PM
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 <3 Deanna Leigh Irene <3 Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,326 |
 It took me a while to get over my ex-boyfriend, about six months. It sucked.
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Mar 18 2005, 01:52 PM
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well i feel completely head over heels for this one guy in november of last year and everytime i think i am over him i see his face and it's back to square one.
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Mar 18 2005, 02:09 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
I'm still not over them so I can't say. At times months have gone by and I've tried desperately to convince myself that I'm over them, but I know it's not true. But yeah, I guess it would be like 3 years now. Pathetic, I know.
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Mar 18 2005, 04:45 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I never completely get over people who have made an impact in my life in some ways. There was always that reason why i liked them in the first place, and that doesn't go away just because maybe we didn't work out or something.
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Mar 18 2005, 04:47 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
ugh, even if you think you're over it, sometimes its just not the same anymore and you still get jittery around them even if you dont like them anymore. at least thats how it is with me and my old crush. and i dont think i like him anymore..
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Mar 18 2005, 11:01 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Like 2 months.
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Mar 19 2005, 02:21 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
about 2 years to get over/stop liking a crush.... that was the longest
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Mar 19 2005, 02:23 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
honestly..its been about 17 years..i met him in preschool, we were best friends, had all the same classes throughout elementary, middle and high school..we went out 7th-9th grade..we broke up and i havent gotten over him yet..but i also think its because of the fact that he was my first love..and you never forget your first love..
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Mar 19 2005, 03:23 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
it took me about 2 days to forget him. he was a jerk.
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Mar 19 2005, 03:34 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
this one guy took me around ... seven months. he really did turn into a jerk. man i still remember those times in elementary school when we were best friends. but everyone changes so, whatever.
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Mar 19 2005, 03:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Um... a guy... never really been with him, but I've been trying to get over him for more than 4 months... still going..
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Mar 19 2005, 11:42 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
To get over a crush maybe about 3-6 months. Getting over someone who died i dont think you can ever get over someone who died. But yeah i wouldnt know becasue i dont know anybody who died or maybe i did but i wasent related or something like that.
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Mar 19 2005, 01:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,933 |
um from time to time I miss my grandpa who died a year ago
I still miss my first boyfriend, though we broke up months ago but mostly I still miss my best friend who commited suicide when I was 11.... I guess I don't really get over people too well... |
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Mar 19 2005, 01:21 PM
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 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
i have no idea, well, i had a crush on someone for about 9 months, and i never told him (stupid thing), it took me about 2 months to get over it
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Mar 19 2005, 01:38 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
around 10 months....
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Mar 19 2005, 02:03 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago...and I am still not completely over him. With crushes...I can usually get over them in a couple of weeks to a month but with him it's so different...or maybe because he was my first "real" bf and love, and you can never really quite get over your first love...
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Mar 19 2005, 02:54 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,460 |
I don't think I really did get over this one chick...
I think that it's like... 3 years now? Wow I am such a loser... |
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Mar 19 2005, 05:05 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
ummm idk...its not that i don't love him anymore, it's just a different love.
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Mar 20 2005, 12:22 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
took me a year.
we went out for 9 months. he cheated. |
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Mar 20 2005, 01:00 AM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
last yr it took me like 5 months 2 get ovr this one guy ...
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Mar 20 2005, 01:06 AM
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hmm...a year or something like that. i don't know exactly.
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Mar 20 2005, 02:12 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
longest i took was about 6 months
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Mar 20 2005, 10:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,951 |
took a wasted hour crying over my ex who i broke off with then i was over it, cuz he treated me like shit for 3 years on n off so it was a relief to finally be "free" from someone like him (long story) but if i ever broke up with my current bf who im serious with, id take forever.. cant live without him
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Mar 20 2005, 12:38 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
Still waiting so far its been about a year.
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Mar 20 2005, 02:35 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
o jeez...a couple days? i never had to get over my first love but...there were guys here n there but nothing more serious than my first love...still with him actually.
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Mar 20 2005, 03:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
mann it took me a while tto get over me nd my bf's break up, untill my feelingz juz took ova [[again]] nd we waz bakk together... but wen it waz ova my crush, it took lyk two months !! --b/c he neva came bak to my skool, but we keppt in touch online
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Mar 21 2005, 02:05 AM
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 *.'.'._gillie_.'.'.* Group: Member Posts: 563 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,217 |
the longest it took me to get over a crush was like 2 years..lol and to get over an ex..well that dusnt take long cuz they usually do sumthin to piss me off and then thats the end of that
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Mar 21 2005, 02:56 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
do friends count?
if they do, more than five years..i still miss them and its been about 5 years... heartbroken...about 3-5 months... |
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Mar 21 2005, 03:54 AM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
well.. i really dont have the longest cause im still in love with the person... its been like 9 or 10 months now. Our relationship was steady at first then i started realizing he barely calls me back and hes always gone so i asked my best friend to go look what hes up to((she lived next door)) and she told me there was another girl there and they where making out, so i guess it was a cheating realationship, but everytime i talk to him hes soo sweet to me, but hopefully soon ill get over him.
x3 Angel |
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Mar 21 2005, 11:36 AM
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NyteRyder Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,348 |
QUOTE(PAULiNE_x @ Mar 17 2005, 9:48 PM) How long was the longest time it ever took you to get over someone (they could be a lover, a dead relative, etc)? What type of relationship did you have with them? What I mean by "getting over someone" is: to stop missing them, or to fall out of love with them. xo, Pauline  She was my best friend/biggest crush. She had a boyfriend but me and her were closer than they were. One day, she told him how close we were(we just talked. Nothing physical) and he snapped. Few days later, she said we should stop being friends cuz she loves him..... It took about the whole summer to get over her. Now, i dont even think about her. even though her locker is next to mine at school. |
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Mar 21 2005, 12:01 PM
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 2 words: YES Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,346 |
there was this one girl i was in like love with but she stopped liking me and it took me like months to get over her
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