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 Mar 13 2005, 07:29 PM
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Ok....i have this BIIIGGG crush on this guy but hes 6 yrs older than me!!!!!! Hes really sweet and nice. what do i do!? i think thats a big age difference...but all i can think about is him! i dont no what to do!! please leave advice
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Mar 13 2005, 07:37 PM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866 |
That seems a little old, but if you really like him i suppose it won't matter all that much when you two are both older. Have you talked to him yet? Talk to him and get to be close friends with him - know him well before you jump into a relationship. Also, be careful if you end up more than friends with him - older guys tend to take advantage of younger girls, especially if they know you like them. Alright, hope that helps.
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Mar 13 2005, 07:37 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you should come clean if you like him that much. And all you think about is him. Tell him how you feel...but just remember that it's not guaranteed that he'll like you back. So in the end it's up to you. You can not tell him and never know what could've happened or you can just tell him...and risk the consequences that could be unfavorable.
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Mar 13 2005, 07:47 PM
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I wanna get to know him and stuff but im scared he might not wanna talk to me cause of the age diff. Its very awkward..so this is really hard
We dont really live in the same place..so this makes it even harder >_< |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well age doesn't matter when in comes to relationships. ok fine, 6 years is a pretty big gap.
well if you really wanna talk to him then whenever you meet him, just talk about random stuff, things you have in common, or the weather T_T but get to know him first, then see if he's really worth going after |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:50 PM
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ToOo old girly...don't do it..juss don't do it...please we do not need another Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore situation...if you realli like him ask him cuz he prolly think of you as his little sister!!!..
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Mar 13 2005, 09:59 PM
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 Rock out X3 Group: Member Posts: 319 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,317 |
I like a guy 2 years younger. Your age difference is bigger but people seem o think girls should datee only older guys. I say fck that and follow your heart.
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Mar 13 2005, 10:09 PM
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 bad apple Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,009 |
6 years isnt that big of a gap. if you really like him, go and talk to him. what's the worst that can happen? him telling you he doesnt have the same feeligns for you? you'll survive, be stronger in the end and still be you. age is just merely a number, dont let that influence your judgements on whom you like and why. good luck!
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Mar 13 2005, 10:20 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
If he's older then 18, honestly, he might not even be interested in you. Most guys do not like dating girls who have that much of an age difference with a girl, or even want to date someone who isn't legal for sex.
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Mar 13 2005, 10:21 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
6 years isnt that big of a gap but it depends how old you are .. its better if you get to known him first because he can be wayy older than you and not turn out to be the guy you think he was .. ..
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Mar 13 2005, 10:34 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
QUOTE(SHAWTY_TOYA @ Mar 13 2005, 10:21 PM) 6 years isnt that big of a gap.  I think it is. But anyhow, just tell him how you feel. See how things go from there. ;) |
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Mar 13 2005, 10:40 PM
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only thing i would tell yu is...good luck-lol u'll need it.i never saw guyz like grlz that big of a age difference
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Mar 13 2005, 10:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
well, that is the thing with on of my friends. although its a 4 year age gap. I say dont because hes probably over 18 (depending on your age) and they just want in your pants..... because thats what that one guy did to my friend. I say its to much.
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Mar 13 2005, 11:01 PM
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it depends....is he 18? then if he is then no
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Mar 16 2005, 03:19 PM
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 shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
He probably might not feel the same for you..i mean you might be like a little sister to him, you know?
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