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 Mar 13 2005, 04:07 PM
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 blah  Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663  |
omg, my best friends boyfriend is the biggest jerk ever! he is so sweet to her, but then a total ass to ALL her friends...including me! and then he says it is only because of his grampa dieing...but he has been like this even before that. i am so mad, and my friend doesnt even really care about it. that is what reallly pisses me off.
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Mar 13 2005, 04:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Why don't you confront her about it? and tell her that it's p*ssing you off.
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Mar 13 2005, 04:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,745 |
that's sucky. Maybe he gets confused about how to act around her friends, just because guys are like that sometimes. Try to talk to your friend about it, and if she doesn't do anything, talk to him... or do that backwards.
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Mar 13 2005, 04:25 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
i did...i did it again and again. it sucks. its my friend first boyfriend so she wont. it is horrible. i really hate this kid. and he is ruining my friends and my friendship
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Mar 13 2005, 04:26 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Tell her he's an ass
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Mar 13 2005, 05:06 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
Tell your friend how you feel and then if she doesn't want to do anything about it or doesn't really care. Then give them some space. She'll eventually see him for who he really is and then she'll most likely apologize to you. Things will work out, trust me. I've been through this one before. Good luck. =)
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Mar 13 2005, 05:22 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
do all her friends think this way? or is it just u? maybe he just really irks u. who knows. talk to her about it if it really bothers u. and u kno, if she won't listen, fine. her fault, her loss.
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Mar 13 2005, 06:15 PM
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 KUH - rasy . Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,456 |
you can tell her, or you can jst ignore him & his rude comments (;
i mean, its not like you have to be his girlfriend. dont let him ruin your friendship, cause he`s not worth it. but maybe he jst doesnt want his gf to think he`s cheating on her. so he acts taht way.. to scare you guys off ? iono 
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Mar 13 2005, 06:37 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
tell her. if she doesnt go with you, then she's a bad friend. if she does, tell her to talk to her bf about it.
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Mar 13 2005, 06:58 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Tell her how it makes you feel... I'm kinda in this same situation, but I'm a real b*tch to my boyfriend's friends...
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Mar 13 2005, 07:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
de-ja-vuu (spelled right?)
Dont fret. Just tell your friend calmly what hes doing to you and her, and how mean he is. (back yourself up with examples). If she doesnt listen, like most people probably wont. Then let her figure out for herself. I'm sure she'll see afterwards how stupid it was and be like "  what was I thinking!?! " and help her through her "get over" stage.>>Be the hero!<< |
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Mar 13 2005, 07:40 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^dejavu
try talking to your friend about her shitty boyfriend. if he can't respect her friends, then he probably won't respect her. |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:06 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
try talking to him or her about it again. if not, there isn't much you can do since you're friend won't listen just aviod him
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Mar 13 2005, 08:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
That's how my best friend's boyfriend was to me, but we're cool now. He said it was because he thought I was being mean to him. pfff. Talk to your friend about it, she should care how he treats her friends.
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